Re: Thoughts on tipping in troubled times....

I would use my judgement thusly: How much do you normally tip the gas station attendant who pumps gas into your car when it's zero degrees outside. BTW he's probably making $ 8.00/hr. Don't bother to answer I think I know the answer.

I never expect tipping,but it is thoughtful.Actually,as opposed to an extra 20-30 bucks, scented candles ,perfume or a sexy bra isa nice touch. Everytime I wear that bra or light that candle,I think of the person that gave it to me.
Nice to know you even consider it.

Given that the lady has provided a superior service that has simply delighted me I will gladly tip $50.  Thus far its more of the chemistry that has caused me to tip.  I have found the services in Boston to be extraordinary (except for one stupid slip up by me listening to my little head).  In large part though I prefer to see a lady who is really in to it and would pay more or stay longer with  the right chemistry.  I am right now looking for that perfect person for my own Valentine's day gift to myself!

Its never necessary and I dont ever get insulted if you dont and never expected or anticipated. However even 5 10 or 20 helps! it pays for cab fare, luggage fees, our tipping out the maids, bell hops or dinner. I even had someone bring me chocolates and a bottle of champagne then he told me they were regifts fine I did not mind regifts at all you dont have to tell me that. The chocalates I gave to a homeless person on the streets (I dont need those calories!) and chilled the champagne for a client that spent four hour date with me that same week!) I will even take points from airlines/hotels, many do this only because they never use them all and I can utilize them! Be creative if you have abundance of something you can give (discounts, gift cards, regifts, rides from the airport or to the airport) all these are greatly appreciated!
My need list: (If you have these collecting room or dust I can use them!)
In need of some great black label samsonite hard case luggage and ipod and old laptop for a back up, sheared beaver coat. That is my wish list!

This is a very good thread. Thought about posting something similar on the GD board.

Here's my situation. I usually tip a lot.  But I'm watching my cash.  I can still see providers in the same price range, but I could see them more frequently if I didn't tip.  Would if bother you if a guy suddenly stopped tipping you?  Would you wonder what had happened?  Your honest answers would be greatly appreciated.  I should probably hobby less but I don't see how that would benefit my favorite ladies either.