So over the yrs I have had a few who seem to think keeping an appt with, lets say the sniffles,is no big deal.

This is flu and cold season and one hell of a flu season too...Please please PLEASE...call and cancel your appt with the lady if you feel like you are getting sick.
The sniffles
colds
Cold sores
a fever w body aches
Poison ivy
pink eye ( this is so contagious)
the flu
any weird unexpained rash undiagnosed by a professional (doctor that is)
yeast infections
sore throats
Blood in your urine or cum (that aint right!)
Believe me we dont want what it is you have.
Be as respectful as we are to you.
Cancel the appt.
I will never be upset over a cancelation due to illness.
Although if you show up sick you will be sent away minus your cancelation fee. and may not be able to reschedule.

I have had a few ppl this flu season show up sick thats a no no.
The flu this yr is really bad. we dont want it.
Soon as you are better we will be happy to reschedule with you.

(oh and to the guy with blood in his cum...go to the Dr.
Dont you dare ask for cim...thats gross.)
ya ruined it for everyone buddy!

all have a happy and healthy January! lets try and keep each other safe.

xox
Nicole

I agree with you!   Be safe everyone.

Mj

I had several days off for xmas and was looking forward to seeing someone but had to cancel with a cold  Not only unfair to give it to her but I wouldn't have any fun feeling like crap so it is easier to just wait.

Nice to hear you wouldn't get mad for the cancellation!

yeah yhe fucker with the blood stop immediately  it also goes with the provider too if its that time of the month let me know so i dont so some daty

Iam disappointed as I was expecting real bitching loool

Serena Vincente x

I read somewhere 70k deaths in one year.

I was sick 4x August through December of last year and that includes a head cold, strep throat and the flu.  In two instances clients indicated at some point *during* the appointment they had recently been sick and I fell ill within days.
I could pick up a cold or sickness anyplace but its absolutely miserable sitting in the doctor's office  knowing that someone made a conscious decision to disregard my health for an hour or two of their immediate pleasure.  

Some other things I've seen:

*A client with stitches in his dick from zipping himself up in his pants fully expecting the GFE treatment

*A client who requested hand love only to bleed all over my hand.  His response?  
"Sorry about that, I just had a biopsy done"

Needless to say, I was traumatized.

*A client asked to leave because he was clearly having a genital warts outbreak.
He called me some weeks later to say he was "all better now, I went to the doctor - it was genital warts and they were burned off.  Can I see you?"
I think about that and all of the other providers he manages to see when he's not having an outbreak and others like him whenever I'm asked for BBFS.  

*Numerous clients asked to leave because they had cold sores

All of this shit is fucked up.  
But these are the kinds of things we deal with.  

It isn't fair to treat GFE providers this way.

Again, for some reason people seem to have it in their heads that we are walking petri dishes, that these are the risks we assume for the rates we are paid and that we don't care about our health.  
Many of us are insured, we are vigilant about our health, we want to remain well, we don't just charge illness to the game because that's just what comes with being an escort- it isn't and it doesn't have to be when all parties act responsibly and with consideration.

I stay home when I'm sick.  
I too wish that everyone else would have the courtesy to do the same.

Good post- with this current flu situation I'm really glad someone said it.  If it gives even one person pause and makes them have the decency to wait an appropriate amount of time following illness before booking an appointment...that is a good thing.

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Can you elaborate? Who is more dangerous, the guy with hematuria or the guy with hematospermia, and why? Is one of those a symptom of a STD, and if so, which one(s)?

Hematuria can be caused by prostate cancer (oh, right, you sure don't want to give THAT to your provider) or by recent prosate surgery,  and hematospermia can be caused by testicular cancer (God help you if you give your provider THAT) or by epidymitis, or a side-effect of taking non-non-flushing niacin. Both symptoms can occur in someone who hasn't had sex with anyone for years.

Anyone who does any of these things is obviously not thinking of anyone but themselves. Get your shit together and stop acting like such and addict!

I can't believe the crap that some people pull just because they want something...it pisses me off. Especially since, conceivably, you are messing with a number of things all of which come down to health and lively hood of the provider you are seeing and the people in which she has contact. F---ing pissed.

There is a reason that we'd prefer you simply contact us and reschedule if you are in anyway under the weather at all. None of us wants to get ill or subjected to anyone's lingering pathogens. I've had the displeasure of a hobbyist with open wounds thinking it was perfectly okay to see me. This man still see's providers. It's not okay to ever expose someone to your airborne, bloodborne, or any other infectious pathogen of any type. We do not want it. Many of us respect our health and that of our other patrons, families, and friends.

We want to enjoy our time and reduce our risk as much as possible while providing an excellent experience for you as well. So don't be offended by being asked to hop in the shower, use mouth wash, and wash your hands frequently. Also don't be afraid to ask the same of your chosen provider. Perhaps she'll join you for some intimate sudsy fun?

Don't make foolish decisions, let's be safe here not sorry!
Stay safe and happy hobbying,



Grace

Poison Ivy is NOT contagious, btw, but it is kind of gross.  You don't get poison ivy from other people.  Just sayin.