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post date chit chat
Demcc3 27 Reviews 1307 reads
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No I'm not referring to pillow talk after the main event but rather after the date is over, in between dates?  I like to keep in touch and maintain a certain connection with  regulars between dates with them (I also reallize that some hobbyists may not agree with this approach and I respect that).  

My question is how can guys "keep in touch" with agency girls.  Its a no no to give out personal info (although I think it happens) and you can't really chit chat with the booking agent and expect your message to get to the girl.

Thanks

D.

1736687 15 Reviews 170 reads
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2 / 7

Most of the girls don't regard someone they saw once as a friend.. I'm guessing.. and they regard the contact as "work" ... of ciurse,  it is possible that someone you know from "work" can become a friend.. but it usually takes awhile..  and staying in touch with a girl who works for an agency.. is like expecting someone who works in your office as a temp a friend after their first day there.. kinda weird..

mrfisher 115 Reviews 188 reads
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3 / 7

So, if she wants to, she'll get your number and call or text.

 
So, don't worry about it.  

GaGambler 144 reads
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4 / 7

Do NOT ask for her number, simply give her yours, tell her you like her and would love to hear from her, and if she likes you, you'll hear from her. If you don't hear from her, don't push it.

I have done this on numerous occasions with agency girls, and even a few AMP girls that I liked and that I believed might like me. Several of them have called over the years, a few of them became "friends" and a select few became "more than friends"  

A word of advice however, don't expect to hear from any of them and if you don't, do NOT make an issue out of it if you book with them again. If you do hear from any of them, don't necessarily read a lot into it. She could be calling you for any one of a number of reasons, ranging from "good customer relationships" to "wanting to cut out the agency fee" to actually liking you and wanting to either keep in touch or more.  

One 18 year old agency (American) girl I gave my number to, knowing she wasn't going to last as a hooker over ten years from now still keeps in touch with me even though she is now married and has a couple of kids. You never know, just don't go expecting a lot.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 132 reads
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5 / 7

wirh IRL relationships as well as p4p. Throw in career/work ecoectations for good measure. I
Used to say you need to get your teeth kicked down your throat occasionally to succeed in life. True.

But in my experience, being a good guy is greatly appreciated by escorts. Being a good fuck is icing  
on the cake.  

And like IRL, a forced relationship is a doomed one.  
Let it happen and enjoy it while it runs hot. Many guys and gals here like the LIFESTYLE and don't need a LTR to be happy.

Lovely_Jules See my TER Reviews 122 reads
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As a rule of thumb I limit interactions with clients to our designated meeting times. Even regulars! I do this not because I want to clock every single second but rather in order to be fair to everyone I see. The reality is that any off the clock time is essentially "free" and more or less unfair to those who book and donate towards allotments of my time. Remember you aren't donating for a specific act when seeing a lady. You are donating for an increment of her time no matter what occurs.  

With that being said there are a handful of folks I have developed shall we say off the clock relationships with. But I will say these gents have found other ways to add value to my life. Everything from serving as legal counsel on business deals, to covering vacations and much more. My rule of thumb with such interactions and situations is that it is reserved for my top clients (yes I have a donation and time tracker). This is a business and should be treated as such for the most part. Just as you wouldn't ask your attorney or therapist to maintain a relationship where they weren't being compensated in some manner. You should use that school of thought with a lady you enjoy the company of.  

If you do find a lady who offers you her time, perhaps consider sending her an ocassional thank you of a sephora or Starbucks e gift. Or target so she can load up on Supplies. I will tell you that a little thought goes a long way for most ladies.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 131 reads
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7 / 7

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