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Prescreening
Hi:
I am a very concerned with all the demands for prescreening, especially from individual escort providers. Information such as company name and telephone number, reference provider's name and telephone number, age and race, etc. is some of the information demanded.
Obviously, improper disclosure of this information can hurt both the hobbyist and the reference providers. The escort provider, of course, is transfering all the risk of engaging in an illegal activity to the hobbyist and possibly providing a fund of very dire disclosure of an illegal activity to the LE, to families, to the media and to the hobbyist's employer.
This information provides protection for the escort provider, which is beneficial for her safety, but what about the hobbyist? What safeguards are in place to protect the confidentiality of both the reference providers and the hobbyist?
Am I being overly concerned or have the escort providers developed security procedures that protect all involved?
I always ask for references of women who are currently advertising. Ask the women you see if they would provide references for you. Also, its a trust me/trust you situation. If the hobbyist has no references, you have to disclose more info, but if you choose a well reviewed woman, it should lessen your anxienty.
Kisses, and good luck!
Morgan
get white listed here I do it even for those who dont post or review if you are a member free or vip you can be whitelisted it makes it easy when you need a referral fast there are others I utilize. i dont keep this info on file or computer or paper it is in my mind so if I lose my mind it doesnt get in the wrong hands! Angela Lindfol
Wonderful, we get to talk about screening again....
provide the info you are comfortable giving. but as Camile pointed out it's a two way street. The less screening a provider does, the bigger the risk of an issue.
I also agree with Camile in that you have NO GUARANTEE. You need to do your homework on the lady you are seeing.
Once you get some reviews with some well known providers, they can be used as references which will often (not always) reduce the amount of info you have to give out.
It's the ladies choice what info she wants in order to be comfortable seeing you. If you are not comfortable giving her the info she wants, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea...
The same ones screaming about screening are the ones who are shocked when their favorite provider gets nabbed in a stiing- Use of a little common sense goes a long way in this business!
-- Modified on 7/31/2008 9:51:04 AM
In a way.... 5 of your 7 reviews seem to be from girls you hook up with, once on CL. One time deals. You may see many other women and just choose not to review them, so don't take that as a put down. But by and large I can't say I would trust that group with my personal info either. If the women that you are seeing now are screening, consider that you are probably taking a step in the right direction of more professional providers.
It basically comes down to the question of, "are you going to give the info or not"?
If that is the case then see some good, well reviewed, professionals and after a few times you will get over the feeling that you are exposing too much. Still use your head, but it might just be a bump in the road.
You can search posts and re-read them all day long on this topic, but I wouldn't expect anyone to change a darn thing. It's a safety issue and for those that require screening, don't count on them bending.
I agree with Camille's post, and that says it all basically. Do your homework, there are NO guarantees and limit your own risk/ exposure.
As one who has had some very good experience with CL providers, I would never give out screening information to someone from that resource, however. Only those who have reviews on TER or another reputable site.
are we going to beat this poor horse?!!!
All ANYONE needs to do is run a search on the messages for the past year or two (or three or four) and the results will be astonishing ......
............... the same damn answer that Camille & Yorkie pointed out. It hasn't changed and it never will (Thankfully)!!!
If you want to see a lady who screens you have the option of either providing the info she wants and getting an appointment or not providing the info and not getting the appointment...
We ask them to trust us, we need to trust them as well.
Threads like this are as pointless as "Why does she charge so much" whines. Hobby within your budget and dispense information only within your comfort zone. There isn't much point in complaining about how a lady chooses to conduct her business. It is, after all, her business.
-- Modified on 7/31/2008 11:35:37 AM
There are many women who don't have a detailed screening process. I agree with Camille, who made a very logical response: "The less screening the more likely a bust is and THAT is what will send your info to the wrong hands."
Also keep in mind ladies only screen a gentlemen once. Many companions I've met who applied this process, disposed of all the information after the first date. What they need to know, is locked away in their head and recorded no where.
If you are going to choose amongst women who do screen carefully, research them before initiating a date. Choose a lady that has been around for one or two years. If she doesn't have reviews, don't worry, that also means no one has anything terrible to say about her in that span of time.
Check if she posts anywhere, does she have a temper? Does she seem to be imbalanced or confrontational?
Most women are very careful with information, as it would devastate their own lives as well.
What prescreening ?. I called emailed and called boston int on a Sunday.. they literally asked nothing but my name. I was so relieved and thankful to them for caring for my privacy
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