Fallen deeply?  No  Had major crushes on? Yes, twice.  The first was a super beautiful visiting girl.  She came to Boston for a day or two every couple of months and I would see her for 6 hours each time, 4 hours one day, then two hours the next morning.  We would talk more than than anything, she was very high end and brutally expensive.  I began to cut back how many hours I would see her because I didn't want to pay that much just to talk and finally she came to town and I made an appointment for two hours but cancelled (more than a week ahead of time) and she hasn't been back since.  

One of the reasons I cancelled was I had met a local girl who I saw once or twice or even three times a week.  I loved it, obviously.  I'd pay for two hours but she usually gave me three.  I lost interest in seeing other girls.  She was my favorite, she told me I was her favorite.  We were very compatible.  I brought champagne sometimes, we had fun.  I told her once there was nobody on the planet I'd rather be with.  How did it unfold?  One day out of the blue she emailed me and told me she couldn't see me anymore because she didn't like getting too attached.  Done.  Hasn't emailed me since.  That left a mark...  I've racked my brain trying to figure out what went wrong.  This is just my theory but I think she's someone who's terrified of getting too attached just like she said.  So she dumped me.  I think some providers are providers because they like intimacy but fear attachment.  So for now I've taken solace with seeing lots of different girls once or twice.  It's been fun but there's no emotional connection.  It's probably better that way though it's really nice to get to know someone special well and have that connection.  

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If you want to see him again you can just send him an email saying "hi I haven't heard from you in a while, let's get together..."  or something like that.  I never mind getting an email from a provider.  For me if I haven't gotten in touch with a provider it's not that I never want to see her again, it's that I'm busy or there might be another provider that's caught my eye.  Let's face it, there's a lot of competition so sometimes a guy might need a little nudge.  If he doesn't reply to your nudge though, it's time to move on.

Regarding honesty, why does a client need to lie to a provider?  If I don't want to answer a question I won't answer it but why lie?  This is a casual relationship.

I can't say I've fallen in love, but I've become very close friends (currently) with a provider. We hang out when we can. Text or talk almost daily. Even met each other's friends and families.  

Interestingly, as drop dead gorgeous as she is, I don't even finding myself sneaking a peek. It's a lot like a little sister. At first blush, you'd think there'd have to be something in it for her. But, she doesn't ask for anything... And there is no sugar daddy going on. Just close friends

So, it just goes to show, when you meet the right people, it doesn't matter how you met. It just works. I'm thankful we met. But I could never have sx with her

and it wouldn't have to be LOVE .... more like let's TRY.  

I've been hurt outside the hobby a few times as we all have, but
I'm aware of the implications of being the only one that wants something he can't have.  

But I do really like my current flame ... a lot.   lol

I've always been curious about what it would be like to actually date a provider.  I've always assumed that they would want way more sex than I could provide by myself.  A couple have even told me this was the case in their real life relationships.  Was this a problem for you and if so what did you do about it?  Thanks!