I also want to add lfk,dfk and dont act like a zombie

Sooooo....

what does that make ME? Lol!

xoxo
Caylee

I love CIM/COF, but I see many gals who won't do this, yet their demeanor and passion is such that I would call them GFE.

To me, it's more about their way of relating and passion rather than the specific activities.

There are pleny of PSEs that do the activities you mention.  Yet, becuase they tend to be a bit offish, I would not call them GFE.  Some guys like their gals that way too, so that is not a knock on them.

My service is GFE/PSE and it includes what you mention, however, I love what I do and that is my service I provide to all my "clean" clients.  Your girlfriend or wife at home most likely does not and will not suck your cock let alone CIM or facial, that is why you cum here.

So in my opinion, CIM or facial is PSE.  Now bring your cock to me please I need to do something with it...

GFE is the fantasy that you have really connected with each other ... and that is most obvious in your partner's willingness to kiss you. I have one companion that I actually do like very much as a person but, for whatever reason, she is the only "GFE" provider who really doesn't want to kiss. No one else holds back, so I'm pretty sure it isn't me. The failure to share the simple intimacy of kissing destroys the GFE illusion for me.

As for my personal definition GFE is not a series of acts.

I can perform any act- but if it is mechanical, perfunctory or cold it would not be recognized as a  girlfriend experience by my clients..

Obviously the term GFE has been used to identify providers who reliably perform certain services (deep french kissing, light french kissing, any kissing at a minimum, BBBJ) but I think that it is also applicable to providers who can warmly engage with clients enough to provide the illusion of familiarity, comfort and genuine passion.

I don't think a client's desire for a real sense of intimacy vs. using a live blow-up doll for an hour is "looking for love in the wrong places" either-
everyone should be able to define and fulfill their needs here, if only here (so long as they're able to keep perspective).  That may be your bag but it isn't necessarily the next client's.

CIM & facials as a requirement?  I don't think so.
I don't feel obligated to provide any specific service or act to complete a girlfriend experience session- I do what comes naturally to myself and my guests with real enthusiasm and happiness.  
If someone happens to have a specific interest in a "harder, faster, better, stronger" session with those acts then I try to the best of my ability to fulfill their needs- and I would qualify swallowing & facials as more of a PSE/wilder ride than necessity or requirement for most clients.

I find that the majority of my clients are less preoccupied with the acts I provide and are more so interested in how I make them feel when I'm providing them...but that's just me, my appeal and my service and why I qualify what I generally do as GFE.

..... it just like PSE will vary as long as hobbyist are looking for something different in the kind of GFE they want or like  and/or what the provider that likes to call herself GFE "offers".

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its more about the mind fuck than te acts involved.

Swallow cof greek I dont provide any of those its not GFE in my opinion.
A GFE experience I think should just flow comfortably and easily, relaxing and deeply seeded in Passion.

Takes 2 to tango but its not about what we do more about the way we do it.