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actual attemot to get a restrain order out on me from police so he couldnt see me any longer. they obviously denied her request. you obviously cant get a restrain order against a escort your husband is chetating ion u with. ! needless to say i di have to relocate. asap! after this occurance n it was quite the headache. i feel your pain on that one-

johnnyrub1954 reads

How close have you come to getting caught by your SO?
Also - do you have an active sex life with your SO?

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deb45122680 reads

A few weeks ago a client's wife called me saying she found my number on the phone bill and what is my website.  I played dumb, but said she found my ad through my phone number I assume!  I told her I did not remember.  She persisted and asked if I would be willing to go before the priest so she could get an annullment! She said he has done this before and has admitted it and promises not to see escorts again, but continues to break his promises.  You think he could get a throw away phone???  I made up an excuse without admitting anything, that someone was on the other line and hung up. Another called because her husband had printed out my ad and she found it in his pocket!  WTF? (that was in VT and that state was the worst for women calling, in MA you guys seem more savvy)  I see mostly married men and they continually tell me that either their wives don't have sex with them or that they only have sex infrequently.  My question is why do you stay with your wives/girfriends if they refuse to have sex with you?????????????

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Bostonguy572014 reads

LOL,I can't speak for a guy whose GF won't have sex with him but, as far as the married guys, divorce is a pretty big deal and very expensive.  Trust me, most of your married clients would not be able to afford to see you if they were divorced, paying child support, alimony and living in their cars while their ex is in the house that they are paying for every month...

Bad marriages are a major factor to the success of the P4P sex industry!

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Hob_Man2094 reads

I am single. But I have often thought about why people that end up divorced and hostile to each other even got married to begin. One sage piece of advice that a successful, wealthy elderly mentor gave me when I was in High School was that I should get a good education and sow all my wild seed before getting married. I followed his advice on those subjects and many others. What I found is that I love fresh pussy so much that getting married simply would be an enormous obstruction to my pursuit of fresh women. So, I stayed single. My sense is that if men and women resist the urge to propose and accept until they fully understand their sexual beings and other important aspects of what they are and may become as people, there would be fewer divorces. Women, in particular, must be willing to admit to wanting some things that a marriage brings and not others, and must find alternative methods for getting the things they want from a marriage without getting married to start.

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Bostonguy571689 reads

If you've never been married you will never understand why people do it.  

You can screw as many women as you want before you get married.  It doesn't guarantee that, if you finally get hitched, it won't go south some day. While I agree that it's very important that you know yourself it's just about impossible to predict the twists and turns that two people living together as husband and wife will encounter and how they will handle them AS A COUPLE.

I've been single for three years now and I can't see ever being stupid enough to get married again.  I'm having way too much fun. Still, people do it every day.  It sounds like you have a plan that works for you.  

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angelexotic1065 reads

i wouldnever get married n am havn too much fun!

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deb45121262 reads

You are amazing hob_man!!!!!!!!!!!!  Are you a professional writer?  WOW!!!

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angelexotic1151 reads

I am 30. never been married or had kids or ltr s for that matter . i def kinda get nautious when i see certain clients family pics lookn all cheesy n happy, then hear the awful things they have to say bout there wives n it just makes me def not want to be that person that miserable n stuck w the same borin person u hate n talkn crap bout them to escorts, the turjn  around n bein nice to them the wholke institiution of marriage is just not my idea a fun either. variety is spice a life.

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mrfisher1805 reads

Do not say a word.

Hang up, put that number on ignore and cut off contact with that client.  (He is bad news if he is so careless as to allow this to happen.)

The legal entanglements you can get into are innumerable.

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Kat_RT1544 reads

Quite true. Many people don't realize that adultery is actually a criminal offense in Massachusetts, and it's a felony too! I haven't heard of Uncle Leo actually making arrests for it, but they could. It's much easier for them to arrest for felonies than it is for misdemeanors. Just another thing they could use to screw us (no pun intended).

MGL C 272, Section 14. A married person who has sexual intercourse with a person not his spouse or an unmarried person who has sexual intercourse with a married person shall be guilty of adultery and shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for not more than three years or in jail for not more than two years or by a fine of not more than five hundred dollars.
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angelexotic1774 reads

take legal action to - or she actually was insane enough to think she could get a restrain order out so he d get arrested of he tryed to come see me ever again. needless to say i managed to get first last n security together in month n am doin a very rushed emergency relocation action plan due to this whole rookie awful annoying drama i got invoved in. {gotta love back oage!] but yes it was actually i can say i never had ever had any thing this awful pulled on mme by a guy or his wife n family. never had problems of this magnitude as i did from this one oparticular encounter w this person. alot of other elements were brought to table to, though it was deef somthin i can say was terriboy stressful n scary.

