I recently got a text from a provider at 4:30 in the morning on a week night, luckily my girlfriend didn't wake up. She was a visiting provider texting me her schedule for  her upcoming Boston trip. This isn't the first time this has happened or the first provider to do this. Its bad form ladies!!!

If I call a provider, I expect not to be called back unless I leave a message saying otherwise. I don't want my # saved in your phone, I don't want my info taken down unless its for a reference and then deleted. And I especially don't want some random text from a provider that I seen from almost a year ago letting me know she's coming back to town. This is bad advertising!!! If I'm in the market for a good time, I know where to look. I don't need to be surprised by a random call or text at a bad time then have to explain to a family member, girlfriend or co-worker what that was, particularly at a bad time. Discretion is a must, thats why the majority of us hobbyist pay you for your services. its not because we cant get laid, we shell out the kind of money we do for discretion.

These actions right here along with the Zumba instructor in Maine are the reasons why I'm way more cautios about hobbying these days. I imagine it makes it harder for the discreet providers out there because I'm sure a lot of other men are way more cautious these days making it harder for info to be shared for reference purposes.

Brandon.

I have asked one particular lady to fucking smarten up and take me off her call list WTF. My s/o other saw a text that said "in Boston for two days" are you kidding she took down the # and called her. The nitt witt said "I am a business friend" instead of saying "oh wrong # sorry". Then she googled the # and it pops up her escort site oh my god thank god she does not suspect me of hobbying I mean really you serious totally reckless wrong and fucked up.

You should use a tracfone or other such device for ALL provider communications.  When you are out of the hobby loop, you will get no communications.  Keep it in a good hiding place in your car, garage, office.  Take the battery out, keep the screen locked.  Delete your call history when done.  If someone finds it, there is no incriminating evidence.

On your computer, here is a tip.  Use a non-traditional browse - Opera, Safari for a on-Mac - for all of your hobby related activities.  Delete any desktop or program shortcuts to the browser.  When you need to use it, browse for the executable file.  When you are done, delete the data from your "app data" in the user accounts.  Better yet, get a wipe program, and do a government wipe of your app data.  

Maybe too much work for a non-tech type, but this stuff works for me.

Did you dodge that bullet?  She googled the number, found the escort ad, and still doesn't suspect? Holy shit dude, you are one lucky bastard.

Ladies, what in the world are you thinking?

Guys, get a separate  hobby phone. I like getting these texts, because the phone is tucked away. Don't expect flaky providers to protect you.....that's your job.