Mixed with some good manners, dress and loving technique.

It happens to all of us after enough time.

Just enjoy it while it happens and be prepared to let go of it before it gets rotten.

and you guys thought we were always all business!  Damn. How did this happen?

Does this mean you are not seeing the rest of us ??

This is my first (and probably last) post, so I hope I am not breaking any rules.  I have been in the hobby since December of last year.  Since early this year, I have had an ongoing thing with a local provider that has been special.  Sweet, smart, beautiful girl, but messed up personal life.  Stood me up multiple times, would go dark for over a month, etc.  Ended up seeing her off the clock many more times than on, and I never gave her anything of real value - chocolates and cheap lunches.  Thought it meant something to her, but it seems she was just using me (and probably others) to help her through a rough patch emotionally.  As of yesterday, I am not sure I will ever hear from her again - unless the wheels fall off her personal life bus and she needs something.  Certainly not what I wanted to get into when I started the hobby, but the circumstances with her really played on my personal values.  Which, despite it all, if she does call for a platonic meeting, I will go and try to be positive - I really think had we met under different circumstances, we would have been true friends.  I have no idea what we are now.

I am trying to put a good spin on it - don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened - but it is not easy.  Makes me wonder if the hobby is worth it - internet porn never stands you up and is free!

Sighhhhh!! (lol) It's because all us guys are so totally irresistible!!

Like most bald headed guys in their '60s, my bigest problem in life is all the young women in their 20's and 30's who relentlessly pursue me. I only hobby because I have so much money that I have to find inventive ways to get rid of it. Everything I have said here is true, you can trust me...  I'm not like the others!

I'm seeing you.  call me lol.  I can never have enough men!

I am true gfe for all my hobbyiests!!!  I love them all!

Hey there!  Maybe the hobby is a hobby, but you don't know where you may find your soulmate.  At least he tried!

The hobby is worth it, especially if you see me!  We all go through rough patches and I am impressed you were there for her.  Unfortunately someone who has a messed up personal life is probably not the best girlfriend material.  You need some support as well.  Giving is a two way street.  I am probably unusual in the business, although I do read good reviews of women.  I'm sure that some of them, like myself, are sensitive, but have a good head on their shoulders.

I'm not sure lol.  but I do know that the sex is excellent and he is really sweet!

You are irresistable!!!  Yes you are!!!

I think I love you too!!!!