I know it is a business for the providers and that we (hobbiests) need to remember the our providers are business persons, but because of the personal nature of the relationship, I have a tough time reminding myself that it's business for them...
Sometimes the harsh realities of this hobby hit you square on the jaw.  Sometimes it's sad, other times, just plain ugly and mind-boggling.  ......
What a day feel like a loser today ..........

I think that's the danger in any kind of inter-personal relationship, not just in the "hobby". But just think of all the things that a person who is always guarded, and never vulnerable misses out on?! So there are two kinds of people in the world:  those that let go of the wheel, step on the gas,  have one hell of a ride, and risk a crash. OR you can be that person that keeps both hands on the wheel, drives the speed limit, and nothing touches them. I for one my friend prefer to step on the GAS! So if you stepped on the gas and smashed into a stop sign, BIG FREAKIN DEAL! I'll bet it was worth it if you really think about it!

Ok, that's my few minutes on the soap box today....love it or leave it! xoxox Aimie

But your foot down hang on to your balls (Don't want to hurt them)  and enjoy the ride.  

Don't think about the bad things, think of all those amazing ladies you have met.
Think of great times you have had with them.
Maybe you only saw them once, maybe more  but you had a great time with them.
That's what counts the most.

Look we all do crazy thing, but chalk it up to experience and move on.




(something to cheer you up)

An oldie but a goodie reminder of how the women really feel....

LC69, Nice picture really cheered me up, I truely had amazing and wonderful memory of the time we shared,   the business may have lost a client but I will always be a good friend.  

...if she hates her clients so much I wonder why is she in this business...there must be an alternative way for a smart woman to make money. Would I conduct business of any kind with a person who openly hates my gender, color or me individually?

In all business operations you do make long lasting friendships while making money, and rarely hate your clients, why should this business be any different. Isn't life too short to live on such hatred. The providers I have met have been normal friendly persons who may not love having sex with strangers but definitely do not detest it either. There is a big grey world in between love and hate in which we all live and actually enjoy from time to time. My two pennies worth!

But I agree with you gentleman on one thing..there's nothing worse than doing business with miserable people who hat their jobs!

Hi,

I'm sorry for your sad feelings.  I've had some bad experiences along the way but mostly good ones.  And good, for me, has come in different forms...  I've had wonderful experiences with fantastic service and beautiful women.  I've had special experiences when I've taken one for the team and discovered some great providers early or maybe experienced a slice of life that I wouldn't have had the opportunity to experience otherwise.  I realize that this makes me shallow, but I've considered it a great experience to be able to be with a stunning woman even when there's not great chemistry coming from her towards me.

I read the rant (or at least skim-read it).  I can relate to the negative feelings that a provider can experience when a client wants to get too personal.  I'm more of the married with no sex at home kind of guy who's there for the short time and then is ready to let it go and cherish the memory.

If this is the end of the road for you, so be it.  But there's no shame in taking a break and coming back.  Good luck working through these emotions.

I read the young lady's rant and she made her point, although she seemed somewhat scarred by her experience as a provider.

Most of her post was devoted to negative behavior by he customers. Some sad stuff. Hobbyist should take note. It caught my attention.

She has become very jaded and imho, should take a break from the business.

But she made some good points...

If you only knew that providers can be sensitive!!!