How about........

... one of these in your closet?

Consider, if you will that you are shelling out, $200 to $400 for perhaps an hour of this lady's time.  Do you really think that she cares if you don't want to kiss or rec' uncovered oral from her?

You are the customer that wants an hour of her time.

She is there for YOUR pleasure.  

As a lady from the Danish once said, she was there to give the client "whatever would produce an orgasm", within reason and safety, of course.

GFE is from our point of view not hers!

USE your big head to think this one through.

(She will kiss the dollar bills instead of you to mend her offended heart)

Dude, I was exactly like you, only wanted penetration, was scared shitless of kissing and bbbj, daty. etc.

but the problem is once you are in the present of a good looking young lady, you dick takes over, and you brain retires.

I used to plan that, OK, I will only finger her and then boink her. but when the lady showed up, I was kissing her for no reason,

another thing bro, the ladies who do bbbj assume we all like it, so they wont ask you for permission. it happened to me when I was in your state of mind, a 20 yr old beautiful blond just took it out and put it in her mouth bareback after it got soft in the cover. I was like " errrr... all right...feels good... what the fuck, I'll let her do her job then.."

so bottom line, you might eventually get over these fears, and convert to one of us. by the way, it is NOT a paranoia like some dudes will call you out. There are legit statistic reasons not to bareback. I am just saying you will eventually give in, so not much of a point trying hard not to.

W.T.F. that was had me RMAO

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johnshoemaker said it better than i, can and i aggree alt-the-way, thats about how it goes down.

but i will add stick, to well reviewed providers, if x number of guys had no problem, how likely can you be the one to?? but fear is a good thing. natural at first and healthy!!

are your that unlucky honey... lolol (the correct answer is probably not babe)

...But provided you are verifiable and a gentleman, we are at your service and you may have whatever you choose to have.

I would suggest that if this is your approach / interest that you seek non-GFE providers.

If you have your heart set on a provider who is a known GFE it is not necessarily the acts which make a girlfriend experience and you may find that your encounter is every bit as tender and detailed even without the bodily fluid exchange that you're hoping to avoid (lol).

Treat your companion with respect and not as though she is a Typhoid Mary who is going to infect you with something that Penicillin can't cure and it will be okay/non-offensive.

Re: will providers find it wierd if...

I do not think it to be weird, everyone has different needs and boundaries. I try to accommodate as long it is within my needs and boundaries as well.
Fair?

That pic of the doll is a hoot, had me roaring, I want one!!!