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angelexotic1693 reads

actual attemot to get a restrain order out on me from police so he couldnt see me any longer. they obviously denied her request. you obviously cant get a restrain order against a escort your husband is chetating ion u with. ! needless to say i di have to relocate. asap! after this occurance n it was quite the headache. i feel your pain on that one-

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angelexotic1743 reads

they will maybe go broke if they get the divorce some of them cua once found at faultt i think then if get divorce i think they can get f&*^% basically finacnially . i think that may be big reason they stay w a women who doesnt fuck them. but agin it is kinda bafllking sometimes. i wouldnt stay! god no sex. id be gone in a day. if i were them. !

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mrfisher2038 reads

divorced me on account of the hobby.

I did not want to get divorced as I knew it would be embarrassing and messy as well as expensive.  

On the other hand, now that I am single and free, I think that freedom is worth more than all the expense and mental agony that I experienced during the process.  (Which took about 3 years to settle.)

I did not have an active sex life with my SO, which was my main reason to hobby.

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johnnyrub1812 reads

My wife and I actually have a great relationship but I just need something extra. We have sex on average about once every week and it's just not enough for me. I never did anything with another woman until a few months ago when i went to an AMP for the first time (married 5 years).
After the Amp I started getting more and more excited about how secretive this world is and that's very attractive to me. Not to mention I now have the opportunity to go and have some no strings fun that no one knows about except me.

In a strange way I actually think that my hobby will help my marriage.

Anyone else feel this way?

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deb45121381 reads

I don't know.  I think it'd be cool if you had an open marriage or if you both were swingers.  I think it's the double life that hurts the marriage.  Don't mind me, I was watching the movie about Sylvia Plath.  That god darn womanizing Ted Hughes, Damn.  But then I wouldn't be making the money I make, unless ofcourse couples came to me!  Instead of a social worker that I am, I could be a marriage counselor!!!  Wow.

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Kat_RT1149 reads

That's a very European outlook on it.

Posted By: johnnyrub
My wife and I actually have a great relationship but I just need something extra. We have sex on average about once every week and it's just not enough for me. I never did anything with another woman until a few months ago when i went to an AMP for the first time (married 5 years).
After the Amp I started getting more and more excited about how secretive this world is and that's very attractive to me. Not to mention I now have the opportunity to go and have some no strings fun that no one knows about except me.

In a strange way I actually think that my hobby will help my marriage.

Anyone else feel this way?
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johnnyrub1493 reads


hahaha

I am european :)

Posted By: Kat_RT
That's a very European outlook on it.


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Kat_RT1957 reads

Well that explains it then. :)

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fredgravy1646 reads

I haven't been caught and no my sex life has been dormant for over a year.  I, like probably every man on here, have no on/off switch when it comes to sex and so I have resorted to the erotic massage.  Am I cheating, yes probably but if I didn't do it I probably would end up having an affair and ruining my life.

Posted By: johnnyrub
How close have you come to getting caught by your SO?
Also - do you have an active sex life with your SO?

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I'm going through the never ending divorce, that is the reason I'm in here.

Posted By: fredgravy
I haven't been caught and no my sex life has been dormant for over a year.  I, like probably every man on here, have no on/off switch when it comes to sex and so I have resorted to the erotic massage.  Am I cheating, yes probably but if I didn't do it I probably would end up having an affair and ruining my life.
Posted By: johnnyrub
How close have you come to getting caught by your SO?
Also - do you have an active sex life with your SO?

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stevema1820 reads

My wife knows I do this and she's OK with it !  .. My wife isn't a prude ..  She just isn't sexual .. not at all ..  My marriage has become beyond Platonic ..  I haven't had sex with my wife in over 4 years and most likely never will again !!!  Oddly, we get along really well ????
Just no sex, no intimacy, no touching .. no life !!!!!

I wouldn't wish my situation on anyone .. I do the Provider/ Client thing, by default !!!    


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deb45121715 reads

huh, maybe I have met you before?

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deb45121633 reads

Why do you stay with a woman who won't have sex?  Doesn't a romantic partnership and sex coincide? OMG I'd be pissed if my partner refused to have sex with me!  It happened to me, because he said I had gained weight and he wasn't attracted to me.  He was dumped to the curb.

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Posted By: deb4512
Why do you stay with a woman who won't have sex?  Doesn't a romantic partnership and sex coincide? OMG I'd be pissed if my partner refused to have sex with me!  It happened to me, because he said I had gained weight and he wasn't attracted to me.  He was dumped to the curb.
I don't have a problem with my marriage outside of the no sex part.  I realize that it is an important part of any relationship but when your wife's desire disappears and you're not into forcibly having sex then what other outlets do you have?  I agree with one of the other posters here in that my hobby probably helps my marriage more than it hurts.  If she did find out then I'd be hauled into court without hesitation.  I'm very careful about it and fortunately my job has me travel quite a bit so most of it happens outside of the state I live in.  I am looking for something local though and I sometimes think that relaxing massages with an HE isn't cheating.  It's a very selfish way to look at it but that's how I've rationalized it for as long as I have.

