The last thing I did last night before retiring was read your latest blog on your site.  This morning the wife wants to know who Ally is??   What do I say?

now that was a funny reply

Tell her Ally enjoys FMF

surf the web and leave evidence for your (the way you are going...)soon to be ex to stumble on and then ask the "innocent" one here "what do I do?"...Geesh!!!
try cleanin up after yourself.
basically you were surfing the web you stumbled on her, really you don't know her.
Have any idea what crap like this can do to us? Wives find it easier to blame us and not thei cheating husband. It's your wandering eye she needs to focus on. Leave Ally out of it. It's a headache we do not need. Anyway!!!

It's your problem clean up your mess.

tell her like it is,you like to read sexy blogs and she should read them with you,watching a porn with your wife is great,read one of allys blogs to her and she will be very turned on.

A man stand s up and take responsibily for his own actions.thats the problem with all of America,its everyone elses fault,

Moreover, this having happened, wtf are you doing on the board creating yet more evidence of your wandering eyes?

Geez man.

A lot of us like to read sensual stories- like Penthouse Forum etc-
just tell her that this Ally girl writes stuff that kinda get's you off-
so she soes p4p and sells it too-
if your wifey reads ally's stuff she'll see right away why you like reading it.
It doesn't mean your a paying customer!

A lot of us like to read sensual stories- like Penthouse Forum etc-
just tell her that this Ally girl writes stuff that kinda get's you off-
so she does p4p and sells it too-
if your wifey reads ally's stuff she'll see right away why you like reading it.
It doesn't mean your a paying customer!

what headache she going to have..... especially if wifey starts calling....and trust me they do, hard enough dealing with crazies out there, now she has another to add...... thanks

Before we have a public flogging of this guy, suppose, just suppose, that he meant something entirely different.

What if all he meant was that he had read Ally's blog, went to sleep, dreamed about her, and talked in his sleep. Hmmmmmm. Something to think about.

If that's not it, then I agree. Go ahead and lynch him.

A better approach. Contacting her directly via email. The public flogging is well deserved for this post. Leave Ally out of it. When your wife googles her it will obviously come back here. Nice work.
Talk about dropping the ball.

Not for nothing but this sure does sound like a joke to me. I didn't read the blog entry and unless it is clearly about him, the worst thing he got caught doing was surfing for pr0n.

My wife knows that I do. She doesn't like it but that's life.

Advice - Download another browser.  Do not pin it to the Start menu, nor your Desktop, nor Programs.  I use Opera.  I get to it by browsing for it in My Computer in a hidden place.  So, there is no evidence of "my habits" in Internet Explorer or Firefox.  Also, get a "disk wipe" utility so that you can wipe any porn, history, images that are stored in your "documents and settings" profile.  You need to practice due diligence in your hobby surfing - leave nothing to chance.  You don't want to be worrying about it during work, or any times the SO is on the machine.

It was definitely a (distasteful) joke.

I'm aware that providers have become entangled in the legal proceedings of nasty divorces but thankfully I haven't.

Yet.

Be nice now everyone : ).

Best,
Ally