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Re: Apology
mauiman1 2 Reviews 646 reads
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This is exactly why I don't really post on this board anymore.

ENG919 posts an apology, for whatever reason because I didn't think it was at all necessary, and immediately is attacked by mmboston2008 telling him he is still confused and it is important to remember that it's people doing a job. Geez, thanks for clearing that up for us!

ENG919 is a well respected hobbyist and a terrific guy. I have had the pleasure of meeting him and he certainly understands this hobby and doesn't need anyone "explaining" it to him. I doubt very much he is confused about anything!

ENG9192164 reads

I apologize for the use of a word that has offended some on this board.  I should have known better as a long time memeber of such an upstanding board.   I thnak those for sharing their opinions both in the post earlier and through PM's    I just have a little confusion to wrestle with to the ones that take offense and also list PSE as a service.  But again I offer my apology to amyone offended.

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mmboston2008681 reads

I appreciate your post.  I think if you still have confusion over the use of the word "slut" on here, it may be the fact that it's important to remember that people on here are just doing a job.  

Like all of us (hopefully), it may be a job they enjoy, but it's still a role they are playing for money.  Separating that out from the "person" is critical, and it's no different than separating out an actor or actress from the role they play.  You wouldn't call an actress a "slut," if you happened to meet her, because she plays one on television.

It's made more complicated because we all have little buttons in the bedroom that are a turn on, and some women, regardless of profession, may like that word when they're very turned on.  But again, that's different than using the word in public.

Does that help?

By the way, I think these discussions are interesting and helpful.

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augustwest1660 reads

I ask this, because I can't understand the logic behind not allowing the word "slut", when I have seen the "c" word used in reviews, more than a few times.

Women and ter totally baffles me, at times!

Is this a new policy or something?

-- Modified on 8/24/2009 6:12:52 AM

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crystalforfun1424 reads

Eng919 is an absolute sweetheart and would never call someone a cum slut whore unless they liked it.

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AngieRenee Love968 reads

If people took offense to the question than that's your personal opinion. TER is trying to clean up the use of certain words which we have no control over.
Also, I just wanted to say Fking quack quack.

;)
AR

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mmboston2008994 reads

My posting (above) was not intended to be critical, and in re-reading it, I don't think it was.  If it came off that way, I'm sorry.

I was responding to the posting at the top of this thread, as well as the author's previous posting, which was titled: "A concern I would like discussion on."

By the way, below is a photo of my favorite fowl: Peeking Duck.  





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I recieved the following reason for dissapproving a recent review of a doubles session with two local Indy ladies.   In the review I used the word Slut twice in the Juicy Details section which is reserved for VIP members only,  This review was not degrading nor was it negative in any way but rather a accurtate description of the session had.   Having been a PAYING member of VIP fo years and never depending on writing reviews to get free mmebership i feel that this Moral control of the Juicy detail section is totally unwarrented.  Anyone wishing to read this review I will replace the review and substitute the word Angel in place of the word I used that was so considered by the Admins as degrading to these women.   Will TER soon be "THE EVANGELICAL REVIEW".....HELLO!!!!  I may have been missing something all these years but I thought the purpose of the reviews was to give an accurate description of your experience.  Am I correct on this?   Would love some other views.  If this post gets allowed.

status:  Unapproved  
reason:  Your review contains abusive language that is not allowed in reviews on TER. Words such as "bitch", "slut", "whore", and the like should not be used. Reviews, even negative ones, should not be overly harsh or degrading towards the provider.  

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ENG919743 reads

My confusion is gone thanks.  I have come to the conclusion that if it looks like a DUCK, and if it walks like DUCK, and if it certainly sounds like a DUCK....then I am convinced its a fucking DUCK!

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ENG9192037 reads

My prior post a few minutes ago was in reply to mmboston2008 with his references to actresses and actors.  Unfortunatly because of a simple thread that was so insignifcant to some but of interets to others this has been blown way out of proportion,  sometimes time delays Time Stamps on posts can cause problems when some are held for review longer than others.  I will end this by saying i do sincerly apologize to anyone offended.  As for TER and their methods and selective sensorship  I hope you all have a wonderful experience on here as I have discovered I do not need it.  I had some fantastic years and met some fantastic guys and gals.  The next person that finds me posting on this board I will buy them dinner at the place of thier choice.  I will say before ending this that to the wonderful lady Crystaforfun I thank you for your kind words.  You are certainly one of the most level headed providers on this board and hope you keep up your defense of others and guidence to many.

