I am not a clock watcher and we all like to have a good time just because you read *shes no clock watcher* in her reviews thats not an invitation to overstay or take advantage.

I feel like lately ppl, not all but more ppl think thats a signal or code to overstay.
3 ppl this week alone (and its only monday)thought we could start round 2 at 5 of the hr. Or at 10 past their time to leave they wanna hop in the shower. Theyll say, *mind if I rinse off quick?* and thats another 15 20 min,if you are dragging it out, book  1.5hrs its disrespectrful to push the time like this.I had a client tell me today, I was rushing him
2 pops and a shower to freshenup before and after and all the foreplay yada yada yada well at 5 of he wanted to go again I said no.
he left 15minutes after his time due to his shower.
Do you think that should be off the clock? What are the thoughts here. ????
Why has this just gotten out of control.
60 minutes as far as I know still is 1hr.

That's why I book two hours and still watch the time. I want to chat, get comfortable, and enjoy the time. If you are good enough to be on time for me, I should at the very least respect your efforts and your schedule. It's a lot more relaxed that way.

it wouldn't be fair if the next client is waiting longer and you gotta do prep work like wash up

Shouldn't book that close..  Is this how we start the week.....whining...

I've heard stories about a high volume local agency where the girls just use wipes instead of shower...doing their 8-10 guys per day.

It is so classy when providers complain about hobbyist.

"Not a clock-watcher" USED to mean that the girl didn't "get 'em in, get 'em off, get 'em out" and significantly SHORT guys on time, often by limiting them to a single pop. It also meant that she wasn't spending the time staring at the clock through one squinted eye and repeatedly saying "Cum for me baby!" in breathy bad porno speak.

....she has you figured out. No further research needed!

some ppl just cant move on.

all I hear when he chats up is...blah blah  blah blah blah

ugghhhh  

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mentioned he saw in my reviews I wasnt a clock watcher.
I think ppl see that as more than it is or should be.
Book an hr stay an hr
need more time, book it pay for it dont just expect it.

Do you work for free? why should i be expected to?

No different for us guys as to the providers that do rush.

apparently not if she keeps booking with guys that take advantage of the time.  

cans of Lysol on the night stand and spit buckets also ruin the gfe

why do you ask about me?

However, if you are too convincing you end up with guys trying to stay two or three times the length of the time you were compensated for! It's always "something"- they're trying to squeeze in a second or third round, they fall asleep while you're massaging them, they're yaking your ear off without stopping to breath, and they take two showers and primp in the bathroom like a girl... ALL DURING WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A ONE HOUR SESSION!

......a Sweetie. But I doubt that I am your type.  

Likewise, I always set appointment for two hours. It's about communication and establishing a feeling. People remember feelings even when they don't remember your name. More than once, the rapport was so strong that we spent the night. If retirement never occurred for them, I'm sure the same would happen and I would fulfill the favor with the expected donation. Maybe I just avoid specials and budgets. Something about budgeting signals a quality problem, both ways.

I need to throw my 2 cents in here...

..... you're due to cough up my 90min rate difference.

there was never 15 min between appointments,
i think you are confused here.
he popped twice and at 5of wanted to do round 3 i said no. thats when he said i read you were not a clockwatcher. at 5 of its time to hop in the shower and get dressed not try for round 3.
of course if you were in the middle of something by all means lets finish but thats not the time to start something new.
at some point it is pushing it.

A provider is technically not required to do anything other than spend time with you. Now it's generally accepted/ expected that adult fun will ensue....stipulated. I'm not being naive here. It's my general belief that if a provider advertises "Not a Clock Watcher", I feel she is telling ME to keep an eye on the clock in a subtle shift of responsibility. Even if MSOG's are advertised it's not a guarantee because the provider is only 50% of the equation and can't control what she can't control.

Particularly, in light of fact that you need to control your client first & foremost.  You have been in the business long enough to know this fact.

It seems more and more clients expect a 1 hr appt is equal to 90 mins. They aren't always seasoned clients but not a clock-watcher to them means showering is typically off the clock. They show up early leave late and before you know it that 60mim appt turns into a 90min.
I think it's changed a great deal, more ppl expect an expanding timeline. That's all I'm stating. Take it or leave it. No worries.

Which is going to hell in a hand basket quickly.

People, especially newbies, come to these boards to find out what the real deal is with certain things.

If they read that this or that guy stretched an hour to 75 or even 90 minutes, then they are more likely to feel that is the norm and take advantage of that fact.

Your post serves to brush that thinking back a bit; and I think that is good for providers and clients.

I am sure I am going to take a beating for this but...

My gripe is with people who chronically book an hour and try to stay for two or two and a half hours because they are "special."

or even see it as weakness.  If you have a problem with a client you need to tell them.  Posting on ter under an alias is like preaching to the choir.  As a provider you have choices, you can either confront the person that is giving you the problem or just not rebook the client.  I know it can be uncomfortable saying something but allowing someone to be disrespectful towards you will only build resentment

I want everyone to shower and I know that I have also had the territorial gent who uses every single towel in my suite. It is always the same person and I often wonder if I have to slap his hands away from them like child from the cookie jar. "No this towel is for you! You may have 1 towel darling and 2 wash clothes".  

The longer you stay  the more you pay, so why should I watch the clock LOL??????

I love the guy who thinks that 8am shower is good at 4pm?  not putting my mouth on anything that does not smell and taste like soap..Shower 15 minutes before you arrive if you have a problem with time..Its not coming out of my cut