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I've had the same experience.....
mrfisher 115 Reviews 722 reads
posted
1 / 22

If you click on the person's name that gave you the 7, you'll see that 7 is the highest he has given out.

He's like that hated teacher in school that despite busting your hump for them, you'll never get better than a B.

So, it doesn't bother me nor most of the world-wise  clients who know how to read reviews.

Don't let the numbers get to you.

HollyPaige See my TER Reviews 1637 reads
posted
2 / 22

I was checking to see if i got any new reviews this morning and i had two one was my typical 9's and 10's but the other review if you read it you would think it would also deserve the same but instead i was only given 7's. If you read the review it sounds like a great time was had by all. So am i being silly that i am letting this bother me?

Do the numbers mean a lot or is the review itself that people rely on. I used to take pride that the lowest number i had ever gotten was an 8 now i am a 7?

really

thanks for letting me vent  

Holly

weipeikei See my TER Reviews 766 reads
posted
3 / 22

How many once in a lifetime's can one person have? Besides, it's not the scores that are all that important, it's the experience that's reflecting in the review.

misscox See my TER Reviews 567 reads
posted
4 / 22

I've had 8's and 9's then I get a 7. Then that same 7's poster, posted 9's oa a review of me on another site

whitneywilcoxx See my TER Reviews 821 reads
posted
5 / 22

I feel you. This is why I look at the reviews a guy writes before I see him as part of my screening.  If he's difficult to please (which is usually evident when he's seeing great girls but consistently scores low), or if he doesn't see my type, I pass.  I don't want to give someone a '7' experience.  I want them to have an awesome experience with me. Gotta love those "I don't normally choose Whitney's type (meaning chunky), but Whitney was awesome!" backhanded compliments.  

Some guys aren't great clients.  Some girls aren't great providers. A lot can be assessed from reviews on both parts.  

I think the fact that a lower score bothers you, shows you care about the service you provide. A low score can sting us a little.  

Whit.

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Newfy64 2 Reviews 535 reads
posted
6 / 22

More value on what is written than the numbers. Numbers are the eye of the beholder and we all see things different Holly. :)

Nnoway 13 Reviews 519 reads
posted
7 / 22

Also rating at times can be difficult because of the verbal evaluators attached to it. Like for example when you mark someone as One in a lifetime (10) and then you mark somebody else One in a lifetime, that by definition would be contradiction in terms.  

I can see how someone who is not overly excitable type, rather dry by nature and likes to take things literally, let's say by temperament he is either melancholic or phlegmatic would look at 9 - "Model material" or "Forgot it was a service" as something reserved for really really special situations and those type of people rarely "forget" that it's a service.  

For them Attractive maybe the highest possible complement while the terms like "Really Hot" reserved for crazy hot-tempered people who throw things at each other while "Hot Time" is already approaching exclamatory mode.

Like I used to know someone from Finland who would often tell us: "I'm controlled and cool minded Finn". after going through his first automobile purchase process in Boston, Juha exclaimed in a quite calm even voice: "I want to kill them all now. I hate them very much.". Would you expect a Model Material rating out of such person? Trust me, if Juha were to mark you Above average that would probably be a higher rating then me saying One in a lifetime :)

Bob Crane 72 Reviews 629 reads
posted
8 / 22

I actually think a few lower numbers add to the validity of the reviews. I don't know about any other guys, but if I see every number as a 9 or 10, I get suspicious that the fix is in (that is, the provider asks for great reviews).  Besides, some guys just want to fight grade inflation and won't give out 9s or 10s.  

Personally, I couldn't care less about a 7. If I look at a girl's reviews, I scan the numbers and make sure there are no 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5's to make sure it's not a rip off situation. Then I'll look to see if there are any reviewers I recognize, and if so, are they normal guys and what is his review history? (Very often you'll notice a girl with one review and it's from a guy with one review, which I always take as a red flag for a self-shill of some kind.) I usually only actually read the reviews if I'm bored.  

No need to sweat it.

PacoQ 26 Reviews 607 reads
posted
9 / 22

Basically don't let it get to ya. Like others have said, it's about the content of the review, not just the numbers.  

Personally, the 6 to 8 range is what I consider to be a gray area. There have been several times I've considered a 7 over an 8, and it always comes down how I feel a couple of days after my visit (or vice versa) with a provider. If I'm still feeling "the warm and fuzzies," then the higher I'll put the number.  

Granted, this is coming from one who has a ton of 8s and 9s in my review portfolio, but I do have some lower numbers in there.  

In the end, don't sweat it, but it's certainly an interesting conversation/debate to have.

players2 9 Reviews 442 reads
posted
10 / 22

When I look at a ladies reviews his would stick out as someone who is just being a hard ass.

HollyPaige See my TER Reviews 650 reads
posted
11 / 22

I want to thank everyone who responded . I have been very fortunate i have met some really super people and i do pride myself on providing the best experience possible. I think what i found surprising what that this client who was nice seemed to have such a wonderful time. I am not a clock watcher and we went 30 min over time which is never a problem as always have an hour between appointments just so no one will ever feel rushed.  so after all that i guess i was surprised at what i considered a low number.

But  have taken all your kind words to heart and I feel better.  

thank you  

all

Holly xoxo

defender 485 reads
posted
12 / 22

Very simple....most these reviews are just crazy...7 is Hot and Hot time...the reason i do not write reviews is I am very honest and some of these ladies with 9 and 10s that I have seen are not even close to it....I have been with 9 and 10s from around the world and so from my sample pool of meetings I would write a review based on my experiences...7 does not bother me if it is in line with the way the guy reviews...

octovert 577 reads
posted
13 / 22

Maybe someone who wants to know how good she really is/was should back-channel each 9 and 10 reviewer. Only trouble is, a provider who suspects this is going on might check up no her high reviewers the same way.  

