I don't think it has all changed.  There are still some very special ladies out there that value the personal connection as much as the business end.  I think the problem is largely with the guys that have a much harder time seperating biz from personal...not with the ladies.

Friends With Benefits!

I totally agree all my clients are my friends & most know my real name.  Chemistry is everything!

but I think that if anything, providers are now friendlier and I develop friendships more often today than back then, though I did meet some nice gals back then, some of whom I still know to this day despite them not being providers anymore.

Because of the internet, I meet more traveling providers too.  That never seemed to be the case when just using personal ads.

There is nothing more cherished then that bond between
"regular" friends ...

* A regular always respects you as you do him

* A regular is reliable and has manners

* It is hard to think of a regular as a client, it is
more like really good friends with benefits

* Getting ready for a regular is more like getting ready
for a date

* You get excited when they email or call

* The sessions you have bring a comfort level that
makes you want to share all and more

* Regulars make you feel worth it

* With regulars you share a tight bond and strong
discreet secret friendship that only you and they know
exists

* With a regular you both want the scent of each
other to linger

* A regular makes you feel like you have an ally in the
business LOL
He is fun and it is normally way more than just the obvious he seeks, like intellectual stimulation, sharing of life stories, strawberries and champagne, candles, dances and massages

* Regular friends are a blessing  & make you feel special and wanted and beautiful.  Every time you two are together you seem to grow as lovers

* People who want to be regular but cannot afford it can
get deals if they truly want to be regulars and just ask

* It is deep and caring as well as intensely passionate with a regular!

* A regular is someone I make memories of passion, humor and triumphs that I will take with me in memory long after I have turned the page and
left the business.

* With a regular one of you can have an
"off" day without fear of a bad review

We can be friends and be intimate on a
regular basis without crossing bounda-
ries. Too many are scared of that hap-
pening so they see different woman
all the time.

Two of my best friends are women that I pay, or have paid, for sex.  What you can't do is force it to happen.  It's a process of (A) being lucky enough to hire an escort that you happen to connect with on another level. (b) being patient.

The internet, while making hobbying easier, has also brought-about the phenomenon of the "time-waster" in a way that never existed before texting and email.  Too many guys blowing provider's cell phones and e-mail boxes has made the ladies much more wary about getting involved in off the clock endeavors.