I can't understand some of the providers in the Boston area.

They want references and verification information that would make the FBI envious.  Fair enough, I'm up for that.  Nothing to hide and a good rep gets you lots.

What I can't understand is why some (I'm up to 4 now) providers get offended if you as for references/reviews on them in exchange AFTER they have verified me to hell and back.

It is apparent to me that referals in both directions should be the norm.  I do see providers without reviews on occasion when another provider asks me to help get someone started (usually a great job), but for a provider to expect a hobbist to "dry-run" them just on there say-so is getting a bit lame.

Personnaly, I don't think taking one for the troops is all it is cracked up to be.  BTW: I hobby in the $300 - $500 range, so taking a hit at that level is even more painful.

Thanks for letting me get that off my chest.

Regards,
Loarthan

just to answer your question  all depend on provider and how she feels about reviews  but special on TER  THERE  reviews ask for too much details  Some providers don't want to 'incriminate themselves' by having in print, activities about their sessions and like to keep low profile   (For safety  reasons as well as their own  reasons.)
and time spend with friend could be different than time spend with other and always YMMV   and that time is  special for both not for everyone know what  exactly they did, AS far screening  for your safety as much for ladies safety  so both can feel SAFE and be able to have  great time and enjoy each other and not have to worry  (rather be safe than sorry)
just my opinion   .
have great week
Ps you can alway do search on other sites as well for the reviews that dont have too much details like TBD AND other sites  
OXOXO

That there are some providers, who guard their privacy, just as you may guard yours. As in my case, I have no issues on receiving reviews, by the men who choose to do one for me. Some people want them, some don't. You may want to stick with those providers who have reviews, so it's less hassle on your end.

Love, Hugs, and Kisses,

Mel

I went a couple of years "begging" that reviews NOT be done.  Suddenly one popped up, then two, then..it went on and on.  Now I just let it happen.

BUT, even without reviews I had a great following and through backchannels met new friends.  So, with that I say if someone sounds interesting she may be worth investigating through other gents (backchannel).

I find that my mailbox has several pieces of mail daily due to people reading my reviews.  I have a slight issue with that because I sense they are all excited about the spicey details, but what I truly care about providing as a service is more than physical (so to be honest, the inquiries turn me off sometimes).


I guess you have to do what you feel is best (of course to each his own) but I would say don't discount someone who does not have reviews.  Perhaps they are new (& fresh which is sometimes refreshing) or they provide an awesome service which they prefer to keep low key.  Just put your feelers out to other guys

Good luck,  Kate

Loarthan,

I feel you pain man...and understand where you are coming from, but you have to respect the womans wishes as it is her ass on the line (no pun intended).  My recommendation to you is to only see "reviewed" providers.  I take one for the team every now and again to keep me on my toes (be it good or bad).  

As an aside, posting and ISO message may yield some of the information you seek via backchannels.

Peace,

SCOTTY