Hi Ladies:
I am frustrated again to see the same rip off guy up to the same old tricks. DO NOT see anyone affiliated with The Big Dig project until you check the Client Database (on that other board!) or the Bad Client List. The guy's initials are C.N. He has ripped off several ladies in the past 3 years and I noticed that someone just posted again. I saw him twice at least 2-3 years ago and the first time was fine, but the second time he barely left enough to cover the room. He has done worse to others... (he can be dangerous)
If you have any questions write me, or check the Client Database.
To the lady recently ripped off, the Big Dig (see bigdig.com) has a main number which is (The Central Artery project’s general number) 617-951-6000. There is an option to reach a party by last name. Since he has no concerns with continually using his big dig address, I would give him a jingle and ask him if he forgot to add something to the envelope (he really only left $40?)
My number one client concern is privacy, but this guy (as I recall he lives in Wellesley, MA and also ripped Justine off a couple of years back) needs to be stopped. My second experience with him was short of rape and I was shaken for weeks and to add insult to injury, I had to foot some of the room bill (what can I say, I was younger, more trusting and innocent in my early days of hobbying). I say you call him on the carpet and get what is owed to you.
Take care and I am sorry this happened to you. I am glad he did not hurt you and if you would like any more info, please contact me. I cannot tell who you are by the post in the database.
Again, I believe in maintaining total client confidentiality (I keep absolutely nothing, no names, no numbers, no e-mail addresses) and everything stays in my head, but the experiece with this guy was so scarey the second time I will never forget his name and his affiliation with the Big Dig Project.
Mean people suck! Stay safe~
Hugs, Kate xo [email protected]
I wish I came across a message like this a few months ago. If this is the same guy I think, he is a total jerk!!! He says he works at the Boston Dig. He came in pretty dirty from work and asked to take a shower. I had no problem w/ that. I actually appreciated the idea, since he was filthy from work. Me and my friend did a two girl show for him. He duked us both of the whole contribution. There was some confussion. She thought I collected. I thought she collected. It never happened to us before. The red light went off when he asked for water and then I asked him for the contribution, because I realized it never was collected. He opened the door, pushed me aside and ran out the door. I was not dresses so I could not go after him. My friend ran after him, caught up to him and demanded the $. I don't think he's used to a girl persueing him. He was sh**ing bricks when she caught up to him and grabbed him by the back of his neck and demanded our $. Unfortunately he did not have a penny even on him. I'm sure he left him wallet in the car to ensure that he did not have any money on him. Let me run in to him again. It will not be nice for him. I have since made arrangements so this will not ever be an issue again. Thanks for sharing your story. It doesn't make me feel better that it happened to someone else, but better to know that I'm not the only one.
TIA
I hope it helps another lady. Three things with me: 1) I ALWAYS maintain client confidentiality 2) I truly am not money hungry, I have other income but I HATE seeing ladies ripped off, never mind potentially hurt because this guy can be violent. 3)I want to help others as much as I can, that goes for the ladies and the gents.
This guy is bad news and I disliked posting personal information but how else would you reach ladies (and traveling girls). It's almost impossible to back channel everyone as they may not be on the list.
Sorry if any gents feel I wasted the bandwidth but please understand that part of how we treat you is based on our environment and experience with other men, so a jerk like this ruins it for everyone.
Ladies, e-mail me and I may be able to help you. I'm kind of curious just how many victims this guy has had, and also if he has gotten violent with anyone else.
I hope you all have a great 4th.
Hugs, Kate xo
Kate,
As far as I'm concerned, your post is fine.
You didn't point directly to the guy but you provided enough info to warn the other ladies. Good job!
Everyone deserves to be safe.
thirsty