If Im seeing her based on performance or if I was in the mood for a blonde , I mean is thant why we hobby , variety is the spice of life
Posted By: sexy1jill
I am curious to know if hair color and styles matters to guys.
For example say you had an ATF who had long blonde hair and she cut her hair short and dyed it dark, would you still see her?
Jill
It might make a difference initially but for an ATF, as long as it wasn't some awful shade of pink it wouldn't matter.
personally, I like to mix it up.....As long as the stuff down south is non existant! lol
well make sure you give the girl enough time to get ready in advance
An ATF has a bit more latitude, because hopefully she is your ATF for many more reasons than hair length or color. A radical chance from long blonde to short black will change your appearance, but if your my AFT, the experience is about so much more. Plus hair will grow back.
If you're just an occasional friend then my appetite is a bit more fickle and I'll probably be more affected by the drastic change. The good news is the guys that like short black hair will be lining up to take my place.
Word to the wise...be sure to update your pics so the guy who like blondy doesn't show up and be like "wtf?"
This might be a good discussion for the general board too.
if my atf died her hair half green and half orange, I would still see her!
I love long hair on women, Short hair is a tough one, as long as the women looks good in short hair, not big deal.
Hair color as long as it works well with her features, I do like Angelica multi-colored hair it is very sexy.
As for my ATF, I'm there to see her not her hair, So I don't think I would mind that much.
But if she did every cut and change her hair color, I'm not going to tell her I don't like.
I like breathing, it's a good thing
I love keeping my hair long and feel like guys prefer longer hair overall, but that's definitely not across the board and, as others said, it's about so much more than that, especially with an ATF.
I'd like to wear a wig for a role play costume sometime instead of changing my actual hair. I recently bought a 70s blond feathery wig like Farah Fawcett and a costume to be roller girl for Halloween, wouldn't mind using those things for a session though Costume wigs let me be blonde for a day without really going blonde.
I think "it depends" is the best answer. If I was expecting to see a redhead, and the provider wasn't a redhead, I'd be very sad. Other hair color changes wouldn't bother me too much.
I'd definitely get new pictures posted ASAP after the haircut, though.
I say it's a huge deal almost all of the gentlemen I see prefer me w/ long jet black straight hair.
Just my two cents.
Kyla
when her wig came off as I mussed up her hair.
It was OK though, I'm a big Snead O'Connor fan.
I love a big full head of hair, especially red hair; but I see gals who are blonde, brunette and occasionally bald too.
Color is not that big an issue but I love long hair. I especially love when she uses it like a sex toy. Dragging all that soft loveliness down my chest or when it envelops my thighs.....YES!
Pat J
Posted By: sexy1jill
I am curious to know if hair color and styles matters to guys.
For example say you had an ATF who had long blonde hair and she cut her hair short and dyed it dark, would you still see her?
Jill
To be frank the answer for me would likely be no. If a woman has short hair I am probably not going to see her. I am also a lot more likely to see a provider who is blonde. So yes it matters at least to me.
Gotta love a nice landing strip or a completely shaved Y!
Whatever makes her look good, makes her look good. Once in a great while, I may have a preference based on my moods, but I don't remember the last time I requested a particular hair color or style.
I think I have a stronger opinion on hair "down there".
- TM
Jill
I experienced a scenario very similar to what you suggest, an ATF who was gorgeous, with long blonde hair, great personality, who provided a GFE second to none, with whom l experienced a real connection. She used to visit from FLA once a month and we met each time.....everything was just perfect!
One time she showed up with short cropped black hair, I nearly fell over when she appeared from behind the door in the dimly lit room, but that same infectious laugh, the great smile and the usual greeting with her hand reaching down and telling me "I have missed you".... Everything else was the same....and we had a great session.....but bizarrely there was less chemistry. Now, I consider my self fully evolved and would have dismissed as ridiculous the notion that I could be so superficial.....after all, this was a great girl, almost a good friend, and we were well bonded by now.....
But it seemed that with her change of coiffure, so also changed something else intangible.....I think she felt it too....there were a couple of months where I didn't hear from her.....and then a story about how she " lost my number". ( and presumably also my email address and my TER handle for pms and yada yada) ......and then the whole relationship died.
I think the change of hair color was coincidence, or it could have been emblematic of a deeper change in her life but to this day I ask myself....." am I really that superficial?".
To thine own self be true!
Peace
Giorgio
Posted By: sexy1jill
I am curious to know if hair color and styles matters to guys.
For example say you had an ATF who had long blonde hair and she cut her hair short and dyed it dark, would you still see her?
Jill
It would matter a lot to me Jill. Long blonde to short black? Hair is such an important part to a woman's beauty.
As long as the hair style looks good on the girl. Blonde hair and black eyebrows don't make it - no matter the length. There are gorgeous girls with all kinds of hair styles - and body shapes! Like Creed says, "Au Natural" is best.
I think you'll find this is a very personal thing that varies all over the place. For me, there are certain "looks" that I just find appealing. But the look is an overall thing, not just a matter of hair color or cut. I'm a sucker for short dark hair and for the pageboy cut, but that clearly doesn't work with every face or body type. I'm not overly partial to blondes -- nothing against blondes, it's just one of those bizarre personal quirks that we all have -- but there are specific blondes whom I find very appealing. One of my ATF's sported the Sinead O'Connor look for a while, and on her it worked thought it certainly wouldn't work on just anyone.
Now if we're talking about someone I know and have history with, then it matters less because at that point it's all about personality (brains, creativity, sense of humor, and killer eyes don't hurt
Very important! I've been looking for a natural redhead for a long time now.
It isn't much of an issue as long as the posted pictures are current. No surprises.
Posted By: sexy1jill
I am curious to know if hair color and styles matters to guys.
For example say you had an ATF who had long blonde hair and she cut her hair short and dyed it dark, would you still see her?
Jill
