As a lady who hosts in hotels in the Back Bay neighborhood and makes discretion a huge priority, I'm super paranoid about this type of thing, and I try to stay on top of local news re: stings, targeted neighborhoods, etc. I've heard some rumors about Boston PD working with the staff at some of the hotels lately - e.g. training them to be on the lookout for certain behaviors, and to call the police rather than having staff confront suspected providers / solicitors directly. I don't know exactly how true that is, but I have heard a couple of firsthand stories from ladies about getting an unexpected knock at their hotel room door that turns out to be a cop.

With that said, some hotels are certainly better than others, and there are a couple that I avoid at all costs. Please feel free to PM me if you still need suggestions!