I just had one

from my (female) doctor. I told her she had a half hour to get her finger out of me. I laughed but she did not. She did spark my imagination though and now I want it again. I asked my gf for it and she said "do it yourself". Looks like I'll have to pay for it.

I think they are great. It's hard to find a provider that will provide this service though.

You guys are lucky, I flunked my PSA test a bunch of years ago (cancer) and I can remember looking up what it was only after being diagnosed and being horrified. My point is, what percentage of the population watching the Flomax commercials actually knows what the biological purpose of a prostate gland is? Just wonderin'

I really enjoy giving a prostate massage, but not every man likes it.  I will usually start with more external play in the area and then slowly begin to explore watching for reactions.  It makes it easier if I know a man is open to and enjoys this type of play.

I'm scared I would poop

You don't even need to get that far

One of the best orgasm's I have had was BJ + condom on fingertip with some lube  There are a HUGE amount of nerves around the anus... she basically just finger fucked me with the tip of a finger.  No more than half an inch in.

Came faster than I have even done in my life.  Then she did it again 20 minutes later with the same result.  I literally felt cheated by my own body because I came so fast (and hard!!!... I think I tore the sheets with my finger nails!).  This was much more mind blowing than a full prostate massage.  

Pity the lady in question is not a local....

Gents:  get over any homophobic fears you have and try it (nobody has to know you tried it!)

There is nothing Bi Or gay about a prostate massage, its orgasm bliss

When I first started in the hobby, I would ask my lovers, if they would like me to massage their prostate. Instantly they would get defensive and say "No, I am not gay." So I just started providing it without asking. I would play with that little bridge between the ass and balls which they always respond too. Then I gently dive in to touch that sweet spot of mind blowing pleasure. It's the most powerful ejaculation a man can experience. This is especially good for men who have a hard time completing. Try it, it will be the most erotic thing you have ever done.