as you why the interested parties are not willing to give me the necessary info to screen. Fine, you don't want to give me employment verification so I get a provider you have seen in the past that is not willing to give me info on the reference. I realize this is a discreet business and privacy is always a must! BUT-safety first right? Or are there providers that just see new friends with only a first name and NO SCREENING??? Thoughts....

Sorry to hear that your having this problem, but there are some no so bright people in this world. I wouldn't get worked up over them. If they don't want to be verified then that's their loss.

Enjoy your trip here.

exactly the way that you're most comfortable. If they don't want to give you the information you ask for, then you may be better off not seeing them. If I called a lady, and she didn't ask me for any more than my name, I'm pretty sure I would have to look elsewhere. That would make me extremely nervous.

Not really rocket science and let those that don't want to provide the info suffer from their ignorance.

As was previously stated - it's a two way street. Most guys don't want to spend time with a lady that doesn't verify. It's for their protection as well.

Don't change your rules.

Agreed, but she also mentions having trouble getting providers to supply her with reference info. Maybe it's something about the way she approaches them.

or the lady doesn't want the funds going to a visiting provider.

How do you screw up asking for a reference ? ? ?

I have no idea, just throwing it out there. She has no reviews so that could make someone extra cautious.

Hi all, thanks for your PM's and info, it's all appreciated. I think that sometimes clients forget that every girl in this business has started with no reviews, etc...you're not born with reviews LOL! so when they say NO to a new girl in the business is it based on getting ripped off?? or on bad experiences you guys have had in the past? Needless to say, I hope to see some of you soon while I'm in town.... on another note, why would a girl new to the business who is asking for feedback and exposure put up false advertisement, services, etc?? If this is as common as everyone makes it sound then the provider would be just wasting everyone's time....

enjoy this gorgeous weather!

why dont you see me? xo.

I was thinking about it. Your pictures are really nice. I didn't mean to suggest you were a scammer or anything, just pointing out a possible reason for the difficulty you've been having.

Did any of these gents who wanted to see you provide you any verification site info (DateCheck, RS2K, etc)?
And would you accept those who would provide this without real name/provider refs who maybe are unwilling to provide info to a new girl?

Some hobbyists (like myself) are no longer willing to give out real name.
Provider refs, TER/WL info, DateCheck and RS2K are only info I will/would provide.

Of course I will see verified gents that are verified on those sites, TER, Datecheck,RS2K, P411. Want to see me? lol.

No I didn't take it as a scammer, just curious with other experiences you guys have had with the girls that have ruined it for us legit ones... PM me if you would like to see me, I'm sure we could work something out!

There was a nice gentleman that saw me the first day I was here, he actually posted under my previous thread from the other day when I first arrived, I did not notice it until I scrolled back....glad some give me a chance!
Hope to meet you guys soon.

jordan welcome to the site.  Most all of us on here screen ladies using on way or another. so in my opinion its a two way street.  As Johnny said use date check or a white list from this site or do what the agencies do and check ID.  I wouldnt not do any screening as it could be a diaster in the making.  I personally am not married and have no problem showing my ID when asked by a provider, but other guys have to be discreet so I can see both sides of the issue.  

Good Luck

Jump at just such an invitation, honey; having a serious soft-spot for Asian ladies.
I would love nothing more than to see you and offer a review.
Unfortunately, I've committed to a visiting lady in the very near future.
Things being what they are here and my current situation limit my 'activities'.
But, please visit us again and give us some advanced notice.
You should find Boston a great place for a lady with your looks/offerings.

Be safe,
J

Hi J,
Will do....

I would never give work info. Too much for us to lose, plus, work info does not protect the provider from a bust. Any cop can get a business to verify if they want to make a bust.

While a cop could be able to have a business help them, said business would have to comply first wouldn't they?

Not saying they wouldn't, but at the same time, I'm sure some may not want to.  You can't compel a business to help bust a provider.

From what I've heard/read, usually a provider calls reception at work or anything of that nature, and just ask if said person currently works there.  Said provider usually acts as if she is calling in reference to a credit card application or something of that nature.  Something that one would typically call one's employer for.

Just my two cents...keep the change.