Look .... Let's talk about references and general safety off the bat. If I see a provider that I'm I treated in I'll call or write to get a general feel for the chemistry, but if your gonna be a total bitch right off the bat than I particularly don't want to spend time with you. I understand that you want my screening info. But also understand that I don't want to give my personal info to someone that dosent particularly have a history of being in this buisness. That's why we use references amongst other providers. Not to mention the fact that your reviews are less than stellar.

Now to get into seeing a provider with mixed reviews. I saw a girl over the summer from RSG who's scores weren't top notch but ended up being one of the best providers I've ever seen. It was Elle by the way if you were wondering. But the same goes for girls that have been reviewed highly and I see them and I'm less than impressed by her looks or performance.

And the reason I bring up the mixed reviews in regards to this topic is because sometimes its but chemistry. Just because so
Done has a great time with a provider dosent the next gentleman is.

But ladies and gentleman lets just all agree that you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. And the general understanding that maybe seeing a new provider / client can be a little scary. But it's definitley not gonna help if your gonna be a total bitch / dick on the phone.

Have a safe a weekend.
Brandon B. out !!!!

I just had a similar experience trying to setup an appt. and I'm baffled as to why some ladies are like this and think with this kinda Karma things won't eventually come back to bite them, I mean gorgeous on the outside, great website, pics , says all the right things in their intro and ads, great reviews but then inside.. Bitter or Flakey. In terms of screening, I know in the first 15 secs if this person is for me or not . I genuinely try to let them see that I'm cool and friendly and have references and give them a chance to show me once their guard is down the same. I get caught up in it too much I think, I shouldn't care and have a similar attitude towards the ladies but I'm not built that way and also believe in honey draws more fly's than vinegar moniker. Very frustrating though to say the least. I just have to get better at my choices or stick with who I know...tough sometimes to read people without an actual face to face encounter and by then it is what it is..Merry Xmas everyone and be safe!

Some of my reviews totally suck, but for some reason I have many client returns, taken out to meals, bought gifts and sometimes I'm clients ATF.  Weird.   But I am very caring, so maybe it makes up for my faults.

You do not screen, this doesn't apply to you

No excuses, if your having a bad day don't indulge, with that said, I too have answered my phone whilst in the midst of a bad happenings or day and until after the call, I don't even realize I may have been curt. Most times I'll call right back and appologise, not requesting a visit, just agreeing my behavior was uncallled for and unwarrented. With that too said, you guys have to sometimes understand how your communication is percieved as well, i.e.

1. a random text that says, hi, answer, another says bus?y, answer, another is again a one liner, is it rude to send web address and don't answer text anymore?

2. email exchnage from today. was my response rude? only for him to cut and paste this same thing into the form. (go there and simply scroll over fields for pop up warnings) what should I have said to him after the cut and paste?

From: "b
To: [email protected]
Sent: Saturday, December 17, 2011 8:52 PM
From: net
Hello Mistress,
I do need to submit to you, and have you do all kinds of things to me. I want you to whip my ass until I beg you to fuck me, then have your way with me. I have never done this, but am very ready to do so! Please respond and tell me how I can make this happen.
Thanks,
B

you can start by going to my website and reading the warnings in my ask a question/contact page here http://web.me.com/joilove/test/Contact.html


3. emails or phone calls that start with hey sexy hows it going? I was just .... and wanted you to cumm over and party with me (in the creepiest trying to be sexy voice ever) what happend to hello, this is .... may I speak to ....? We don't know you either, why should we pretend to be overly excited when you don't act like a normal person approaching them? It is spooky not friendly.

In short I agree, bad service is bad service, all I ask is before you throw her/us/me under the bus, take into consideration the way that you approach her, even if you think your joke, pick up line is a charming ice breaker, her humar may be different and she may see it as rude or ill mannered. Just a small FYI from my view. Until we meet,

Spread Joi
be safe, happy holidays

Yes, I do screen now.  I guess you haven't been updated.

Thx Joi for the perspective, I emailed this well known provider after she flaked up on me(I'm whitelisted by her btw) that the one thing I couldn't understand from both sides was at times people demonstrating lack of respect or care in this business. She has not replied to this point. It bothered me but I had to realize it is what it is..and for whatever reason she chose not to see me, or let me know what was up.

That have taken the fun out of the game. This is an illicit passtime. Your not calling your local electrician.
Give me the good ol days when call girls felt free to say what ever they felt they needed to say on the phone.
They were more confident back then. Now they're all contentious of getting flack on the boards.
I called a girl recently, and she didnt want to see me because she was worried -she thought I would
say something bad about her. What???
This is supposed to make it easier to see girls, not harder.
In 1980 I paid 300 for a girl to come to my hotel.
2011 I pay 200- she pays for the room.
I'd be pissed off too.
So basically, when your calling a girl with low rates, it's the same as a hooker on the street, only she  has a computer. You can't get all puffy about it if she isnt a refined socialite on the phone.

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