sexymegan mentioned in a reply below that my site looks like I'm FULL SERVICE
it's weird,
I do get asked if I'm full service even though it says SENSUAL MASSAGE right on the front of the site.

and I even put a disclaimer on my SCHEDULE page that says:
"I AM NOT a full service companion."

and if anyone reads my reviews that can find out that I am not full service as a couple of the guys who reviewed me mentioned that fact.

I don't really know what else I can write on my site to make it clearer. Anyone have any suggestions?

I tend to get alot of married men as clients, i think that to them as long as we don't have sexual intercourse it's not really cheating.
LOL
It doesn't bother me, I love my new job doing this.
One day I hope to actually get massage training and go legit cause this is friggin fun.




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Honey if you don't want people to think you are full service, you probably should not use the work escort.   In a post from a few days ago you state "I cannot escort from my sisters house"  Statements like that make it seem as if you are full service, at least to me anyway.

Good Luck,

Ashley

isn't there a such thing as a sensual massage escort?
When I think of escort I don't automatically assume sex because there are all kinds of escorts, that's why escorting isn't illegal.

-- Modified on 1/11/2004 3:44:29 PM

The reason why guys are calling you for sex has nothing to do with what YOU think and everything to do with what THEY think!  And we are conditioned to think SEX when we hear the word escort, but NOT when we hear the word massage.  

IN other words, you may technically be correct, but that is irrelevant...

Have fun, MG

P.S.  I must admit, based on your ads, I had assumed that you were FS until you stated otherwise recently...

I did not mean to make you change your site..maybe its me..I never thought anyone actually just did massage..i always thought it was a waste of a clients $..but who am I..if you have clients obviously they dont think its a waste..I am just the type who always tries to do everything..everything

-- Modified on 1/11/2004 12:41:04 PM

I've visited with a few FBSM providers. They are in every city and some are FS and I just opt for the massage. But that's just me, I enjoy a nice sensual rub down on occasion, and I think tonight is going to be one.

I don't actually mind changing my site if there is wording that can tell what I do more clearly without being too obvious to LE.

I do full body sensual massage with release but I don't want to put that on my website.
I do everything EXCEPT intercourse (for personal reasons that I don't want to discuss in detail but lets just say intercourse can be painful for me) but I can't write that on my website,
So I thought that writing sensual massage escort was CLEAR enough and then I added the 2nd disclaimer on my site that says I AM NOT A FULL SERVICE PROVIDER to make it even clearer.

And there are a lot of guy who understand exactly what that means but I also get a lot who don't understand what that means and I try to refer them to my TER reviews since I never discuss services at all neither thru email nor on the phone.

I have lost a lot of potential clients because I don't discuss services and all I will tell them is that I am not full service but I honestly don't know how to make it clearer for them and I am paranoid so I won't detail for them the things that I will do.

The funny thing is when I first started I had a young guy come see me who though I only did massage and he didn't understand about the SENSUAL part so he was in shock when I took off all my clothes and started taking off his. He got soooo nervous, but he ended up having fun. So sometimes it goes both ways, some people assume I do less than I actually do and some think I do more but I've never seen anyone who complained after seeing me.

-- Modified on 1/11/2004 3:42:07 PM

Go to the Phoenix board and look for Claudia. She is not full service, although I don't know if she has a problem with the gents misunderstanding her site. I completely understood it.

Whats the phoenix board?

-- Modified on 1/11/2004 10:21:28 PM

Phoenix as in the city in Arizona
Search the discussion board index its there.
Claudia's link is attached.

Id would have to agree i also thought you were full service. why not go to full service????
hogan

Hey thanks for the link I was totally thnking the Boston Phoenix so I was searching thru escort ads for the name Claudia
I'm a total ditz sometimes


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