Just wondering out loud as well as what others think...I have experienced several overnight dates with varying degrees of chemistry and enjoyment (mostly very good). I have had guys tell me that for the money they would rather experience multiple ladies on their bucket list rather than just one. Personally, I find multi-hour and overnight dates preferable as there is time to enhance the entire experience, provide and receive exceptional companionship (especially on my business travels) and recovery time  for multi-hour action.  I have also found that some ladies are quite negotiable despite their published rates for overnighters, especially if there is an existing or anticipated good connection between us. Thoughts?

I am a big fan of overnighters as well, but you have to figure (and what I tell them up front) is that you will have three, two hour play sessions and eight hours of sleep during her stay.  Sure the chemistry is great, but do we really develop total chemistry in an 18 hour period?  So assuming that you have three, two hour appointments with some social and cuddling time sprinkled in, just figure out what that is worth to you.

Also, I prefer to do overnight appointments after I have already seen a provider. Unfortunately, a lot of the girls I see are west coast girls and the only economical break point for them is the overnight appointment.  My ATF and I travelled to the Caribbean and all over.  It was great, because we knew up front that we could tolerate each other for extended periods of time.

You get a discount?  You must not be bald, fat, smelly like me and probably have all your teeth.  

I'm jealous.

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Overnights are better with college/student sugar babes.  and you can enjoy BBFS multiples with sugar babies without significant risk, especially if you date them for months and know them well initially.

Overnights with decent escorts will easily set you 2000$+ (the top of the cream perhaps 4k) whereas quality Sug babes on boston college/boston U/ etc go for 1000$ (or tuition + lots of shopping) or even less if you are lucky.

You can find a young cutie, buxom, tall, cute and take her out to nice dinner, wine, veal or sushi/thai/french and impress her and she is your$.  

Now I do mostly jill's prettier girls for the hour or my sug babe.

When I finally saw, for the first time, one of the providers I had added to my favorite list (one who is basically UDR and does providing as truly a supplement to a daytime job) I arranged for 2 hours. That is a decent amount of time to really relax and I feel the overall dollars spent gets you a more receptive and involved particpant.  I did, however, have the night free and as the time frame progressed it was obvious that we were both having a very good time and the chemistry and connection was there.  2 hours became 3 hours and at that point I offered an amount  about the equivalant of 2 hours more to spend the night. She readily agreed and did not get back to her hotel until about 11 AM the next morning. Made it fun to go out (we had dinner and hit some fun night clubs and danced and got "home" late and fell into bed again when we did).  Now that is one experience I would say was truly GFE but rare because to spend that much time with someone I feel you both really need to like each other. Some I have spent 2 hours with and really had enough after one hour and could never see myself with an overnighter....even providers where the sex was good.  For overnighters or long enagements there really has to be a strong interest in the other person besides the sexual component...jmho

anyone. If you think that by dating a "sugarbaby" your risk for contracting something is less. Well I want to know what your taking, or what fantasy world you live in. I know a sweet little thing who is in such a relationship and guess what?  She is a junkie and you would never know by looking at her. You wouldn't find tracks on her arms, they are in between her toes. Too often we are convinced that just because someone looks clean they are. Take your blinders off. We don't ever really know anyone....

If a patron is simply looking for the most "bang for his buck" then selecting a woman for an overnight engagement is probably not the best idea.  However, for the gentleman who enjoys seeing some sights with a lady, enjoying a meal together, attending a show or even going for a hike with plenty of time to explore each other behind closed doors...perhaps caressing each other as they drift into sleep...then waking up sans alarm but with the erotic touches of their bodies, it is a great idea.  (From my experience, the gentlemen who choose overnights are looking for the total package rather than non-stop action bcd.)

On the topic of rates, I know a number of ladies with very attractive rate structures once you get into the multiple hour range.  In fact, a trend amongst some of us is a "clock free" option, which is more time together than a lunch/dinner/show date but not an overnight (no sleeping together.)  This allows ample time to thoroughly enjoy time together without subconsciously worrying about time constraints.

Whatever your cup of tea, enjoy and play safely!