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sweetnicole11374 reads

I am a bit frustrated.
The  first email to me, knowing you are going to be screened should have your *hello* introduction, along with when you are interested in seeing myself Alex or Samantha.
Then please add in your verification info along with your Full Name refs contact info.
If i have to do 4 and 5 emails back and forth just to get your name and any info on you...by the time we figure out. Who you are the schedule may be full.there is limited availability.

Another thing....if I have screened you and it slips my mind please feel free to inform me of who you are and so on.
Also don't be surprised if I have to screen you again if its been a while.

If we work together all prepared with all your info I can do my job faster and get you verified in no time at all.

We all wanna have fun and be safe in the process. Help me help you!

Now lets have fun....

Toodles
Nicole

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gsplver1173 reads

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AGt5f70K02Q

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sweetnicole1766 reads

Without the bathroom drama hopefully...  lol

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IWant2DATY715 reads

Deleted, wrong location in thread.

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IWant2DATY790 reads

***** Then please add in your verification info along with your Full Name refs contact info. *****

OK, I am probably gonna get killed on this. I agree we all need to be safe and secure. I agree screening needs to be done. I have heard all the horror wstories. BUT just being the Devils Advocate, what if I went to make an appointment with Samantha and said I needed to see her ID when I arrived at the meeting location. Thoughts Everyone!

Tony

Posted By: sweetnicole1
I am a bit frustrated.
The  first email to me, knowing you are going to be screened should have your *hello* introduction, along with when you are interested in seeing myself Alex or Samantha.
Then please add in your verification info along with your Full Name refs contact info.
If i have to do 4 and 5 emails back and forth just to get your name and any info on you...by the time we figure out. Who you are the schedule may be full.there is limited availability.

Another thing....if I have screened you and it slips my mind please feel free to inform me of who you are and so on.
Also don't be surprised if I have to screen you again if its been a while.

If we work together all prepared with all your info I can do my job faster and get you verified in no time at all.

We all wanna have fun and be safe in the process. Help me help you!

Now lets have fun....

Toodles
Nicole

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sweetnicole1772 reads

We all have our line drawn in the sand mine is full disclosure

If you don't like the way I do things feel free to see someone else.
Its all preferences.

Asking to see her I is just invoking drama
you know that's never gonna happen so just move on.
This is how I do things its my preference.

You can choose to pass.
I have no intentions of dragging that through the mud again.

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IWant2DATY722 reads

I kind of hijacked your thread, my bad. I will bring this up later in a thread I start. Thank you Nicole.

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cwillzx597 reads

Doesn't really make sense to compare as it's two different animals.

You provide your ID and refs to ensure the safety and legal freedom of the provider.

As far as her ID goes, you have all you need right here to establish that you can expect to get what you desire, in a safe environment, without risk to your freedom.  If you can't find enough info to satisfy that, then don't see the provider. Simple.

Knowing her real name shouldn't matter.  You should already trust her before you call her.  Not true of us for her.

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sweetnicole1614 reads

But I have noticed those who argue the issue do so knowing the difference they just do not want to comply.
And  i verify through refs with your real name but honestly I haven't seen an id either way.
There's no need to try and argue this point. They do not want to see what they already know. Its non compliance that draws that reaction is all....

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IWant2DATY681 reads

correct in your points, theres no arguing that. But your somewhat brusque attitude is curious. Hey, this is a great environment, and I enjoy The Hobby. Take care and thanks for listening.

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sweetnicole11064 reads

whats Brusque about me is my refusal to budge on this and just having no interest in how you or anyone else feels about where I happen to draw my line in the sand.
I hear this day in and day out from all walks of life.
I am at the point where I am finding the combative additude towards my choices on how to screen clients just obnoxious.
theres no swaying me to your view or you to mine I get that and I do not feel its worth even the discussion.
Its an over done worn out topic. we need to agree to disagree and each go our seperate ways.
you will see women who are not so *intrusive* in their screening and we will see Gentlemen who comply to ours.
theres plenty of both out there so its all good.
Its just time for you to move on is all...

Have a great one.
Nicole

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IWant2DATY861 reads

post any further discussion on this topic. I have moved on and after reading your emotional dissertation, I suggest you do as well. Take care, be safe, and healthy.

Posted By: sweetnicole1
whats Brusque about me is my refusal to budge on this and just having no interest in how you or anyone else feels about where I happen to draw my line in the sand.
I hear this day in and day out from all walks of life.
I am at the point where I am finding the combative additude towards my choices on how to screen clients just obnoxious.
theres no swaying me to your view or you to mine I get that and I do not feel its worth even the discussion.
Its an over done worn out topic. we need to agree to disagree and each go our seperate ways.
you will see women who are not so *intrusive* in their screening and we will see Gentlemen who comply to ours.
theres plenty of both out there so its all good.
Its just time for you to move on is all...

Have a great one.
Nicole

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RLBD924 reads

...that I see on a regular basis, once told me that there are times when she feels that she should have gone to dental school because so many men make her feel like she's "pulling teeth" when it comes to screening them.  Endless back and forth emails offering only a first name or a random cellphone number (or another providers email address), or bits and pieces of what she asked for.  

The moral of her tale was that she either puts them on her own DNS list, or if they do eventually provide sufficient screening info (after hours or even days of back and forth email); she opts not to see them anyway.  A sort of quid pro quo, I guess.

I'm quite thankful that my own business/profession requires very little "screening" of my customers, if any at all.  I agree 100% with the OP and others that have chimed in here:  If you know there's a request for screening/verification, either be prepared to provide the information or move on.  Why get a provider irritated with you, especially if you truly intend to spend time with her.  Can't possibly make for an enjoyable tryst.

My .02.

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