To me any provider with a vegan wardrobe is less than 5, anyway

cameronrae See my TER Reviews 554 reads
posted
14 / 22

Some people feel that giving a 9 or 10 is somehow dishonest.  Or that the rating system is skewed.  

With some gentlemen, Scarlet Johansson or Angelina Jolie could barely scrape 8's.  

It's all good.  Just keep calm and love on.  Most gents that I've met tell me they throw out the lowest and highest score anyways, especially if they seem to be outliers

cameronrae See my TER Reviews 513 reads
posted
15 / 22

Whitney,  

I do the SAME EXACT THING.  Why would I risk a 6 or 7 in looks when it's obvious that the only ladies who've received higher have been (insert type here: spinner/asian/short/blond etc).  I risked it one time and my only 7/7 was the result

ng4u 70 Reviews 487 reads
posted
16 / 22

HUGS!!!!!
I personally do not follow 100% of the time the number related to the review or what one persons said.  In some cases people over rate or in you case under rate an experience but who am I to judge someone's experience and judgment based on subjectivity. You need to look at the overall work of the person, in your case Holly, this review number would not stop me from seeing you.  You are super sexy have so many reviews to make this one not relevant.   Stay positive and you keep pleasing the rest of us!!!! and forget about that one

ng4u 70 Reviews 526 reads
posted
17 / 22

Yet you saw me.... I don't give high reviewer you earned them said the teach

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 636 reads
posted
18 / 22

Expect more of yourself every day, if a review is a 7, yes be bummed. i know i want to kick ass and take names at any thing and every thing i do.
 if i am going to bake for example its not a chocolate cake from a mix, i will go and make some organic raw food cake with organic dates and carob and walnuts and take the whole evening doing it,  
dont . please....
dont listen to any one who says you shouldnt care or always want to be better.
 i know those are the same people who when they go to make cakes, they use the box mix thats in the banged up sale cart and they dont even have eggs and thier cakes suck.
 your awsome to be annoyed. you deserve better. dont ever change.
in fact.  
 women . fact. are superior to men. with out us they wouldnt be here, for many reasons we are superior.
any man who thinks any woman fat old tired, bad day , is a seven.  
 chances are if he is paying you your the hotter more experienced in the bedroom one by far.
 no woman should be a seven, they all should be tens in my book. even the bird lady. hahha. {you know the gal they made fun of on g.d. for distracted herself during an appt by whistling to her pet birds.
 The day i wake up and settle for mediocrasy. ha.
 that day will never come.
 Always be tough on yourself.  
and always question authority.
 who ever the guy is . he is probly some miserabe.
Those people telling you not to care. i guess they are just relaxed personalities.  
i know i am upset when i get a bad review. wicked bad!!!!!
if i felt i had deserved it that be a different story.
 but where you say the text in the review as well as his behavior and all. you feel you deserved better.
 keep telling yourself that,  
cuz you do.
he is an ass your a ten. the fact your a woman means your already a ten, if it were up to me, they are all 5 s. just for being men, hahha.

randyj_boston 5 Reviews 532 reads
posted
19 / 22

Hi Holly,

As some have said, don't let it get to you.  When I'm looking through reviews, I often see people who rate 7 or 8 but the words sound more like 9 or 10, and I just mentally bump it up if most of the other reviews are 9 or 10.  Some people just take the descriptions too literally.

If you had nothing but 7's, then it might be an issue, but one or two 7's in a sea of 8's, 9's and 10's isn't going to keep anyone away.

And, for the record, you are both beautiful and fun to be with, otherwise I wouldn't have come back so many times!

Seriously (to everyone else), go see Holly if you get a chance, she's great!

- Randy

Brthtkngbrooke 538 reads
posted
20 / 22

I completely understand your post, and I have experience with this.  
The review is all based on someone's experience but that's not all- for every situation people bring in their own experiences, interpretations and expectations. The way one perceives an experience vs. what really happened is usually very different. I always consider the source of the reviewer and then I can try to understand but most of the time, like you, I am left scratching my head.  
Bottom line is that you can not control what others say think or do. At the end of the day if you are who you are and do the best you can, what does it really matter? We also can't assume that we know how outside readers will think of a 7- because we don't know that- it may not be such a horrible score to the reader. This review thing is enough to drive a lady crazy as it's impossible to please everyone all of the time so I say do your best and have fun- the cards will fall Into place.  
Reviews can not dictate your business practices based on other people's expectations as that's a loosing game... just do your thing and keep it movin'! Last unsolicited comment from me is that the scores are strangely skewed as an attractive 7 is not bad but on here it appears to be "bad"... In reality, supermodels may be 10's and it goes down from there so in the real world, a 7 to me wouldn't be so bad it's the inflated scores on the board that we have become so accustomed to receiving that essentially warp OUR perception. You are fabulous stay confident and know that you're the best- anyone who is able to spend time with you is just lucky! Know that the score does not define who you are so don't give it your power.  
I included one of my favorite songs by Ricky Nelson "Garden Party" ;) sing along!
Be well
Brooke

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 404 reads
posted
21 / 22

.... still it's weird reading a review that sounds pretty kick-ass to see a 7/7 or 6/7. Makes you scratch your head a little bit.

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