Move on...

It happens.  On one occasion, when I found myself in your boat,  I steamed for 24 hours about what to do.  I decided that continuing to be a gentleman was the best answer.  And, truth is, I got over and remain a happy hobbier.  I know it all seems unfair....but nobody ever promised fair!

DG

If all my above fellow hobbyists who advise to let it go, got bad service at a restaurant, or a bank, etc., would they let it go?  How is this different?  This is a business, and customers have a right to complain to management.  If they don't, the bad service will just continue and other customers will suffer. But who is "management" here?  If you made the appt. thru an agency, then the answer is obvious. But who do you complain to if she's an indy?  Bingo: TER. This is just what these boards were designed to do. Improve service for all members. A decent attempt should be made to give the provider a chance to explain a possible misunderstanding of course. But if she continues to be unresponsive, then in my book, it's perfectly acceptable to NAME the said provider on the boards, and save our fellow members future aggravation. That's also a fact, folks, in this biz and in life generally.  Our actions, or INACTION, affect our fellow beings. Seems like in this case, constructive complaining is perfectly acceptable.

-- Modified on 10/11/2007 2:02:25 PM

sometimes there are circumstances that prevent us from keeping an appointment, but there is NO excuse (except for death or hospital) for not calling, texting, or emailing to cancel, even if it's at the last minute.  Blatant disregard for the appointment is just plain bogus.

Give her a day or so maybe she will have a good explanation.  Otherwise, chalk it up as a learning experience.  I'm sorry that happened to you.

Be Safe, Have Fun!

Smooches,
Cami

I can't tell from your post if the lady no-showed at the location or if she just never got back to you to make final arrangements. If she no-showed and didn't either apologize or offer any explanation I would be plenty angry.  If she just decided not to schedule with you I think it's best to just move on to another lady.

It's relatively common on this board to try and compare escorting to other service industries from the customer's side but it's not always a fair comparison.  Escorting is not a normal job and it never will be. Normal service oriented behavior simply will not always apply. I'm not asking the bank teller or the waitress at my coffee shop to perform an intimate sex act with me....though the thought does sometimes cross my mind with that cute little Brazilian chick at my Dunkin' Donuts...
Providers sometimes get spooked, have a bad experience or, for whatever reason, simply can't work on a given day.
It's also important to remember that when someone comes onto this board and complains about a lady we are only hearing one side of the story.

Insist that she provide a free 2 hour session in your home.  Near the end of the second hour have your wife come in and spank her with a paddle.

-- Modified on 10/12/2007 5:34:06 AM

As I have not been on TER for several days, this post just came to my attention this evening. I believe you are referring to me ... am I correct?

If so, please accept my sincerest apologies, as I have already expressed in my emails. In fact, I did explain why I never reserved the locale for our meeting and why you never heard from me the day before our scheduled date.

My last correspondence to you included my cell phone number, and I requested that you contact me via a telephone call. I find talking on the phone to be more personal, and we can coordinate our dance cards in a more expeditious manner.

With that said, I would more than welcome the opportunity meet with you.

Again, please accept my apologies ... if it was in fact me.

Jennifer xo