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pullover996 reads

Are you a man or a woman???  Your response dont make sense?

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stevema1493 reads

Posted By: pullover
Are you a man or a woman???  Your response dont make sense?
I'm not trying to be cruel, but how can it not make sense ???  And, it shouldn't be to difficult for anyone to figure out, I'm a Man..

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Posted By: deb4512
Why do you stay with a woman who won't have sex?  Doesn't a romantic partnership and sex coincide? OMG I'd be pissed if my partner refused to have sex with me!  It happened to me, because he said I had gained weight and he wasn't attracted to me.  He was dumped to the curb.
It's a long story ....  My wife and I get along really well .. we care about each other , which actually makes the idea of a divorce, even harder .. It's more like a family member, though, not husband and wife, at least not what I think a husband and wife should be ..  We have a young daughter, it would change everything for her  ..  the financial implications are too much , it would adversely effect my wife and daughter and destroy me, we would all be worse off, financially ..   I would have no place to live ..   the list of reasons go on and on ...  There is just no way out right now !!

Just so you know, we did the counseling thing along time ago, it didn't work .. in fact, things got worse .. we are now and have been for years at the point of no physical contact ..  Just so you know, she has no history of abuse .. My doctor does think, that there is something pathologically wrong, though .. And she won't see a doctor???

Bottom line, I asked her, about all of this.. she said .. she just doesn't feel like being touched .. let alone be sexual .. yet she understands I can't .. She knows that there is no such thing as a normal marriage , So that's why she's OK with this .. She content !!!!
I've also learned some people just aren't sexual, and she isn't,  knowing that, I don't want sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with me ..  So we don't have sex ..  

It's beyond the point that I can take though .. It's really effecting me ..  It's not just the lack of sex .. there is no intimacy, and I don't mean just sexual intimacy .. I don't even get touched, no holding hands, nothing ...   I literally feel alone all the time .. Worse off there is the feeling of no hope .. When your single and alone, you always can hang onto the idea or hope that the person for you, is a chance meeting away .. you can date .. meet people ..  I can't do that!  Even though, if I wanted, I could have an open marriage, no one wants to go near a married guy .. not even just as friends !!

I'll tell you something about my wife, before she gets labeled, as being, well .. awful ..
I talked with her about one provider, in particular .. If this provider, ever got caught or needed help, I gave her my home phone number and told her to call .. And if I wasn't home .. Tell my wife, who she was, and the problem ..   My wife agreed with out question .. and If needed, me and my wife would help her ..  My wife's logic was this ... She doesn't judge anyone, she stated that if she were in this position and needed help, she would want someone to help her .. So she, if needed, would help this provider out, no questions asked !! ..

So my wife isn't an awful person, she's not a prude, she just isn't sexual ..

Anyway .. I hope this helps explaining things !!!


 


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Posted By: stevema

It's beyond the point that I can take though .. It's really effecting me ..  It's not just the lack of sex .. there is no intimacy, and I don't mean just sexual intimacy .. I don't even get touched, no holding hands, nothing ...   I literally feel alone all the time .. Worse off there is the feeling of no hope .. When your single and alone, you always can hang onto the idea or hope that the person for you, is a chance meeting away .. you can date .. meet people ..  I can't do that!  Even though, if I wanted, I could have an open marriage, no one wants to go near a married guy .. not even just as friends !!
Ok, I actually logged in JUST to respond to this.  Dude.  You need to start seeing a therapist ASAP.  This situation will suck your soul out and leave you more and more depressed.  You NEED someone to talk to about it.  Someone who will not judge or spill the beans.  I have been there.

And go see a film called "The Oh in Ohio" ... it will bring focus to your life :)

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pullover1231 reads

You dumperd him or he dumped you???

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DirtyDaego1282 reads

This is a very good example of how board posts don't work well.
7 replies and not one change in the subject line.....so potential readers have no idea what the idea of the post is....or to whom you are replying.

Moving forward.......if you want your thoughts posted........get in the habit of changing the subject line to reflect what your post is about.

Thanks in advance.
DD

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Elvis99991514 reads

I've had 3 genuine affairs with married women and have seen dozens of escorts and have never been caught.  Except for the no sex part with my wife I actually have a good marriage.  I have never even come close to being caught......knock on wood.

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RitTrop1339 reads

funny...looking at this thread on this holiday weekend really got me thinking...    married 26 years, 1 serious affair with a married woman which lasted for 6+ years, and many encounters with providers over the past 3 years...   I have not been caught---thank god.  I have what would be described as a great marriage with a vibrant sex.    So regarding the "got me thinking" part..."why?"   Hmmmm....I guess I am a selfish prick who loves pussy...

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sparkyusa1535 reads

my sex life at home is awesome,but its like going to to Brighams icecream with to many flavors to choose from,so we try them all.LOL

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