I say post the provider's names. If that's the way they operate people should know it.
A few years back I was stood up by a provider who was and still is very well known. After driving an hour and 15 minutes I sat in the hotel parking lot and called her cell more times than I care to remember for about an hour. When I was about halfway home my phone rang and it was her. Although she did not have anything resembling a good excuse she was very apologetic and full of promises. "If you give me another chance not only will I give you a discount and extra time, my attitude, enthusiasm and performance will be like nothing you've ever experienced." Well she sold me and I did make another appointment. Not to say it was a bad session it wasn't but there was no discount, no extra time and there was nothing exceptional about her performance. There was not even a "sorry about last time". At that point unfortunately it was too late to post a complaint but I did learn a lesson.To this day I wish I had blown the whistle on her right off the bat and I think about it every time I see a post of hers. I wonder how many times it's happened since then. Post the names and make them accountable!
I don't get it, maybe its the area as I've never had this much problems In other cities. I started contacting a few providers (all indys) starting last week, all highly reviewed, knowing i would be in town this week. I provided all the details they asked for. I get an initial response back and when I reply ... Nothing back. I let a few days go back and I email again... And again ... And again... Nothing. I received 1 response but she asked me for a day/time and then never got back to me. I call those who have numbers, ... No answer. Leave a message, no call back. Or I call and their mailbox is full.
Is it because they are too busy? Low volume and can't be bothered? I don't get it. In other cities I can usually book an appointment in 24 hrs and confirm with a 1 hr respond the day of.
I'm baffled and now frustrated and in need of relief.
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It is quite frustrating that you are not hearing back from these ladies, even when we may be very busy we still owe the potential date the courtesy of a reply (date requested not possible, not enough info screening wise, etc). The only reason why I won't reply to emails is when they are explicit, disrespectful or right off the bat contains info pertaining to financials, perhaps it is best that you locate someone different with a phone number in the ads so you can discuss a date comfortably over the phone as email communication doesn't seem to be working very well. Avoid calling from a blocked number also.
Have fun and be safe!
Kisses,
Paloma M.
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Thanks and that all make sense, but this isn't my first time at the rodeo. I am respectful in my emails and be it email or text or phone, I am using the preferred method as identified by the SP and never calling from a Blocked number.
Maybe it just the FBSM market in the area isn't as ripe as the FS one.
And btw, I saw your "film" on your website and I don't think I can get up from my desk for the next few minutes without getting slapped with an HR suit. You are one sexy woman.
to get a date in Boston as these ladies are so busy and always booked.
It's like trying to get a dinner reservation at a nice place at 7pm on a Saturday.
Keep trying sir.
You're not passing screening...
What, is there some wicked pissa special screening for Boston? I have zero problems in other cities.
Plus we never got to the screen part yet, they were just half-assed at responding.
All is good in the end, I moved on and found a satisfying experience.
I can't comment on screening in other cities, but I'd be surprised if you don't have issues when you refuse to provide your full name and references. At least that was my experience the two times you contacted me.
To be clear, you did ask me for information that I was not comfortable providing and I completely understood your ask. The difference is we spoke, you asked, I refused (although that sounds too harsh) and then we said goodbye and hungup. I have no issues there.
In the cases I am referring to, I am not even getting to the part where they ask for screening info. In one case I had an appointment set, she cancelled and offered another day and time and when I tried to confirm... Poof... she was no where to be found. Another answered that the day and time I wanted want available. When I asked for another and asked what worked for her... Poof... No answer back. I have 2 other examples just like this in Boston and I've never seen this in DC, Miami, NY, ... Etc.
Getting rejected for not supplying enough info on me I totally get. Answering once and then going dark I don't.
So perhaps your real issue is that you're having reliability problems with the less reputable providers (ie those who don't screen). Not really surprising.
Very very valid point, I guess I should change my approach or reset my expectations.
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I say post the provider's names. If that's the way they operate people should know it.
A few years back I was stood up by a provider who was and still is very well known. After driving an hour and 15 minutes I sat in the hotel parking lot and called her cell more times than I care to remember for about an hour. When I was about halfway home my phone rang and it was her. Although she did not have anything resembling a good excuse she was very apologetic and full of promises. "If you give me another chance not only will I give you a discount and extra time, my attitude, enthusiasm and performance will be like nothing you've ever experienced." Well she sold me and I did make another appointment. Not to say it was a bad session it wasn't but there was no discount, no extra time and there was nothing exceptional about her performance. There was not even a "sorry about last time". At that point unfortunately it was too late to post a complaint but I did learn a lesson.
To this day I wish I had blown the whistle on her right off the bat and I think about it every time I see a post of hers. I wonder how many times it's happened since then.
Post the names and make them accountable!
Are you going overboard on requests for specific things during the meetings? Have you used 'no no' words that could cause the girls legal issues? Are your references not checking out because you've been a problem client in the past by staying over on your time, not showering (it is summertime after all), gossiped about other providers during your visits with other girls, have you asked for special rates, etc... anything that would lead girls to believe you wouldn't be a fun and respectful appointment...
If this is happening with one or two, normal I think. If you're getting this from every single one, there's an issue on your end.
Just my opinion from the info you've given and I haven't read the rest of the thread.
Good luck.
As I said in another reply, it's not my first time at the rodeo and I don't have this problem in other cities.
It was just a handful of providers here, I eventually found some that worked out. It's just the first few I contacted gave one response, then disappeared.
I understand things come up, people change there minds, providers schedules change etc. etc. etc. Screenings dont check out...whatever reasons, common courtesy would be to just send a quick to the point reply saying you cant make the appointment or you cant see the person!!!
Well known highly reviewed provider vanished today on me after a few emails setting up a time to meet today...I rearranged my schedule to meet her schedule and then heard nothing back after a few attempts...WTF... A quick reply would be all that was needed....And you women complain about guys doing No-Shows!!! It goes both ways!!