Guys...when you book an appt with your lady of choice what would you like to see once the door opens.
This is based on incall as outcall attire is somewhat deemed by venue and can be limited.
Do you like her to dress up heels dress jewelry
What type of music do you prefer cadlelit room
Are you one to do extended dates...ect

Ladies...tell us how you prefer to look for your gentlemen callers


-- Modified on 3/28/2013 1:38:44 PM

you're coming to my house I'd prefer casually dressed with the bra and panties under and the robe ready to go on once inside.

Years ago I once told a regular that "panties were a necessary evil." From that point on whenever I saw her she was "dressed to the nines" with sexy dress, high heels, stockings with garters and NO panties. Those few extra seconds saved by not having to "yank them off" seemed like an eternity when you are dying to get your tongue in "there" and then your "torpedo" in there. LOL!  Sometimes doing it with her fully dressed is a huge turn-on (for me at least).

Skirt/dress, stockings, heels, matching bra/panties or even not matching, just none of that costume stuff, jewelry optional, music and candlelight a nice touch but not necessary.

You in a sexy slinky slip..with a drink in each hand for both if us!!

Oh..and soft lights and some sexy jazz playing....

How is that for a mood??

-- Modified on 3/28/2013 8:03:37 PM

I prefer the touch of skin, not metal, so no jewelry at all.  Clothing depends on the mood.  The librarian or businesswoman look.  Or just a satin bra and a satin thong. Or perhaps a corset and thong. Or a satin, buttoned blouse and either a skirt or just a thong. Candles are nice, but soft light is okay. Norah Jones-type music is good.  Jazzy/bluesy.

generally dressed, sexy female voice music, soft lighting, and .....well, the rest is fantasy

My preference may change on the time of day of the date.  More casual in the morning, sexier by night.  It may also depend on what drew me to this lady.  Example would be a sexy little black dress with great blond hair.  All in all, simplier is better for me.  I do like a nice garter and stocking though.

-- Modified on 3/29/2013 7:30:23 AM

I prefer variety so it really depends on the lady and my mood.  I can go from leather/latex with rock music to soft satin lingerie with soft music. I prefer that the lady does not have any jewelry on unless she has a variety of piercings.  Love to see a woman who has taken some time with her hair.

Q: Do you like her to dress up heels dress jewelry?
I prefer nice and sexy outfit; show some skin, but not all, so it builds ups desire. No jewelry please, it makes some maneuvers difficult.

It needn't be schwartzleder with a corset-like fit, it could be cuero negro or sensual cuir noir,. An underbust push-up I've always found super-hot, the way it squeezes the body as if to force out the boobs. Leotards are fun, too. Loose is nice, too, if it's shiny silk or satin

Like most guys, I'm visually oriented, and probably easy to please.  If the lady is wearing a blouse and skirt and heels, hey, I'm happy; if she's wearing a sheer nightie, count me in; any sort of lingerie, yep, that's good too; nekkid or topless . . . well, I'll try not to be too offended, either.  But if she's wearing a food-stained sweatshirt and ragged jeans, I know off the bat that she doesn't understand the nature of the service she's providing.  If the room is smoky or messy and the bed is disheveled and the lady has got the t.v. on blaringly loud and when we hug she's wearing too much perfume, that's not an auspicious sign.  I'm not asking for the lady to be dressed to the nines, but how about a little bit of make-up and at least a nice blouse and jeans?  I guess that even though a lady may be right to assume that she won't be wearing the outfit for all that long into the appointment, she should dress as if she understands the basics of male psychology, never mind the basics of first impressions.

You can never make a second FIRST IMPRESSION. I think that when a guy pays a substantial sum for a ladies time he expects the lady to look the part.