for you to assume the responsibility for easing this potentially awkward moment.

The best way is to excuse yourself with a quick trip to the bathroom and relieve her of the decision. Don't make it her responsibility

One can shower, wash his hands or whatever. She only needs a minute of your time to be occupied in order to verify things are "right"

You see it posted in reviews all the time when she doesn't count it as a "classy move". But I'm tired of hearing of ladies being stiffed by creeps in a variety of different ways. I take myself out of that moment and generally excuse myself. If she wants to be discreet, that's cool. And if she wants to count it right there, that's OK too.

I would say, cut her some slack, however if she chooses to verify it in front of you because it probably means the guy didn't give her an option.

Granted there are cases when the provider simply doesn't care what you think, regardless and you're simply a "trick". But in that case you may have made the wrong choice and its salvage time...lol


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I don't think that’s so bad, some ladies have a grace about them and carry it off in a perfectly acceptable manner, while other may make you feel like a cheating scumbag. I find that when the latter is the case, these women continue to cheapen the encounter and by the end, I feel bad about the entire experience. And I do not speak from a financial perspective.

Re: Counting the donations

Hi guys.  I can honestly say I never check the envelope.  I try to spend my time with gentlemen that I don't have to be concerned about.  I have been shorted a few times in the last year or so, but as far as I can tell, most of those were mistakes.

I think GFE Providers should not count the donation in the open, but it's up to you guys to make sure that that trust level is maintained.

Brianna
xoxoxoxo

This is why I always step into the bathroom as soon as I show up. They have the right to count it and it is less embarrassing for everyone if you excuse yourself and give them a moment to conduct their business, then you can come out and conduct your business.

gimme a break

I think you guys are being a little too sensitive about this. Would a retailer be in business very long of they didn't count the money out at the register? What about the other side of the coin? At the Bank Teller would you just accept a wad of bills or do you appreciate it that they count out the money very deliberately in front of you. This is a business transaction and if a provider wants to count the donation it sure won't ruin it for me. Now  a lousy BJ, that would ruin things.

Sometimes I get a kick out of the reviews, especially when the reviewer makes the point of writing something like, "she didn't even ask me for the donation" or "I put it on the table, and she didn't look at it". I understand the point, but do you really think the provider is that unconcerned about the money, that she'll forget about it?

I like to get it out of the way at the beginning. Just give the money/envelope, and if she want to count it, fan herself with it, roll on the bed with it like Demi Moore, good for her. It's her money now. This is the arrangement, and I'm more concerned with enjoying myself.

Have the money ready, take a quick shower, and come in with a great attitude. That's what I do, and hopefully it will be a good hour. If I was so concerned about the money issue, I wouldn't make the appointment in the first place.

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Re: Counting the donations

One would say that "business" is concluded once the $$$ is counted. On to the pleasure part of it!!! Aren't we all performers, in the end ?

M