On more than one occasion I've been told by a provider that I don't get to satisfy them on the first date.

Is this a control thing? Is she just spent from a previous session? I can deal with that. Is she making something up?

This bothers me to no end.

...And sometimes they stave this off with first-time clients.

It doesn't mean she isn't enjoying herself or has no intention of servicing you properly.

As a provider I like first time visitors to have pleasure.. be spoiled.. Be comfy. If we like each other and you come back we can do other stuff.. I get no shows If I offer fs. Thats why I offer just bjcim.. less no shows..

Ah...Okay the method is of no importance but I understand your point and its a good one.

The time spent was great there was no problem and I would see this provider again and I'm told that is mutual. It just struck me as odd because the phrasing both times I had experienced it was a first time reference and to speak to your point, it didn't preclude us from any activities.

They won't allow first-time clients to attempt bringing them to orgasm?

Now I don't know about that one.

You only get the "command performance" if you come back a second time.

Call me a cynic, but I just think very few of the ladies have a real O with most of us hobbyists.  

This is not a criticism of the ladies, but more a realistic assessment of the human experience.

It just seems highly unlikely that a woman seeing a few/many guys in a day/week would O with very many of them.  Afterall, it their job/work.

Hey, but I'm a guy, since when do I understand anything about a woman.

I understand about certain acts being discouraged with some clients but not so much discouragement of attempts at being brought to orgasm.

Probably just a fluke that it occurred twice recently.

I recently saw a provider. Great time, yada, yada, yada. I asked her if she was going to cum or orgasm and she responded that I'd have to come back another time for that. I thought it was strange. I prefer to have my sessions go both ways (no jokes). Maybe I'm weird like that but so far all but two providers that I've seen seem to agree. So I'm asking what’s the deal with that.

Like I said, great girl and I will see her again. She's fantastic but I wanted someone’s take on this.

my take is you can make me cum whenevah you wish

if I can MAKE you cum, but I'd certainly like to help!!!

Gee remember when nice girls did not kiss on the first date?  Is this the new kiss?  Nice girls don't come on the first date!

Just send me the bad girls then!

The girl is beautiful and has MAD skills. I think she's a naughty witch.

The thread by no means is a slam, just my need to know from the brothers and sista's out there!

I am a good witch with a TWIST