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crystalforfun See my TER Reviews 805 reads
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I agree, Although CIM is not a requirement for GFE(BBBJ DATY DFK) it is a plus on the St.B. scale and if you swallow you get another plus.  

Personally I cant see CIM as being PSE. Granted I dont watch much porn, maybe an occasional bukkake video but in my opinion CIM is definitely not PSE.   An example if your giving a guy in his late 60's a slow sensual bj and swallow his cum, without frothing it in your mouth or showing it or snowball.    Then its just a blow job.  If it is porn, then porn has become pretty lame.  Not saying CIM should be the norm, its an individual choice.  Every girl has the right to CIM mouth or not and to swallow or not swallow and that choice should be respected.

escalade19641225 reads

The hobby has transitioned into BBBJ becoming a norm IMO.

If she is not CIM, is it a deal breaker

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mrfisher966 reads

In fact I know one who loves COF, but not CIM; and yet another that loves CIM, but not COF.  Go figure.

But there are all kinds of interesting things that gals can do to my liking, and it doesn't have to involve any cum getting above their necklines.  If a gal has a good spirit and good skills, I'm a happy camper.

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DT_lover1021 reads

Roughly 10% will CIM based on my experience.  Not a deal-breaker by any means for me.  

CIM is one of the best reasons to repeat for me.  CBJ is the only deal-breaker in my book.

You are correct BBBJ is the norm.

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escalade1964868 reads

Most girls I see do or would  

Not a deal breaker but being on the menu is a plus IMO

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LovetoDaty857 reads

Been with couple of great CBJ ladies and perhaps meeting a couple more soon.
 Its very individual thing what you want. For me things like kissing Lfk/dfk and daty carry
More weight than bbbj.

Posted By: DT_lover
Roughly 10% will CIM based on my experience.  Not a deal-breaker by any means for me.    
   
 CIM is one of the best reasons to repeat for me.  CBJ is the only deal-breaker in my book.  
   
 You are correct BBBJ is the norm.

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Hugh69Jorgan881 reads

I agree that it's totally individual, but I must say that if the girl LOVES one or the other (CIM, COF) it's a reason see them again :)

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impposter761 reads

For me, when I'm paying for GFE, I expect BBBJ-CIM.  (I actually get more turned on by BBBJNQNS, but don't always get that.)  It could be a deal breaker depending on other variables.  

If I know in advance it's non-GFE and the donation is right, I'm even good with CBJ.

I guess it's all in the expectations vs actual experience.

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sweetnicole1875 reads

bbbj is one thing but cim and swallowing isnt really a gfe discription.
the gfe ideal is cuddling kissing passion.
every time you turn around someones trying to add more to it.

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crystalforfun806 reads

I agree, Although CIM is not a requirement for GFE(BBBJ DATY DFK) it is a plus on the St.B. scale and if you swallow you get another plus.  

Personally I cant see CIM as being PSE. Granted I dont watch much porn, maybe an occasional bukkake video but in my opinion CIM is definitely not PSE.   An example if your giving a guy in his late 60's a slow sensual bj and swallow his cum, without frothing it in your mouth or showing it or snowball.    Then its just a blow job.  If it is porn, then porn has become pretty lame.  Not saying CIM should be the norm, its an individual choice.  Every girl has the right to CIM mouth or not and to swallow or not swallow and that choice should be respected.

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Paigelynn625776 reads

Yes I agree cim in is pse and this is why I emphasize on my website that I am gfe but also enjoy pse with select gentlemen and open to new clients xxo

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KR1000735 reads

I disagree that CIM or CIM+swallow is PSE. I would characterise it as a "bonus."
I also agree CIM is not really GFE since in my experience with real "girlfriends" only one has ever swallowed - and she was just a little trashy to be a LTR but I was into her at the time.

I would say COF, snowballing, drooling cum out of your mouth onto your tits would count as PSE more-so than a good solid suck and swallow... just my 2

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TrulyMsMocha677 reads

.......well lol that's what I've done with my real life boyfriends that i've given oral to *shrugs*. So......in the hobby for the most part as part of what I considered to be GFE never thought of either as a big deal. But then again I know friends who will give oral to a bf but won't allow CIM let alone swallow......guess we're all just different types of girlfriends lol.

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sweetnicole1791 reads

i do greek BB swallow the whole 9yards with my past REAL BFs they were my real BFs this is pay for play and Im not willing to go all that far for a buck.

Am I GFE you bet...do I swallow, nope.

its all up to interpitation really.

I read a post a while back where someone said they expected Greek in a GFE encounter, this is why i say ppl seem to wanna push the interpritation.
if you are gfe and wanna go all out by all means go for it. my point was basically i feel theres more some expect than most are comfortable with.

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TrulyMsMocha733 reads

.....and with risk of repeating myself we're all different types of girlfriends (in and outside of the hobby) and will agree or disagree on what qualifies as what.  You think CIM and/or swallowing was always PSE.....I'm just another person that doesn't think so.
Sorta side-note more than a few actual porn stars that also escort only do cbj or if they perform bbbj don't allow cim let alone swallowing.

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impposter956 reads

Swallow is a bonus, not "required" for GFE but, for me, CIM is an important part of GFE.  If you put yourself in my position -- well, maybe hard to do w/o a penis -- I can be in ecstasy, eyes rolling back inside my head totally relaxed in mind and body except for one intense localized area of excitement and if I have to think about pulling out before climax it just ruins things.

If she pulls away as I begin, it's a disappointment, of sorts, because I can be left hanging, so to speak, but still convulsing in the air and no one helping to prolong the moment.  But please do not put the burden on ME or be angry with me if it happens CIM.  "BBBJ - no CIM or I will rip your balls off and stuff them up your ass"  kind of takes any pleasure out of the experience.  

"BBBJ" feels great.
"BBBJ-CIM" means I can get lost in the GFE moment and just enjoy.
("BBBJ - CIM for him; pull away for her" needs a new definition.)
"BBBJ - NO cim at all, not even one accidental drop" means I might as well take matters into my own hands anyway: NON-GFE.

This is why the business needs to be legalized and regulated by the government.  We need a legal, binding definition of GFE ... and I want it to be MY definition

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