but I've met several very interesting gals from it and you can read their blogs and decide if they might seem right for you.

Fellow Hobbyist or Providers, Is there any other sites that have legit ads other than BP, CityVibe and EROS?

...also have ads, or at least short bios.  You do need to pay a little - a pittance compared to hobby prices - and if you don't have providers that can vouch for you you might need to provide some personal info as well.  I've met a couple ladies through those sites that I hadn't seen advertise elsewhere.