From a recent post it disturbs me that a provider that is thinking of basing her operations in Boston went AWOL on a potential client. You can read the post from Amber Ashley on July 7 for your background information. But it seems she pissed him off and he called her an asshole and fat. Then she went crazy and put his info on black boards. Now, as a potential client and hobbyist, after hearing something like that, I feel very unlikely to visit her. She seems absolutely crazy. What would she do with my info or your info? I wouldn't see her.

Your post would hold a lot more water if you were not using an alias.  By any chance, are you the one she would not see?

I have no horses in that race, but it seems she has a pretty good track record and history of great reviews. The fact that she blurted out on the board is secondary, and only brought such typical provider back channelling to the forefront.  I am sure ladies chat about such occurrences all the time, in private, and us guys know nothing about it.

I am sure plenty of men are blacklisted without knowing it, and certainly some are put there without reason. No use worrying about things you have no control over. Treat them well and you won't have any problems. If you choose not to see someone, go to the next in line.

Amber has been around for quite a while. She didn't post the guy's info on a public board, she was just venting a little.  

I read a lot of provider's posts here on TER and I sometimes decide, based on those posts, that I would not want to see that particular lady. I don't however feel the need to start a thread to mention them by name. Why do you?

Because he feels like it, and he wants opinions.
What? You don't like the way he formatted his post?
Skip it then.

Why not skip mine then?

Because he is a "Bad Dog Steve"

when the tail is on one of the women on the board.

When stuff like this never happened and everyone was happy and just simply having fun it's unreal to me what people do now a days.  When we just all had a good fucking time and fuck and be happy I know it's not a perfect world but it seems to me when the boards were about being naughty and horny. It's to bad they even have girls that just do it for the donations and not for the love of the life and a little shopping money because when it cums down to it at the end of the day we should all be happy and ready for the next fuck.

So I am a bad dog by looking at her post? And no, I was not the one, and I am flattered. I am just concerned about the quality of escorts in Boston and that we don't need ones like her saying stupid shit. I mean with all the Markoff stuff, it's really stupid to backstab someone like that. You don't know who he is or what he may do.

Amen

It's ALWAYS been about the donation and only the donation....

People need to understand from a providers standpoint this is a very difficult business.

You deal with all sort of people, and not all of them are very nice.  If someone acts in a way that's totally inappropriate, and many do there is no recourse for the provider.  Its not like she can call human resources, or the police.

This is also a very emotional business.  The service the woman is offering is very intimate and very personal.  Its understandable that some providers might get upset from time to time.

As for Amber, she does have excellent reviews and a long standing reputation both as an independant and working for an agency.

I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and see her if you like the reviews and what's in the pictures.

There are many providers who have committed much larger sins.

people =)
That guy is SUCH a tool!
His emails are ridicoulous like is this post under an alias
He never gave me any personal information for me to post so I dont know what his big deal is. He was RUDE and I have every righ tot vent and share how much aof a DICK he is w my fellow porivders and hobbyists alike so they stay away from a clown like him
I do however have his TER handle if anyone wishes to have it =)
Thanx MORON for allot he extra PR!!!
IT IS SOOOOO OBVIOUS THAT ITS YOU! Cause nobody else would give a RATS ASS.... If anyone has any soubts I do have all of his emails which CONVENIENTLY sound EXACLTY like these posts =)
Have a great one!

wants them so they can see IM TELLING THE TRUTH.  All you gave me was a FAKE name and NO ref's I could use, and YOU got smart with me and called me an asshole when I politelly declined;

"what makes you think you have any clue how long Ive been in the bizz? (CAUSE HE SAID TO ME HIS REF HAD BEEN IN THE BIZZ LONGER THAN ME WHEN I SAID I COULDNT USE HER)
Im afraid I don't think it's a good diea for us to meet, I dont know who "Valeria" is and in any case international providers dont screen vey well (in my opinion)
Hope you enjoy your time w her at the fullest and have a happy 4th of july
THIS WAS FOLLOWED BY:
Excuse me? You are an asshole. Go back to Florida. I know everyone in the biz down there. Heard of Candy? Aka Lourdes? Don't make Boston your hometown and lose some weight.
IF YOU KNEW EVERYONE YOU COULD HAVE GIVEN ME A GOOD REFERENCE!!!!!!!! get a life!

