Loving the new pictures and and what you have to say after deciphering you spelling jk. A lot goes on with guys and our likes and dislikes with providers. Economy is not a great one so when dropping $$ or $$$ on a provider its not a drop in the hat for most. I understand its not as if the client is looking for a refund just a little understanding and extra effort from the provider to make them happy, more so him since he is the customer.
I was in Florida last week and met this provider in Orlando. She mentioned that previous day she had a client who had severe ED and she tried to stimulate him but it was of no use. She even offered him his money back but the guy left disappointed.
Has any of the lovely ladies who grace the Boston area board experienced it and how did you handle it?
first off lets get somethings straight...
He was Very aware he has a problem
these things dont creep up over night.
He only has a right to be upset with himself for not taking care of this with his Dr.
Hookers are NOT a miricle drug for ED problems.
If anyone should be upset its her...
He knew going in he couldnt get it up but wanted her to some how make that happen?...
Hes paying for her time not for a magic trick.
We do see this all the time and I say man up and go to the Dr and take care of your health issues before you come and try to play.
Oh I love the ones who say.*this has never happened before* Bullshit
like Im some fool that hasnt seen this a time or two...
When in reality hes been ignoring his health issues for yrs.
I dont know why they dont just go to the Drs.
From the original question...no theres no money back I give you my time thats not refundable.
While I empathize with anyone dealing with sexual dysfunction issues, you need to address that with your Dr. We want to play with you and have a great time. We will do whatever we can within reasonable limits to make sure you enjoy your time with us. However, going in to a session expecting a lady to make a steel rod out of cooked spaghetti just isn't going to happen. Furthermore it is unfair to your lady friend to ask her to try in vain to suck a limp noodle back to life. We have all had those sessions and wondered at first what we were doing wrong and why his member was just hanging around there. I don't mind a little challenge once in awhile but I'm not reinventing the wheel.
Just swallow a bit of pride and take care of it. You will have a much better session, and much happier lady friends.
There are no refunds in this business when it comes to these situations. We charge for our time. The other things we just give away like bonuses because you are all so damn cute and fun to be with.
Cheers,
Grace
...And no one walks in the door with absolutely no ability to sustain an erection and looks down and says: "OMFG !!! That has NEVER happened to me EVER!"
LOL
Clients typically know themselves to the effect of
"just sit tight girl, I'll be ready again in 7.5 minutes and I'm good for four" or "its very hard for me to go again in less than a couple of hours" or "I'm high on a Viagra / Lorazepam cocktail and may be just a little drunk and I've been married 30 years so I hate condoms so I'm probably going to saw away on you for a while because I can't feel anything".
So when someone walks in the door with an ED issue
I don't feel obligated to refund or internalize that. If you're of a certain age or impotent due to years of smoking, poor nutrition and no exercise, or most commonly an illness you have no control over...we're still going to have a great time but you know yourself and its up to you to convey what still does it for you.
I would agree, no refunds for that.
However, PE is a completely different thing.
I have a handful of known friends who climax while like, kissing me or touching my skin...am I going to ask for a full gift for that?
Nah, not my style lol...but thats just me and I'm certain other ladies deal with that differently in terms of their "time" being consumed.
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Wow negative response from the start. Understand your answer yet why so negative jeez, is it the snow outside that has you so mad ? Lighten up a little bit
the op seemed to me to be on a *fishing expedition* I mean really, why would she talk to him about that, very strange.
I dont think the avarage person asks this kind of a question unless they themselves were wondering if theres a discount involved. Its just odd.
So NO theres no discount...
I see many clients with ED issues and we manage to enjoy our time together no matter what takes place. Its all about enjoying the company of a lover.
Its great when everyone plays nice and we all see fireworks but sometimes thats just not in the cards...
exhaustion stress nerves ed issues sometimes it just doesnt happen or only happens once. so you roll with it. But everyone manages to have a good time. Its not about blowin your load its about what gets you there where ever there may be.
My abruptness was aimed at the ops strange question, I still think he was testing the waters for a future mishap wondering if he should ask for a refund.
I coulde be wrong but I dont think so.
If the lady is doing what they do, and I cant get the wood, I have not performed on my end of the verbal contract.
I would never expect or request discount or refund.
The donation is for the lady's charms & wiles, not miracles. Hopefully the guy has a sense of humor.
Life doesn't always play out the way we want it. Most learn that fairly early in life.
There are other games beside hide the salami. Relax and enjoy her company.
(You guys that aren't old enough to experience the occasional first hand annoyance of aging, then just wait and keep your sense of humor. It helps in all aspects of life.)
I am in my 80s. I still have the desires I did when I was 14. My Dr. is unable to help my ED short of surgery which at my age is risky. Shoud I stop hobbying? The tone of some of these posts suggests that I shoould.
I have written ove 20 reviews, only one reflects a bad experience. Most reviews are in the 7 to 9 range and I have tried to get 10 on some of them. I have visited my ATF 6 times and I expect that to continue.I always book an hour or more for a session even though I a only good for 1 cup.
Why ?
First of all, I understand that I am paying for the ladies time and companiionship. I wuld never expect or accept a refund, And the ladies companionshp is something that I fully appreciate. Almost all of them are charming, interesting people and fun to be with. Most are beatiful and sexy as well. That I am not judged for my age or appearance, but warmly welcomed is greatly appreciated.
