Hello!! I am new to Springfield, Massachusetts and am in the process of building my clientele.  Many men come to me to fulfill the fantasy that is played over and over in their heads...the one with you lying nude with a lusty busty (42DD) woman standing over you giving you a backrub. That fantasy does not go away until you LIVE it, and when you do, you will find it to be even more exciting that you ever imagined!

I charge $100 for a one hour backrub. The rates I charge are ONLY for the backrub, not for sexual activities. What the two of us do AFTER the backrub is a decision between two adults and stands in no relation to my charges.  I give great backrubs - see my reviews on bigdoggie.net under "[email protected]," and e-mail me at the same address if you would like to meet me.

New clients MUST ALWAYS meet me at a hotel. I REQUIRE certain information from prospective clients for simple, noninvasive and very discreet screening purposes. This is used SOLEY to guarantee my security and to insure you are who you say you are. If these conditions are not something with which you can comply, PLEASE do not waste MY TIME or YOURS, but rather, continue your search for a provider who will meet your needs.

The information I require includes:

Your FULL name as it appears on your ID, the name and phone number of your employer as it appears in the yellow pages (not just your direct extension), and a contact phone number and times to best call or not call (for my safety and wellbeing, I MUST verify this information).

Please rest assured that I am EXTREMELY discreet with this information, but there are NO EXCEPTIONS to my screening process. All information you provide me will be deleted after our meeting for your privacy and mine. Thanks for understanding!

You must be drunk to think I will give you the name and telephone number of my employer.  What if you go nuts and start making pnone calls indiscrimately.  I can't believe men give out this kind of information.  It doesn't assure you of anything.  You want my wife's telephone number too?  How about my mothers?

No need to be rude if you are not comfortable giving the information a lady ask's for......then Don't. She has every right to place her ad/schedule here without clutter of negativity, especially from gentlemen who are not interested in giving her this. Her post's clearly states if you cannot give this information then Please don't waste my time or yours. There are Many ladies that require this information on this board why are you singling her out???

FWIW, Many men are not comfortable giving such information.....So they don't. Many men are ok giving such information to help a women feel comfortable meeting them....and they do.  As stated many time's the information is basically an insurance policy that a man will behave like a gentleman and not HARM the lady so she can return safely home after an encounter, and if not she has a way to hold him responsible for his abusive actions, and not to prove he is not LE . *Most* men will not harm someone if they know they have their information. Play Nice! ~Chrissy~

You took the words right out of my mouth and said it a LOT nicer than I would have done!

At some point "some" of these guys will either read enough (they do read don't they?) to understand what verification is all about or they will get tired of seeing the very few ladies that still don't care enough about themselves to require verification.

Thanks Chrissy --

Ted

I would agree that employers have no business in someones hobby. I do agree that saftey is important. I feel that full name is agreeable so your ID can be verified. Also a phone number so a conversation between both parties can take place.
Myself i'm self employeed and don't have a land line just a private cell phone number.So with those requirments i wouldn't qualify as a client just smeone wasting someones time.
Remember we each take a risk in this Hobby, that shared risk leads to many pleasures for both parties. I hope level heads prevail and that everyone stays safe.

John 56 is right on the money. Anybody who is willing to share such personal information with a provider deserves what he gets. I was dumb enough once but have learned from my mistakes. While the majority of providers would never breech your privacy, all it takes is one to ruin your marriage, career, reputation and more. It's definately not worth the risk.

If you were to check the other board you will see what  happened in Detroit when someone gave too  much information to a provider.
She ruined his marriage and life.
Enough is Enough ...when u give out to much info u put your life in jeopardy.After all I don't see providers giving us their real names

I do agree that providers need some type of verification
for their protection.I'm also self employed so the work
verification would not be possible.I would think that proper
Id.before the session should be enough.This should provide
them with enough information if something went wrong.
Verifying that someone works at a certain company does not
guarantee that he will be a true gentlemen.Thier must be some
sort of middle ground that could be worked out.Partically for  
those who are self employed.I know a reference may work,however
it seems rude to me to have to say at the end of a session,
`Gee,I had a great time mind if I use you for a reference'

Corky is Absolutely right......it only takes one, One crackpot and you could possibly be in a dumpster somewhere and your family having no idea who did this to you!

This hobby has risks all the way around on both side's of the fence......It all boils down to COMFORT level of Risks for each *individual* person. For many man it is not worth the risk.....Again pointed out time and time again, That's fine and Your choice! Us women have a choice as well and should not be persecuted for wanting to feel safe.

As far as women not telling their real names....Hey I'll tell any gentleman my real name once he has been verified by me....If he ask's.

Talking about this issue is useless and endless on these boards....Everyone has a strong feeling one way or another and that is perfectly fine. Live and Let live but the point is the girl that started this thread with her schedule has every right to put her ad up and ask for what she feels comfortable with without being bashed!  This is the end of the discussion on my part! Enjoy and Play Safe.....and of course have a Playful  weekend! ~Chrissy~

Sorry, I beg to differ.  No amount information assures a provider of anything.  She is deluded if she thinks otherwise.  By the way, I am a gentleman, just tired of either getting ripped off or having to jump through hoops to set up an incall.