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hotcarly2704 reads

People need to lighten up and worry about themselves more!! quack quack...shake off your tail feathers hun and dont let these mindless folks bug you! Not worth the battle if someone is so insecure that they cant laugh at themselves and small shit in life! fuck em...and I love being a cum slut! LOL

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augustwest1712 reads

As long as you don't call it a fucking slut duck, you should be OK!

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mauiman1647 reads

This is exactly why I don't really post on this board anymore.

ENG919 posts an apology, for whatever reason because I didn't think it was at all necessary, and immediately is attacked by mmboston2008 telling him he is still confused and it is important to remember that it's people doing a job. Geez, thanks for clearing that up for us!

ENG919 is a well respected hobbyist and a terrific guy. I have had the pleasure of meeting him and he certainly understands this hobby and doesn't need anyone "explaining" it to him. I doubt very much he is confused about anything!

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sweetnicole11493 reads

I am not aware of the whole post but I get the direction it was going in.
Sounds to me, I may be wrong but we all bring some form of preconcieved opinions into this hobby our posts an on to the boards. it really can't be helped.
Personally all i ask is to be seen as who I am and not by what I do. There is more to me than this and I bring All of myself into most things I do.
As long as a comment is not degrading or meant to be disrespectful for the sake of doing so its all good.
So maybe I am off base as far as the whole thread went...but its all good!

Oh and NO I am Not a slut...sluts do it for free.(thats not happening...lol) I am a whore if I am anything.
bottom line is I know myself and those who don't know me really what does it matter what they think of you. I couldn't care less...

Everyone have a fabulous day. I am off to buy a new car! Good day for me!

xoxox

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Foodyguy2179 reads

for Clunker?

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Brthtkngbrooke1236 reads

from a Chris Rock skit.....

Scandelous Girl:
Why do you treat me like a hoe and not call after our night together?

Guy: Well, let me tell you something; If I am in need of someone to catch a robber breaking into  my store, I go  to the man in the  police uniform to catch him....now when the officer tells me that he is not an officer he just wears the uniform it doesnt make sense.....

Sometimes a  duck is just a fucking duck.

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mmboston2008503 reads

My posting (above) was not intended to be critical, and in re-reading it, I don't think it was.  If it came off that way, I'm sorry.

I was responding to the posting at the top of this thread, as well as the author's previous posting, which was titled: "A concern I would like discussion on."

By the way, below is a photo of my favorite fowl: Peeking Duck.

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CarnalCourtesan1637 reads

You don't owe anyone an apology, and neither do I.  If people don't like something tough shit.  This is a public forum and you will never make everyone happy.

While I may not provide the type of service you might desire at a particular time (we had this discussion via PM), it doesn't mean it's wrong.  There is something for everyone, and if you desire to be with a woman or women for an appointment who like this activity, then screw everyone else (including me).  If ladies were offended then oh well.  The Virgin Mary does not live here!

There will always be skeptics out here as there are too many men who live in a dream world because they cannot participate or their lives are not balanced because this board is everything to them.  I cannot imagine tuning into TER to torment others because you don't agree with them is the highlight of their day.  How sad are they?  But you are a true gentlemen and you go out and actually cut loose, which you deserve to do without explaining to anyone out here.

As far as words allowed on TER I can't comment because I am at a loss of how fake reviews can make it up and then in depth real reviews are rejected.  So I find the review process just as frustrating from the Provider side.  Coming from an auditing background it amazes me that TER does not see the pattern of the freeloaders, but can make the effort to pick apart real reviews.

You are an integral part of this community and no apologies are necessary.  Those that owe the community a public apology are the ones who contine to hide behind an alias spewing out complete stupidity (and no doubt they are not paying VIP's).

You are a gentleman and will always be a first class guy ENG.

KJB

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