i like classy bars with cute older gentlemen

i tried strip by strega a couple of weeks ago, it was not my crowd really

i want to try strega in the north end but seems like it closes at 11pm unless bar is open later?

if  i dont get good suggestion, i will be playing chess and watching game of thrones lo

u wanna meet up?

Best bar north of boston but if you want to meet me at strega...
That will work

Love chess.  Been a while but loved playing back in the day  

I want to try the steak.....I'll treat

ended up being asked out by a gentleman i saw earlier yesterday and he took me to strega woburn...good company and good times...

Girl, we should go out some time. Strega restaurants = mostly old Italian men who have money but spend it on alcohol and cigars, not women.  

Yvonne's is new and I love the atmosphere. Most of the time a lot of men are with their coworkers/friends and can't get away to talk to younger women, but it is fun to flirt and check out the eye candy. Plus if someone wants to slip you their number they will make sure they are able to.

I wish there were a place that actually just had chess and shows like GoT playing! That would be my type of crowd

But the atmosphere is lovely

Didn't know a date was an option...

if i have a free evening and somebody i have seen before and have chemistry with asks me out for a nice dinner, why not)

Food sucks?

It's pretty much certain that if a lady friend lets me take her out for dinner, I will see her "privately" again. Chemistry goes a long way...

Most certainly true, let alone get all kinds of extras for example in the form of other mongers you've been exchanging info with behind the scenes.  

But obviously there is still got to be some sort of a mutual connection there first. Don't forget fucking is fucking and it could be some good fucking too but during the dinner you're not really fucking much and the ability to engage in mutually stimulating (hopefully free of prolong monologues from either side) conversation would probably be more important then her sexual magnetism. Imagine sitting there, admiring your eye candy and thinking about fucking her instead of tasting the deliciousness of your "Royale with cheese"

There is also another side of the coin here. Way back then, one Kahlil Gibran said: "Stay together but not too near together." I believe it applies to many things in life and maybe including the relationship between a commercial lady and a hobbyists too. During the dinner you may find out things about each other that would really turn you off (or at least one of you) and that would lead to her loosing her client or the reverse may happen leading to one party desiring the relationship not based on commerce and with that likely comes all kinds of drama.

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The leeches would run for the hills lol

be getting a few more offers for dinner or lunch. And as she states, why not. And of course, if either party is attracted to the others persona, an evening of conversation seems like a viable option.
I know several women that I like enough to hang out with but ....  

I think the ladies could be justifiably concerned that some guys might get the wrong impression of intent, finding a reason to think "free time" might lead to more hanging out .... this is a business.

I can attest to being interested in hanging with more than a handful of ladies I've met over the years. I've also come to learn a lot of personal stuff about them, I think... BUT there's no guarantee that it's all true AND I REALLY AM OK WITH THAT.  

At the end of the day it's all about the Hobby and how the ladies pleasure me. Of course I make every attempt to reciprocate and for the most part, I believe I've been successful with that. Which leads me to figress, is there something seriously wrong with me? I can literally spend hours just licking pussy with little or no regard to myself. LOL Of course, there's also the simultaneous suck and lick fest I'm quite fond of

It builds a better  relationship and makes the sex better

yeap,sometimes getting to know somebody too close does ruin what could have been a mutually beneficial string of ptp sessions. Once you take it to the new level, it is hard to simply the relationship back to how things were.