for me to screen etc. He's not well known or anything, never heard of him and none of the TER Bos locals either. When I politelly delcined he sent me a rude email calling me an "asshole" and saying I "need to loose weight" which is absurd as he was the one trying to see me NOT the other way around, and all he's ever seen of me is my pics on TER and my site which are brand new and recent so if he thought I was "overwieght" why the heck is he booking right? In any case, now he's threathening to book w me under a diff name. I don't see anyone w/out ref's (and dont take ref's from just anyone) and always check ID's (could be fake I guess) HOWEVER where I need your help is, can I give you guys his info so you can relay it to the other gents so everyone can know he's threathening me and they shouldnt give him any info on me? I've already posted him on National DNS/Danger boards and the Provider borads of course but figured most of the guys here on TER are lovers not haters and Im sure dont want to be associated w this clown. Anyhting you guys suggest or can do to help?
Sorry you had a run in with a rude gent. I think you shouldn't take his email seriously if:
1). You know his put downs are not even true. 2). He doesn't continue to threaten you.
I've had similar situations. I just ignore it (unless he continues with it), but most times, it's just a gent who's embarrassed or mad he was turned away and is just reacting to your reply.
If he books with you under another name and he still doesn't have refs, then he won't get through your screening system. But if he does, well, then why didn't he give you the refs in the first place.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. He's just blowing off steam at the moment.
I feel bad for you AA, but going to all that trouble is crazy, for a guy that called you an asshole and that you had to lose weight? And how is he threatening you by using a different name? And you never know who he is or who he knows. And by golly gee, it sounds like you are the crazy one.
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