Boston
Im glad cause my real name is John McCain so whenever anyone Google's me they will think its the Senator -- also I live in Cambridge so its a big enough city and I work as a Systems Engineer at Sparzac Corp. in Waltham - so the company is big enough no one could find me there unless I told them
For Facebook, Twitter and everything I use jsm181811 as the username - no one could possibly guess that or link it to here unless I told them -- thank goodness because if my wife Eileen or anyone else found out I'd be in trouble!
...In a very tactful way of course.
I had someone research me in a semi-stalkerish manner but the circumstances were entirely different. After and overnight date in which I failed to remove tags from my luggage - didn't deem it entirely necessary as we had spent a lot of time together and had a good comfort level.
He subsequently ran a background check and kept alluding to my past addresses, etc in insidious ways in emails.
I have nothing to hide, and am single - so was not particularly worried aside from finding his behavior extremely creepy...not to mention foolish.
After all, his marital status, high profile position etc. should have made him hesitate to even hint at having leverage...
I took the high road and never pointed out the obvious - he had been so boastful of his position and resources that I knew nearly everything about him.
In the end, my muted reaction made him lose interest.
Of course I was never comfortable with seeing him again. His manipulative behavior, though entirely ineffectual, was a huge turn off - to say the least.
Sooo...long answer to a short question.
You're not creepy, he was. You should tell her.
