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I actually don't like envelopes unless we are meeting publicly then I prefer that we prearrange something simple and discreet like a card/envelope situation. I'd much rather a gent simply greet me with a hug and kiss and leave his donation/tribute/honorarium on the nearest surface and excuse himself to freshen up. I see no need for the envelope at all except as a money holder, I need to discreetly count and verify.

It is simply a good business practice, it is a very pleasurable business however it is a business. I certainly do not want to feel like I got screwed after what was a great time. It's always wise to take care of biz first and then dive into the fun so that we can enjoy with no interruptions.

Just my .02

Cheers,
Grace

yajtsenre1414 reads

a chick counts the donation in front of them? Get over it!!!

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sweetnicole1943 reads

it has to be counted and examined to some degree.
with all the funny bills out there theres a real issue.
I dont worry too much about it but I hear tons of stories so it seems to be the way of the world.

I try to be discrete if you dont want to see her count your money go to the bathroom to freshen up giving her an oppertunity to do so.

you would count it if the tables were turned save yourself the issue and excuse yourself from the room.

seeems to ust be ne more thing to whine about.
Ive never read a restaurant review where they said oh no they counted my money when I paid the bill. Stop ya bitchin boys...it IS PAY for play.

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AllyMoore897 reads

No one wants to feel cheap in these transactions- or at least I don't.

I would imagine that a man who experiences a chick counting in front of him feels the way that I feel when someone comes to visit and afterwards pulls out a money clip or a roll of cash and starts doling out bills one at a time (sometimes accompanied by "how much do I owe you?" or an expression that says 'tell me when to stop Ally').

One doesn't have to make a production out of it.

There are a lot of Shady Gradys running around cheating girls (a few weeks ago I was in the garage of a Hartford hotel pulling my luggage out of the trunk when a man sprinted off of the elevator and through the door while looking over his shoulder, jumped in his car and sped off.  I thought to myself 'some girl just got ripped off' lol).  Seriously- girls shouldn't be afraid to count if they have to.

If a provider is not comfortable with her screening or doesn't trust the guests that she's meeting she can make a little process that leaves everyone feeling comfortable and at ease i.e. instructing everyone to place their gift on the nearest surface upon entering and excuse themselves to the bathroom to wash their hands and rinse their mouth so that she can count the gift and secure it.

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giggity7657 reads

Best advice here.

I've never had a provider count the money in the envelope in front of me, but I always excuse myself to wash up immediately after placing the envelope on whatever surface looks most appropriate.  I assume the provider counts while I'm cleaning up, but I could care less.   I don't want to get ripped off, and I respect her desire not to get ripped off.

If you don't want to see it being counted, go wash up.  You should do that anyway.

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MassGuy79326 reads

usually when I am seeing someone new when I arrive I place the envelope within eye sight and I ask to excuse myself and use the restroom. I have found that is the easiest way to deal with the awkward moment.

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TrulyMsMocha558 reads

....sure it's hot to read in a review "she just ignored the envelope and began to devour my cock" but aside from screening helping to greatly reduce the risk of seeing a bad client I would hope the gent would want the provider happy knowing that her time it 100% take care of before the fun starts. I would ever count it in front of a client because well it feels weird to me too *shrugs*.
SO.....unless you showered just before coming over place the donation down and then excuse yourself to still wash your hands and gargle w/ mouthwash (especially if you plan to put your hands all over my private areas and plan to stick your tongue down my throat and anywhere else :) ). Even if I "trust" you I'm only going to be 100% comfortable knowing everything is square (while you take a minute....or 5 in the bathroom).

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sweetnicole1607 reads

it Does happen and more than you think and I believe its more often than not an honest mistake.
But since I dont count the envelope all the time and just glance, its a chance that a $20 or $40 short can happen.

Then there are those who honestly its not a mistake, they know my donation and choose to make up their own price.

if the Lady chooses to count it, well honestly thats her choice go to the restroom and allow her to ease her mind. THEN on with the festivities!

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sexy1jill708 reads

All my regular clients all know the drill, they come in, put the money down, go wash up. That gives the girl the time to count it and put it away out of site. If they do not  follow protocol the lady is to call me, and I will ask the client to leave. The problem is that sometimes both the ladies and the gentlemen think that once they have seen each other a bunch of times they can stray from this process, that is when the problems occur, usually shortages, or forgetting to get paid at all. 95% of the time it is an honest mistake and usually a simple phone call from me can rectify the problem. The 5% who did this on purpose get banned, hoping that if they try to use the service again in a few months that I will forget, but unfortunately for them I always remember.