I love to DATY and if I can bring satisfaction to the lady (and I often do), this is a source of pride and satisfaction to me. And after a good BBBJ drains my cup, the time spen tcuddling, kissing and getting to know the person inside that gorgeous body is well worth the money.
Some of the postings in this thread suggest that I should give up and retire my "limp noodle".
I don't think so, but I now know who I won't book a session with.
Its always good to know your limits and find a way to enjoy them.
There are women see you because of your age that's true that's also another thread entirely
What does down to this we all have preferences even as providers me know what we prefer
Is not always an equal opportunity situation
But the OP was in my opinion trying to dig to see if it's possible to ask for money back
From the responses from clients as well as women
in this business the general consensus says no
you are older than anyone I would be interested in seeing.
That hasnt changed and we established that a few yrs back. I am sure you remember.
I always say everyone is not your cup of tea its all good.
Cheers
Thats right! We pay for companionship. No refunds allowed or expected. Anyways. Viagra really works if you need it. REALLY WORKS!! I had a vasectomy and the Dr gave me some samples and BaaaBooom! lol.
Viagra worked when I was young (70s) but nol onger.
The point of meeting with me isnt to get off. i am a companion, good company, sensual, just because a guy doesnt get his rocks off, Shouldnt mean he doesnt STILL have an amzing memorable time. There is so much more fun things and erotic to do besides focusing on that. You d need to use your imagination. Show him an unforgetable time. All while NOT drawing any attention to his problem. That is a touchy subject for a man, It be best to not make a big production out of it , for the mans ego s sake, Carry on and put all your sex goddess prowess efforts forth to ignore his little , did i say little? dilemma. and be careful not to make him feel embarrased. It happens. Some guys arrive and well turns out they are just plain turned off by the broad and cannpt get into it, Its nothing against the provider, i have had alot of regulars tell me this with the ones that blur out the face in photos, I know we need to do this for our privacy but agin some guys really are into a pretty face. And well if your not looker he may just have trouble getn it up like at all at the appt. I have had alot my regulars tell me when they have visitedf ladies whom dont show face they end up disapointed, to the point where they cant even get into it like.
The best thing for that partic ular situation is to be a emnetratiner and perform a great show , with out it being so much concentrating on the mans performance, You can still do a amazing performance of your oral skills, toy shows, d.p. {double lenetration on yourself show. could have a butt plug and a toy handy. I did a 2 hour date with a guy whom informed me before hand he has e.d. my neck hurt after. but i kinda pretended nothing odd was goin on and it was alot of work, u never got that break so to speak, where the sex comes, in, it actually be more like YOU should pay her MORE because actually an appt like this is more work, . so.
Loving the new pictures and and what you have to say after deciphering you spelling jk. A lot goes on with guys and our likes and dislikes with providers. Economy is not a great one so when dropping $$ or $$$ on a provider its not a drop in the hat for most. I understand its not as if the client is looking for a refund just a little understanding and extra effort from the provider to make them happy, more so him since he is the customer.
The gents whom have let me know ahead of time about their ED issues I've had wonderful times with. There are a multitude of ways to enjoy a creative, fun and sensual time while still addressing everyone's desires. It is the gents that do not acknowledge this and then sometimes we are really trying hard to help and it becomes extremely draining and not in a fun way. In sexuality all of the senses are available to be tempted and aroused. I know I appreciate a client telling me in advance if there is anything I need to know. It allows me to prepare to give the very best I can and cater to the situation at hand. I want to enjoy my time with you and make you feel wanted, and welcome. Open communication helps facilitate that greatly.
Cheers,
Grace
I thought the deal was we were paying for companionship. The ladies times, her presence and her personality? No?
Ok, OK, Ok, so we all know there is more implied than that..., but there are no guarantees in the business.
Each of the ladies posting above make very VERY good points. I know from personal conversations and interactions with many ladies that entertaining a man with ED issues, especially when he isn't prepared to face reality, can be an excruciating experience, much more work physically as well as an emotional drain on the provider.
I've walked into appointments knowing we would not be "consummating" the appointment by performing the act. But I've made it clear up front that it has nothing to do with the lady, her looks or her skills but rather my physical limitations at that particular point in time. Once you let the lady know this, the entire atmosphere changes, the pressure is off and the enjoyment of all can have no limitations.
There is more to "Hobbying" than fucking and dropping a load. You wouldn't know it by listening to some of the men on the general boards. Enjoying the touch of a beautiful woman and her sexual presence, the sensuality and often the amazing body of a some providers can be much more rewarding than filling a condom and throwing it in the trash.
There are many kinds of ladies in this business, but by and large the vast majority of the ladies I visit are woman who are givers by nature. They want to please you, almost as important as the white envelope, is their need to know they gave you an amazing time. I don't believe human nature is such that all they care about is getting you out the door. Sure there some who are like that, obviously it takes all kinds, but my personal experience has been an affirmation of the goodness in people.
Regarding money back, that's insulting, especially if the two consenting adults used the entire hour while the Lady attempted to please the man. That's ludicrous and any guy who would expect his money back asking for trouble.
Next time I'm there I should shoot three loads to porn and call this girl right after. Please provide link.
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Sarcasm intended.
I would NEVER ask for a refund. I know full well my limitations going in.