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So I've always been an established lady with reviews and the great majority of my business comes from online, but I've never been opposed to meetings outside of that.
Risky, like anything else yes. When put in perspective, screening is much easier when your just chatting up a guy who is ogling you to the heavens (we're hotties so it happens, often). Regardless if I'm wearing knee length skirt and a turtleneck (hell, I could be wearing a damn moo moo and I'm constantly having to shake guys trying to shake the urge to hump my leg as I walk in a room, anyway!!!) As many of us do (being oversexed hence pheromones going haywire) I've got appeal, and in Hotel bars and restaurants guys are always wondering: 'is she working or is she just a square'? Especially in Vegas, which is where this first story takes place.
So I'm staying a swanky spot on the strip during convention season. Back then I was new, young, and very Entrepreneurial, I had simple business cards made with my name and #. I used discretion with who I gave them out to but in hindsight I wouldn't do that now. Everyone has cellphones now and it's just easier to exchange #s.
I was walking down my hall way and I could hear this man cursing up a storm. I bend the corner and he's kicking and screaming at the soda machine. I stop and ask:
'did it take your money?'
'Yes it's taken 4 of my dollar bills and no soda'
I had used the machine earlier and so I assumed the issue was the bills and coins should work as they did before. I reach into my purse and grab some coins and bought the disgruntled man some sodas and it totally changed his mood. We chat for a few about why he's in town. As we walk down the hall I mention how many rooms had a very fragrant smoke coming from under the doors. It was literally every other room and the whole hallway reeked. He said he was a Photographer from Cali and most of the ppl come from Cali bring their herbs and do their insense thing. He said it was common and nobody cared. OBVIOUSLY!!! What a time... He was very appreciative and asked how he could repay me since he was out of dollar bills at this point. He offered his insense. Screening, done! I declined. He asked what I do and that's when I slipped him my card with a coy smile, ended the interaction and headed to my room. Which was a few doors down from him. I turn around before walking into my room and there he still was (!!!) watching me walk away with an impressed smirk on his face. I smirk back and walk in my room.
15 minutes later I get a pm on ter. IT WAS HIM YALL! Lol. What are the odds. Pretty high tbh. I mean... it's a man, in a hotel, in Vegas, comaaaahn...
To make a long story short, we had a blast! He said he only had a fee hundred to spend but he only wanted me to come downstairs and everything he won would be for me. He gives me two bills and we hit the casino downstairs with the last bill. Being the good luck charm I am, he kept hitting at the craps table and gave me every bit of his earnings somewhere over 300. I will never forget that night. He was so cool.
Im pretty sure one of my reviews is from him. It wasn circa 2007 incase anyone is curious about the deets.
There are other stories but I'm about to get out of this bath. Let me know if you want more stories.
While I don't make prowling my main MO, it is doable. On the woman's end of the situation screening is not an issue. Men approach women all the time. I'm that kind of person who ppl tell their whole life story too in minutes of meeting them (a blessing & a curse). It's easy to tell if a guy just a regular guy. Being a single woman on a hotel bar or casino, anyone is deep down wondering if I'm working. I never make it obvious, but it's easy to eventually come out after a drink or two.
On the man's side of this scenario I suggest just buying a girl youve been making lots of eye contact with a drink, chat girls up and wait for them to mention it to you. I would definitely avoid women who immediately come out and ask you if you want a date. That's a red flag of desperation or worse for sure.
I can see how it could be hard for a man to decipher how to approach the whole thing. Just be charming and patient. Use your intuition. You just might get lucky and meet a lovely lady, like me!
I often have unpopular opinions but the way the net is these days it wouldn't hurt for me to brush up on my pro prowling. I wish it were as easy as sending out my bat signal (see pic below).
Working outside isn't just walking up to eachother, blindly asking 'do you want a date?' 'do you want a date?' do YOU want a date?'. It's a refined finesse, a typical encounter with a twist, an enigma with a revealing happy ending.
Happy hunting folks!!