The OP made his report.
Everyone has had their say.
Much like politics or religion...it's not like anyone is going to change anyone else's mind.

It's a free market economy. Buyers and sellers.
As with any other instance, make your own decisions and choose where you spend your money.

That's about as neutral as I can get.


(angry face used for attention only)

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Hi Guys:
This is Ziggy11 from the New York Board, recently I saw a post by Raynah, that she was available this past weekend, Jan 14-15 in Boston and the burbs, I contacted her by phone, no problem, we chatted she asked for my references, no problem, we made a date for Saturday around Noon at my hotel and she never showed, she never called, she never responded to any of the numerous messages I left her.

In other words, she is a piece of shit! I heard from other guys on this board that she tends to operate that way. She can go fuck herself, she is a waste of time!
Ziggy11

What is up with these types of providers!! The reason I stick with a select few from local agencies. Independents seem to flake more easily due to the 'lack' of the middle man and the consequences!
Sure all who was interested appreciates the heads up!

Here we go with another long winded 50 posts on this thread of Raynah and by Raynah.
To be honest it's getting old.
I really wanted to see her, her reviews are mostly outstanding, that's when she show's up.
Now we're going to get some rant as to this appointment and to why she didn't or couldn't show up.
It's another case of NCNS by her.
My question is this plain and simple if we did that to her we're on the don't answer the phone list and even blacklisted. My suggestion is get your you know what together and treat the client as you want to be treated sweetheart!! No more excuses, PLEASE!!!!

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Same story here, dont confirm 15 minutes prior to if you cant make it, and dont even bother calling so I can make other plans.

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it doesn't take long to get a reputation.

She's got that reputation, and well deserved.

...and you have given us your side now.

I hope this thread doesn't turn into another "trash Raynah" session.

I urge everyone not to pass judgement on her or anyone until both sides have weighed in.

I know Raynah very well and she is a wonderful lady who I would not hesitate seeing again and again.

I will say there are times when a lady picks up a bad vibe from a guy during the screening process and decides not to go through with the date - some times at the last minute.

I'm sorry you got stood up - we've all been there and it does suck.

It think a booker would be a good investment and its obvious shes overwhelmed with demand.

You call a complete stranger all kinds of names without even knowing why what happened happened.  If it makes you feel better, my father died this past weekend. I was supposed to call you from the side of his deathbed and cancel? You are the piece of shit sir. Not me. Clearly, I missed the correct date again. And whats up with the same people jumping on my ass every 5 minutes? GET A LIFE. You don't care for me? GREAT. There are many more than you that do. Find someone else to focus your menial mind on. What sort of a man sits and talks the same shit over and over again? An idiot. I have no time for it. Sadly, its all you seem to do. I am happy to admit when I am wrong- but these posts are reaching the point of stupidity.

the word you're looking for is "incongruous". Not incongruent.

That's cool, just tell him you have your little friend and go about your biz, don't stand people up, that tells a lot about ones character or lack thereof.

Nice picture, if your father really dies\d, I am sorry. You still could have texted that something came up and you cant make it. It would have taken 10 seconds.

Guys - I'm not trying to curry favor with Raynah - I've never seen her, and I have no idea what kind of person she is.

But holy shit - you need to cut her a break.

It's a HUGE pain in the ass to get stood up - I feel for you Zig. You set aside your job, your wife, your kids, etc. You spend time setting up your alibi, etc. It's a major hassle. So, to do all that, for nothing, that stinks.

But, you definitely need to cut Raynah a break.

In this hobby, there are TONS of things that might come up that get in the way. E.g., a spouse calls unexpectedly. Your kids not feeling great. A crisis pops up at work. The clerk at the hotel looks at you suspsiciously. There's LE walking around the lobby. The place just doesn't feel right. You're not feeling well. Your car breaks down. Etc.

Sure - it'd be great if she called you, or sent some kind of message. But there are dozens of reasons why that's not always possible. I'm sure there are plenty of things that might cause you to no-show/no-call. And Raynah wouldn't be calling you a piece of shit if that happened.

That's the breaks in the hobby. We often forget, but this is a privilege, not a right. Just because you've got a couple hundred bucks in your wallet - that doesn't mean Raynah owes you something. We should be thankful that she, and other women like her, give us a shot every now and then.

I'm definitely sympathetic, Zig, but lighten up on Raynah. Judging from her reviews, she's made a LOT of guys VERY HAPPY. I think she deserves a break here. Even if she's done this before - you don't know her situation. Maybe she's got a kid or two at home, and a flaky baby sitter. Maybe she's got a car that isn't running great. Maybe she's got another job that's unpredictable. Maybe she's got a friend in need.

A little understanding and patience goes a long way.

Good luck on your next excursion - hope that works out better for you.

And Raynah - whatever happened - I hope everything works out for you.

...and I'm one of them. I guess I'm a little old fashioned in terms of "kiss and telling" and only do it on occassion for certain reasons but I gladly offer my advice on the ladies i have seen to people that post looking for a recommendation or who PM me.

I don't know you Charlie from Adam but those who know me from this board, the NE board and the Meet and Greet board   will tell you I'm an honorable man and a total gentlemen at all times - not sure what your agenda is and i usually stay out of this drama but I can't by when a sweet and fabulous lady is slandered on this board (again) when all my experiences with her have been amazing. I do know she is selective on who she sees as she should be and will not just see any guy. I'm lucky to be one of the guys she likes to see and that makes me very happy!

Radar

Thanks for the post Ziggy. That's what this board is for ( isn't it?)
Nice pic Raynah, also what this board is for (isn't it?)
Nice Ass, Raynah,(isn't it?) it's only natural many would want to be "up" it - one way or the other.
Both incongruent and incongruousare adjectives  - aren't they?

And, of course, my sincere condolences extended to Raynah for her recent loss.

Dude:

If you are not her apologist, you are way out of line.  Shit happens to everyone, but of you read this stuff on the board it happens to her far more than most. She has a few reviews, but many more detractors from my reading of the discussion board, so stop being nice. If you know something, then say it otherwise, SHUT THE FUCK UP.
She appears to operate this way, period end of story.
Yeh, she looks like a hot piece of ass, why the fuck would any of us be interested. You pay your money and you take your chances, but in this case you just set fire to time.

I am an indie as are many other Ladies and most have better work ethics than that.
you are lumping us all into a very large catagory.

A reply with a photo seems to be a provider's way of persuading through the smaller head, which is the head we readers of this site are constantly reminded to put second when makign decisions. Next of all, "drama-free" does not describe this provider withal, given the two sagas of posts with her as the leading lady. So, I conclude the OP has accomplished his goal.