Same with girls who lecture you over the phone about "kiss and tell" when you ask them why they have no reviews. They always have something to hide, and tend to be loudmouth troublemakers. I've spoken with a few over the phone over the years, and always avoid seeing.
On the other hand if you see a girl and at the end of the appointment she says she does not wish to be reviewed...that is a completely different situation. Respect the girl that personally asks for no review. Happened to me twice.
My $0.02 from years of experience.
-- Modified on 1/2/2012 6:49:32 AM
Just because a lady ask for no reviews don't mean the men will listen.
Remember reviews get you Free VIP membership.
She may not check to see if there are reviews on her, since she thinks the guys are heeding
her request for no reviews.
Not sure about TER policy but I think if a provider has her reviews pulled, they cancel your membership.
So she my keep the reviews, so not to get her membership canceled.
Mod would know better on this one.
Yes I would say it is kinda strange, she has so many reviews and up to date.
but doesn't want any.
(not provider in question)
Some people seem to think that privacy stops the minute you're a publicly advertised or reviewed provider.
I disagree. After a few or after many reviews - issues and concerns about privacy do come up.
Maybe she feels like she's proven herself and should be free to be left alone. Maybe her thoughts are why keep receiving review after review if you're established? Some girls are okay with it, others never become comfortable with it, and some change their minds about it over time.
Its not nefarious, its just a personal decision and one that doesn't really stop anyone from logging on and writing about a girl even if if she doesn't prefer it.
Removing your reviews from TER is a time-consuming ordeal, additionally with their currently policies and constant policy change there is no guarantee at this point that TER will not bring delisted providers back from delistment when it suits the site to do so (as was done late last year temporarily) - so there really is no point of attempting to formally remove them once you're already here. The reviews are truly the property of the site and our privacy is not really a priority - and that's fine, the site isn't technically for us...but we do have to figure out how to work within it.
If clients want to override the text on her website they're obviously capable of doing it anyway if they're disappointed.
If she has ads running and an active website she's she's still working. If she has no new reviews despite a good history I would think that's a sign that she is meeting expectations, otherwise people would write them in spite of her rather than honoring her request.
I think you should email her directly and ask why she prefers not to be reviewed currently.
Or maybe a better idea is to PM her most recent reviewers here ( especially if anyone says in the body of the review they've seen her multiple times - regulars usually know whats up when a girl changes her practices) and find out what her motivation is or at the very least if anything has changed dramatically about her appearance or service level.
Just my thoughts, I hope it makes sense.
...reviews, as I prefer to stay UTR, and thankfully, my gentlemen friends comply with my request. I do, however, have many gentlemen "representives", on this board and others, that a gentleman may contact to verify my authenticity.
I have ads on Eros, P411, Date-Check, RS2K, and TBD. I also have a professional website. If you Google my info, you will see that it goes back many years. This is more than enough for me to do very well as a courtesan.
Hugs and Kisses
if she doesn't want you to review her and her current reviews and reputation seem to be in tact, then what is the issue here? Go get laid and enjoy yourself. If you feel compelled to write a review, don't let her know your ter handle.
requesting that you don't review her is no reason not to see her, IMHO
requested no reviews anymore on my site. The reason in my case and most other ladies that no longer want reviews is simply this. We don't want more graphic details of our incalls, personal abilities, private encounters and such publicised any further. Once a lady has proven herself, there really is no need for guys to continue to publicly detail every aspect of our private beings. After awhile the information is redundant and can only be used to verify your activity with others to others. It lends no more to her charachter or profile but numbers. If TER would allow, simple yes it's her and she's a great gall, we'd be okay, but some guys just have to say she got on her knees, spit on the tip and yada yada yada, really, is that called for?
If a lady asks for such, you should just respect it. The fact that we can not remove existing reviews and or MAKE clients STOP posting them, for whatever reasons they won't stop is out of our control. If you have liked the lady in the past, too easy just to ask. Starting rumors and or red flagging non- issues only make non-issues issues. There is usually a simple and understandable explination if you just ask. If she get's pissy then red flag questions on her but blanket statements tend to cause more problems than lend to accurate answers.
Be safe, check her out. I bet she's even better than you expect.
Love, Joi
I have a policy of not reviewing ladies that have reviews that show they are proven. I will review a lady that has four of fewer reviews and one that has a negative review or two which I completely disagree with. I will review a new lady if I think she deserves the boost. I will review a ripoff regardless. I don't review ladies that did an adequate job, but didn't blow my socks off.
A few months ago you sent me a pm with what could be a slanderous accusation of a provider. You stated you heard it from another hobbyist. This was something you told me you had no proof of and you werent sure of. Then publicly you had nothing but good things to say about the provider. If you respect the provider's privacy, why target me with this unsolicited pm?
You have no proof, it might not be true, you heard it from someone else, but it's a terrible accusation against a provider. Pms are Pms for a reason,so I obviously won't go into detail.
I think if someone has something to say about a provider, it should be posted for all to see on the board or in a review. This pm service is where provder's privacy is violated. The girl cannot defend herself against that which she doesnt know is being said about her.
I prefer my policy for reviewing, which is to tell the whole truth in a review and in a review, only. Maybe a provider may not like all that I have to say, but I won't be talking behind her back. I will, of course, respect a provider's request for no reviews, but I may be more likely to see a provider who has them. Well see. I haven't made my decision yet.
Providers, I will respect your desire for no more reviews, but don't think that your privacy is being preserved. Anyone who reviews can say anything to anyone else who reviews and you'll not know what they are saying about you.
I've also heard which providers give out their private cell phone numbers, and who is in school where, in Pms. Pms are the problem, not reviews.
-- Modified on 1/3/2012 7:12:47 AM
That's the way it used to be done and still should be. This is a review site. A provider should not benefit from TER, advertise here for free, then tell a hobbyist not to review her. That goes against the foundation of TER.
If a provider does not want reviews for privacy reasons, then her request should be honored. If she has a profile here, she has no business telling hobbyists not to review her. If she posts and advertises, I would not honor her request.
.........here? I never include photos, or links with my posts, and I do not advertise here, nor do I have a profile here.
Hugs and Kisses
although if you have VIP you can still market via PM, that doesn't bother me in the least.
There are other providers like you who have a handle without reviews attached to them. Quite honestly, I find others like you to be more honest and open without worrying about your reviews. Sort of like an alias, but not if you get my drift.
Yes, I like you!
As I said, I really couldn't figure out the reasoning for the practice when existing reviews remain up, so this information has been helpful to me. From the looks of the thread, I wasn't the only one concerned about this issue, so the ladies have had an opportunity to educated a few of us on their thinking.
Thanks again, I'm glad I brought this one up.
clients -- reviews certainly help clients sort "the wheat from the chaff," but they can be difficult to interpret, especially when there is an outlier, one exceptional review. Nor does consistency, by itself, mean much. Reviewers are like lemmings, following the crowd to the sea. I have found that it's just as important to evaluate the reviewer as the escort. By matching prior experiences, I tend to trust future prospects. If an escort gets great reviews, three or more, what does it benefit her to have additional reviews? If she gets into the "top 100", will the 21st, 99th, or 200th help or hurt? It's easy to understand why an escort would want to switch from a review to a no review policy.
companions -- there is no problem in getting prior reviews removed. I have known several women who have successfully done that by writing a letter stating that the reviews are a threat to their safety.
Some women with no reviews can be great, but many women with no reviews are problematic. Can you afford the risk? If you can, then take a chance. I've met some wonderful women that way. I've also had some unremarkable experiences. It can be exciting! And, sometimes it beats "a sure thing" or being "one in a crowd."
