Hi guys, it is just me or has it been happening to others on here as well. Where providers and Sugar babies will have you cash app them and then just disappear on you and not meet up as planned. Has this happened to others on here? Is there a way to weed put the fakes from the real?

that leaves a paper trail, unless of course they are out to scam them, which is just what seems what happens.

I know a lot of legit girls are now requiring deposits, and I can understand their reasons, but there are way too many scammers out there, and there is no way I am leaving digital footprints in this game.

Thank you for the advice. Definitely noted!

Thank you for the advice. Im off cash app. To many damn scammers, more now than ever

I would only give cash apps for deposits for well know providers or SB which I have seen before  
The cash app scams are usually from snap chat from girls advertising that they require a deposit then delete the account

There is a girl I think I originally saw on Tinder, named "Sara Miller" who posted her Snapchat on her Tinder profile. I added her and she posts ads on snapchat every once in a while. Every time I contact her she says she is in Somerville and will do outcalls. When I say I'm interested, she asks me to send the total amount to her via cashapp. I tell her "no, how do I know you are legitimate". She says all of her clients do that and she sent me a screenshot of someone who sent her $450. She is very attractive and posts videos and pics every once in a while and looks like she is actually in the Boston area (unless she faked that on Tinder and has an account for every city). But no way am I sending her $300 up front especially when she has no reviews, and 0 presence online outside of her snapchat. 100% a scam. I'm tired of cashapp scams. They seem to almost everywhere these days.

Paying a deposit saves lives, your grandma won't die for the 3rd time, you won't get a flat tire, and unofficial research also says paying a deposit greatly reduces your chances of catching covid-19. You can save your grandma by paying a deposit.  

Also go with ladies who diligently screen their clients, scammers could care less about your screening info

So it’s now our fault. How priceless. I researched a provider, had reputable site and still got burned. Please don’t preach to me its my fault. This lady had reviews, videos seemed legit but was a scam.

I said MOST cases happen from a gentleman not doing their research, when men have refused to pay me deposits (even though I do waive it under limited circumstances, like same day appts under 3 hrs) due to previous theft, I asked who stole from them, and everytime it was a lady with zero web presence and verification, either that or they "couldn't remember."  

Apologies to you Daphne, just was in a foul mood so I again apologize to you. By the way you look damn sexy and wish we could figure out a way to meet.

I ran into someone similar from Snapchat.  Saralarsee is her screen name. Offers gfe but wants 50% deposit.  She says all her clients do it.   I wasn’t willing.  

No offense, but no matter established or not does not mean they will not scam or screw you over
once you send them money.  Have seen it happen many times.

I too have noticed that many ladies are now asking for deposits.   I take a very skeptical view towards this.   For one thing you never know if the meeting will happen.   Even if they are a legitimate provider with reviews, P411, etc...  things happen and there is no guarantee the meeting will happen.   First off there are all the client side issues (schedule conflicts, sickness, etc...) that may or may not be reasonable grounds for cancellation, depending how far in advance you give notice and the specific circumstances of the meeting.   However if you've paid a deposit, the option to cancel w/o a financial penalty is significantly limited, and I'm reluctant to give up this flexibility.   In addition, there are various provider side issues where they want/need to cancel and then you have to take the risk of getting a refund or try to reschedule for some other time and hope that the new meeting happens.   I've seen this a few times recently.   There are several women I've reached out to , all legitimate, who ask for deposits (I declined) and then have cancelled their trips (announced on Twitter).   I'm assuming they handled all the deposits they had already collected in a responsible manner, but I don't really want to take on the hassle and risk of their refund policy.   Finally there is the issue of leaving electronic records of the encounter.   Unless you are paying a deposit in cash or via a gift card (purchased in cash) there are electronic records which can (and most likely will) come up if you get into legal trouble.   I've had some experience in this area and know how bad things can get if there are payments in your accounts that can be traced back to providers.   I say stick to cash or other untraceable means for all payments in this world.   If you don't a bad situation can be made a whole lot worse.

yup.  my single worst experience was with a woman who had 5 pages of 9/10 reviews.  Little did I know I came along during the junkie downward spiral where should couldnt hide it anymore.

The key is knowing who is "legit" and who isn't. Tinder, even Bumble have become totally infected with scammers (maybe always have been?)....