Posted By: AlysonParker
I've always liked older men, but what is "older" changes, of course, as we age ourselves. When I was 18, 35 was about as old as I was genuinely interested in (I worked for an agency, though, so I didn't get to pick). When I was 20, I hooked up with a 50 year old in my personal time and didn't last more than about 15 minutes because it just felt too strange to be with someone who was my actual father's age.
I hear men over 40 say over and over that they don't feel sexy because they're going grey or don't have "abs" or are bald (they seem to forget that baldness means more testosterone which means very good things in the bedroom), and it makes me sad because there are plenty of women who find all of that immensely appealing. Is every 20-something going to be into it? Maybe not. But some are. And there are lots of women in their 30s+ who just see you as a little older or a peer and totally hot.
Men are super lucky in that there is *no* stopwatch on sexiness for you. I've been with men in their 60s who rendered me speechless, both in looks and in prowess.
The difference in approach with younger girls likely has nothing to do with your age and everything to do with theirs. There are, of course, very young women who are exceptions to what I'm about to say. But, generally speaking, no matter how bright or savvy someone is, there's just no substitute for life experience when it comes to knowing how to make a man comfortable, how to have adult social skills, how to be seductive/be seduced, etc. Especially when the client is much older.
Age isn't just a number; it comes with a power dynamic and I think many younger girls feel an automatic deferral to older men and may just generally find it harder to connect with them.
The trade off, of course, is that no one has a body like a woman in her teens and 20s. I've read reviews of 19 year olds that critique her for her approach and all I can think is "You're fucking someone who couldn't even vote in the last election. I think she should get a pass on that for having an actual, literal teenage body."