is threathening to "build a case" against me... whatever that may mean, buy in any case Eric or whatever your fucking name is, I DONT NEED YOUR PERMISSION to live in Boston or MARS for that matter, you are NOBODY to me and you need to crawl back to the whole you came out of. Anyone that knows me knows Im a good person, a good provider, a fair business person and overall a fun gal with a FEISTY perosnality. Thats;s just the way Iam , if oyu didnt like that I declined you, oh well! Would u have preferred I ignored your emails? At least I was honest and you with your SMALL EGO couldnt handle it. Be a big boy count your gains and loses and MOVE ON!!! I have pages of excellent reviews, I dont need or WANT your business, rahter FLIP brugers for a living that put up w a jerk like YOU! I choose to be with coll and lovely gentelmen that are in the HOBBY cause they LOVE women, not cause they are trying to get back at their mom or extra touchy aunt! I wouldnt hurt a fly HOWEVER and more importantly I have a BIZZ to run. I have built my good name on gaining hobbyists respect and building friendships DO YOU REALLY THINK I'D JEOPARDIZE MY GOOD NAME FOR YOU???? Dont flatter yourself! This is a FALSE ACCUSATION, I have NOT EXPOSED YOUR INFO as I didnt have any to expose to being with, but hey FELL FREE TO SEND IT MY WAY AND I FU SO DESPERATELLY WANT ME TO I'LL POST IT ON C/L for you!!! LOL ON THE GAY MEN PERSONALS!!!! LOL!!!!

Just adding to your drama.

Hope you feel better in the morning.

then where is the appropriate place to post his concerns ?

Do a providers good reviews dictate that she is sane and not loose with her information ?

I am just posing a question, I dont think I have ever seen a post like this before.

xo lisa

when a provider declined to see him.

a man that has no respect for a woman's "right to say no" is potentially dangerous.

i wouldnt be too concerned about someone putting your information on one and judging from your post and your blatant disregard for a woman's safety issues, i'm willing to bet yours already is anyway, but they are only read by other providers and would have absolutely no effect on a guy's personal or private life other than to keep him away from other providers.

i'd be waaaay more concerned about the provider who tells a guy that he is listed because she obviously has a problem keeping secrets and is showing a blatant disregard for other people's safety isnt she ?

you can expect to be black listed. If you then take it a step further and clumsily use an "alias" to try to back yourself up .. umm then you're just a dork who's been black listed.

seriously think about it, we screen to be/stay SAFE and you're in BOSTON where that guy KILLED that provider. So please try to grow up a little bit this isnt a game for children. We might be providers but were not stupid.

While TER is certainly an appropriate place to post legitimate concerns it is not, or at least should not be, a place for pissing contests between providers and hobbyists...

The OP in this case was not posting anything factual he was just wondering out loud about a post that we all probably read three or four days ago and already processed on our own.

I have seen many posts like this before.
If you do a search under "hidden agenda" they will all show up (note:J/K)

I dont try to blacklist unless I feel like they are giving fake info to do malice.

Normally, they are forthcoming that it is fake info when I call them on it.

But, I definitely wont see them, I just chalk it up to the business.

xo Lisa

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most men (when we decline seeing them because they are unverifiable) just go about their merry bizz, they dont insult us, accuse us of outting them, spread rumors about building a "CASE" against us in FL, and instill fear in us saying; " I will see you, you just wont know its me" which only leads me to believe that his intention to see me is ONLY to harm me
So based on FEAR and for the protection of other girls, I posted a WARNING, JUST like men write reviews of RIP OFFS, it is NO different. Now he's just retaliating cause he's mad

What information did this guy provide that was fake? And if he provided fake information is Amber Ashely now doing anything by telling other providers? Seems like she is wasting time and driving herself crazy. And that she is being a hypocrite. There must be something else here that she's projecting on. Some other hidden demon in her past that she just can't get rid of. Maybe a relative died recently, maybe she was pregnant. Who knows. She's probably not sleeping much at night. Poor old woman. I feel for her.

Go ahead and post to CL. AA. I dare you. Do it. I bet you don't have the guts. Little trailer trash girl from Broward is all grown up now...can she walk the talk?

Hmmmm...

So the hobbyist mentions Broward County, and then AA mentions that he is building a case against her in Florida.  

It seems that maybe there is more to this than just one call from the hobbyist about an appointment followed by a posting from AA on the bulletin board.  Care to enlighten us, Amber?

calls =(
Im confused hun
what do u mean?
PM me under you handle NOT an ALIAS and I will answer whatever questions you may have

See post by BobbyG64u, 7/9/2009 1:01:00 PM  

"Go ahead and post to CL. AA. I dare you. Do it. I bet you don't have the guts. Little trailer trash girl from Broward is all grown up now...can she walk the talk?"