Bottom line, if you excuse yourself to use the restroom (which you should always do anyway to at least wash your hands, minimum )that gives the lady time to take care of business and you don't have to watch her do it, giving you more of a GFE feel.

Jill:)

Posted By: sweetnicole1
it Does happen and more than you think and I believe its more often than not an honest mistake.
But since I dont count the envelope all the time and just glance, its a chance that a $20 or $40 short can happen.

Then there are those who honestly its not a mistake, they know my donation and choose to make up their own price.

if the Lady chooses to count it, well honestly thats her choice go to the restroom and allow her to ease her mind. THEN on with the festivities!

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Flirt Escorts449 reads

It really doesn't matter how often it happens or doesn't really. Fact is it happens. Empty envelopes, fake money and even in some cases, monopoly money, also happens!  Proper etiquette when it comes to checking the donation should always be in place, and the gentlemanly thing to do would be to give the provider those 2 min, as already mentioned.

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MonsterJazzII538 reads

Amen!

Mj

Posted By: Flirt Escorts
It really doesn't matter how often it happens or doesn't really. Fact is it happens. Empty envelopes, fake money and even in some cases, monopoly money, also happens!  Proper etiquette when it comes to checking the donation should always be in place, and the gentlemanly thing to do would be to give the provider those 2 min, as already mentioned.

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MonsterJazzII580 reads

What the gentleman forget is that this is business and only business.    When you go to get your car fixed at your local mechanic and pay for the service the cashier they count your payment, same thing happens when you go to the dentist.  Some of these guys forget that this is a business not a relationship.  Now, I do understand that this may be all they have but never the less it is a business deal.  Just like the dentist, a service for monetary compensation.  Personally I always excuse myself to freshen up and hopefully the lady will take care of what she needs too.  She can even count it in front of me and it is ok.  If I am serious and understand what we are doing who cares!

So guys, get over it and come back to reality!  This is there business and you choose to participate in the hobby.  Pay up and call it a day!  Life is to short to worry about how and when to pay.  Have fun and get lost in the time you rent.  

Just my $0.02 cents, well now in todays economy $0.25 cents!

Mj

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Foodyguy1092 reads

I believe my local mechanic also offers GFE.   But his is the Get F...ed Experience.

I agree it is a business and the providers make the rules in this case, especially after we give them the gold(envelope).

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NHughty452 reads

I was running late for an appointment with one of Sonny's girls once. I grabbed an envelope, put some of the donation in, and then stopped at an ATM along the way to get the rest. Got to the appointment (barely on time), had a great session, and left the girl what I thought was a nice tip?

10 mins out of the parking lot my phone rang. It was Sonny and he was screaming!! As soon as he said I shorted his girl I realized the ATM withdrawl I made never got added to the envelope. I did an immediate U-turn and waited almost 90 mins for the girl to finish her next appointment so I could go back up and make it right.

After that anytime I called Sonny I always got the feeling he didn't trust me? If the girl's routine was to check the envelope when I arrived it would have saved a lot of trouble.

From that point on I always place the donation out as soon as I arrive, and make it a point to have the girl check while I freshen up.

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sweetnicole1508 reads

it can still be the same GFE sensual time we all hope for and in a way even more relaxing knowing its all set one less thing to focus on.
All thats left is playtime!

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GraceShepherd581 reads

I actually don't like envelopes unless we are meeting publicly then I prefer that we prearrange something simple and discreet like a card/envelope situation. I'd much rather a gent simply greet me with a hug and kiss and leave his donation/tribute/honorarium on the nearest surface and excuse himself to freshen up. I see no need for the envelope at all except as a money holder, I need to discreetly count and verify.

It is simply a good business practice, it is a very pleasurable business however it is a business. I certainly do not want to feel like I got screwed after what was a great time. It's always wise to take care of biz first and then dive into the fun so that we can enjoy with no interruptions.

Just my .02

Cheers,
Grace

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arp1701816 reads

On the one hand I'm fine with counting it in front of me, on the other there is some logic to an envelope.  In a situation that might involve LE if there is no money flagrantly displayed then no one can say outright there was solicitation.  Someone displays money in front of both parties, you're sunk.  That's why a lot of ladies don't want $ discussed on the phone or in person.

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