anyone else feel this way hoping their hobby phone goes off
while asking for a date from providers who advertise?

Your thoughts if ANY ??

Even in the "hobby", like the real world,  women can smell desperation. IT.....DOES.....NOT....SMELL.....GOOD. Leave a message, text, or email and if she gets back GREAT. But if she doesn't then move on to the next lovely which is the great thing about this hobby.  There's ALWAYS another fish in the sea. Now some times it's easier said than done, and I have one woman who's my weakness and at times I over do it when I want her, but believe me when there's no reply just throw another line in the water and you'll be much happier.