I initially sought out this hobby simply for excitement and fun. I now find myself enjoying making connections just as much as the sex. Of course, an alluring figure, pretty face, and smooth skin will always turn me on, but a genuine laugh/smile, good conversation, and a friendly attitude will keep me coming back for more.
My initial thoughts about this hobby, before discovering TER, was a combination of misinformation and ignorance. I used to envision an encounter with a provider as a simple phone call followed by a quickie rendezvous in a car or bathroom stall. I expected that half of the encounters would either be LE, bait and switch, or outright theft. As a newbie that did not want to have a horrendous first experience so I utilized my resources on TER and I learned to stick to verified and reputable providers that screen because they will provide much more than just a mind-blowing FS.
My TWO biggest lessons for 2015 are...
1) There is always more to learn about yourself, those around you, and the universe we all occupy.
2) Don't be afraid to take risks, but there is a difference between a dumb risk and a well-informed risk
