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Archie1232117 reads

There was dialog a few posts ago about BL postings.
I recently became a victim of a providers posting on BL.
The accusations are not true, but that doesn't seem to matter.  
I am very upset but these people are just ruthless .
Has anyone experienced this? If so what was the resolve?

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LamontCranston69802 reads

You can pay them off to take your name off the list or you can just say screw it and forget about it.
Since you are under an Alias, I can't tell how may reviews and references you have, but if you have a good amount of them,
you should be able to work around this BL listing.  

Sorry not much help, but it is the best I got for you

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Archie123695 reads

But I am afraid to put my real name up again as she may BL me again. When you get BL your name goes up for all to see. So she put my real name and phone number up and if you google search it comes up. FYI she is a very well know provider that is out here often.  

Just a resentful bitch.

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Heshe123553 reads

I was blacklisted by a provider who ruined my hurt my reputation in a public way. Wasn't true but they did it and I can't do shot about it.  

Posted By: Archie123
There was dialog a few posts ago about BL postings.  
 I recently became a victim of a providers posting on BL.  
 The accusations are not true, but that doesn't seem to matter.  
 I am very upset but these people are just ruthless .  
 Has anyone experienced this? If so what was the resolve?  
   
 

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Archie123533 reads

Heshe123 I wonder if it's the same woman? She was very vocal in a previous post but silent on this one.hmmmmm?  

Posted By: Heshe123
I was blacklisted by a provider who ruined my hurt my reputation in a public way. Wasn't true but they did it and I can't do shot about it.  
   
Posted By: Archie123
There was dialog a few posts ago about BL postings.  
  I recently became a victim of a providers posting on BL.  
  The accusations are not true, but that doesn't seem to matter.    
  I am very upset but these people are just ruthless .  
  Has anyone experienced this? If so what was the resolve?    
     
   

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RSpork675 reads

There have been instances of providers having their identities hijacked by vindictive people, who then impersonate that provider to BL some guy. That way they can foul-up two lives.
If you actually calmed down to read the prior posts, you'd have seen that you both got screwed over by an anonymous third-party.  
I don't claim to be any expert, but don't go impugning someone's reputation like this. You're just continuing the damage that the original black-lister/hijacker idended.
I can't imagine how fucked up it is to be on that list incorrectly, but don't spread the damage.
Happy holidays!

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Archie123548 reads

WTF you're taking about. Nobody has been claimed as the person that posted . That being said I know the person I believe to have posted is in fact the one that that did .  

Posted By: RSpork
There have been instances of providers having their identities hijacked by vindictive people, who then impersonate that provider to BL some guy. That way they can foul-up two lives.  
 If you actually calmed down to read the prior posts, you'd have seen that you both got screwed over by an anonymous third-party.  
 I don't claim to be any expert, but don't go impugning someone's reputation like this. You're just continuing the damage that the original black-lister/hijacker idended.  
 I can't imagine how fucked up it is to be on that list incorrectly, but don't spread the damage.  
 Happy holidays!

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Damonryder445 reads

Wondering who bl'd you? Why would they do that?

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PenleyDuke561 reads

I really need to start working on that  book

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Archie123499 reads

Definition of extortion

    1
    :  the act or practice of extorting especially money or other property; especially :  the offense committed by an official engaging in such practice

    2
    :  something extorted; especially :  a gross overcharge

FYI nobody mentioned your name in this thread but you. Nobody is asking for money from you.
But may the record show that the parties that I believed might have BL me might not have.

Posted By: Aiobheann
I really need to start working on that  book

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PenleyDuke549 reads

That was kinda hot 🔥

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thecandicecarter599 reads

If this site is BL.com, I think you can contact the site owner and have it removed. I have a client who was wrongfully blacklisted on a desperate site. The only situation I can think of where this would happen- perhaps the provider viewed the client as a regular and got upset when he stopped seeing her as frequently. In the future to book with a provider I suggest making a new email, not giving out your legal name to people you haven't met, and perhaps some of your current references can still provide a reference to the new provider using a new email. P411 and TER whitelists are really helpful as well!  

With most of these sites you can send an email with the help of an attorney and whether the attorney plans to follow through or not, the site will probably get nervous and remove your name. Good luck, hopefully no one is googling your name that matters in your personal or work life :/

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jack8888557 reads

I tried blacklist.com which takes me to some Hungarian website. Is that the one?

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Archie123571 reads

No .. It's blacklist for escorts .. google that  

Posted By: jack8888
I tried blacklist.com which takes me to some Hungarian website. Is that the one?

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