you are right at some point and at some points wrong - life is not white or black  
 people are not the same ..
 if it always same  it is boring ..
 as I  said  
 be intelligent think about other people interests act naturale ..and do what  makes you happy ..  if it makes you happy take your date to gala dinner .. and I was on few dates like that for my 2 years of escorting  meeting and his family as parents and his coworkers  and his clients ..
 you need do not see working women  
 period whom you do not trust and  before you see her know her inner world what she wants form life  
 may be she just want tae you form your wife ??
 and  thinks she is better then her ?
 an you be happy with her .. then yes .. ran .. I think you speak the way you do becuase you are al; americans here and  sorry lovers I love you all
 but you and men and women a bit controlling here  and think if you  give up a bit to normal communication she will go further and take more .. as we say in russai - give her/hima finger - she.he will bite all hand ..
 you afraid of each other ..
 no need  be with us Europeans we just think differently  
.. sorry may be again I wrote some confusing things ...  but Iam not a working vehicle  
 for man to afraid of me .. and I never will  do what he thinks is not good  
 take care about clients they take care about you

Exactly .. we are just people .. and there all kind of life situations  

 as I  said  do not feel that you need hide anything and all be cool I think all women here are not stupid to jump in your hands when you are with someone or alone and not open the hands ;;0 eve you will open  your hands for hug all women from here possibly would not believe  in to that  and  would leave you alone immediately  so why so worry as if women here  just wait as compromise you ?
 
Take care about clients needs he tales care about yours we all know here that rule pretty well :  yes ??
 and Escalade  
 my warmest wishes to find as many as you want  and  still keep it normal way of thinking  
 :

......walk up on me if you want to in public there will be problems.  
The point is you dunno if i'm alone or not (and if i'm with someone if they know or not) ....keep it moving. Keep your excitement to yourself, maintain your composure like an adult and send an email or PM or something later on.

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I know you are a little slow because you were blessed with such good looks and charm. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. It has nothing to do with manners it has to do with being completely self absorbed and unable to think beyond the tip of your own nose.  

We are not your friend although we play one when we meet, we don't want to see you in public, we want you to go away until it's time to see you again and fuck your brains out and make your eyes spin backwards while you speak untold languages. Do I love that time and smile cum a lot and have fun? Well yes I sure do. Do I want to see my guys again? Yep! Just not during my private Idaho time. That's for me and there is an invisible electric fence around it. I would be very disturbed if my other sex toys randomly popped up at Jiffy Lube or the dry cleaners.

Lines can appear very blurry sometimes especially if you don't clearly understand that this is a hobby and playtime as much for some of us as it is you. Like all things we play with, they go back in the box, or get put away until next time. So if I'm utilizing you as a fuck toy in p4p and you're utilizing me we both disappear after like thieves in the night until the next great episode.

No harm or hurt feelings intended dear,  
I just don't know how to be any clearer without a serious flogging!

Grace

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can endure the light of day. But until the little mind-reading drones are going around and reporting back that the familiar woman you saw has done underground business with you, we need to forebear from giving this world of excessive laws any reason to think something is going on.  

It's like this: say I make a hole in the wall and place something of great value there, then cover the hole and finish it over  until there is no evidence of a hole. Then I tell no one I even possess this thing of great value. Result? No one comes looking for an object of great value, tearing the place apart with a "failure is not an option" attitude, because no one knows there is anything to find.  

Plant no ideas, no suspicions. Read Paul Brickhill's _The Great Escape_, about the tunnel code-named "Dick" ("Tom" was discover and "Harry" was actually used) The hatch was under some water that was under the drain grate of the shower. The captors would come in and find someone showering and never have a clue that a tunnel began below his feet.

That's how the hobbyist needs to think.

At most a polite smile of acknowledgement then when I got home maybe an email saying "Hi, was that you at xyz".  No way I would ever approach the lady in public.

I never acknowledge the guy whatsoever, but as long as I'm alone, I don't mind if someone comes up to talk to me. They key here is to not walk up and use my FAKE WHITNEY NAME. Just in case I might be with someone who is, say, 10 feet away from me when you walk up, I don't wanna have to explain why they called me Whitney.

in my current occupation I travel a lot.   I stay at a lot of hotels and I have a couple of major chains that are clients in my local territory.  if that bump into happens just play it cool.   Myself I would never embarrass a provider by calling them out in public.  I remember a couple of years ago I was having lunch at a boutique hotel in NYC. I was with a coworker from our NY office.  Anyway when we were brought into the seating area by the hostess I turned around and noticed my coworker had become very nervous.  I scanned the area and saw a lady in the seating area eating alone.  I thought I recognized her.   I hobby when I travel for work as well .   My coworkers demeanor confirmed it although I didn't mention it.  I just casually mentioned to him hey do you mind sitting in the bar so we can watch TV.  he accepted the offer and we had a nice lunch.