Re: Attitude

Feel the same about "fantasizing about a person I hope to see next week.. she is open, unique, skilled and all around wonderful" too Also, she is cool as hell! But...  

True, sometimes I like to visit the unskilled cute and wonderful ones but still prefer to have someone who knows what she is doing, particularly in kissing department which in my experience is oh so quite rare (Anybody with tips in regards to that?). In my experience with providers I met only one (alas) that I considered that we really clicked in that department. In my opinion it's actually very easy to tell. If blood does not rush to her face after a kiss then I think it's "a kiss is just a kiss" no matter how she gasps and moans.

I could also dig a "cold fish playact," kind of when I'm sucking on her nipple or screwing her while she's doing something else (like smoking a cigarette or reading a book, maybe even (Oops) yawning at the same time as though she really doesn't give a f... . But that goes only as roleplay. If I feel frozen tundra as I'm walking in to see new provider I'm definitely turning around and leaving. With old acquaintances however that would never happen and there would be a lot of questions coming from me in regards if everything is alright. I don't just dump a girl because she happen to have a bad day. That's why you see so few reviews from me because I see mostly the same women over and over again.  

Going back to the original topic however, I do have a hard time understanding how one could like a robot. True, based on Sifi projections that's our future but even in that future those robots act peculiarly all too human. The idea of coming into a room and having a gorgeous blonde telling me: "Please take your thingy out, now I'm gonna suck you off" really doesn't sound attractive, irrespective of how good looking she could possibly be.

Interesting to read other fellas' thoughts about this.  I think a lot of us have had times when we took one for the proverbial team and met a new and unreviewed provider, somebody whose ad promised warmth and no rushing, and then you find yourself being hurried to finish when you're only ten minutes into a half-hour appointment.  I recall one such young lady who had an apartment in the Fenway, and when she opened the door she greeted me with a fabulous smile, wearing a leotard and fishnet thigh-high's.  It was 20 years ago but I remember it not because of the visual impact but because once the donation was handed over she turned into Robo - well, I'll describe her as "Robocourtesan" so as not to offend anyone.  I was glad to get out of there and never (of course) repeated with her.  On the other hand, there was another lady, much older and much plainer, but every time I saw her I had the feeling I was spending time with a woman who wanted me to enjoy every minute of our time together, and who harbored no indifference or resentment toward me whatsoever.  I must have seen her about a dozen times, which was a lot considering the hour drive to her place.  Can I have a good time with a provider who's great-looking but who inhabiting a different parallel universe during our appointment?  Usually, yeah.  But is it nearly as much fun as spending time truly with someone as opposed to just in the same room as someone? . . .  Give me a friendly attitude any ol' day, that's for sure!

What was it George Burns said?

"Sincerity is everything.  If you can fake that, you've got it made!"

Same same for attitude.  Sure, if a provider wins a mega-lottery, I don't expect her to keep seeing me for my meager donation and hopefully less meager charm.  (And of course, if I win the mega-lottery, I might expect to have somewhat less difficulty finding a steady snuggle-snookie!)

But the ladies who think their sole attraction to fellas is the pure physical access aspect of the date . . . Well, IMHO they're selling themselves short as much as us.  Just a little warmth and a little less of a business-like attitude makes me ten times more likely to become a repeat client.  Funny how irony works, huh? . . .  If she's less business-like the lady will get lots more business from me.  Otherwise, there's somebody new posting an ad (and getting reviewed) almost every day.

The ladies with the very highest reviews on ThE BoaRd are almost always the ones whose personalities are the whipped cream and cherry on top of their sexy looks and sensual skills